As the old saying goes, "It is advisable for his family, and then he can teach his countrymen." "The quality of family life often affects the individual's demeanor and even determines its future. Only those who handle family relations well can have the ability and qualification to teach the people of our country. And the root of family happiness lies in the harmonious relationship between husband and wife.
Many times, people only see successful men standing in front of the stage, but they don't know that behind them, there is often a person who supports and trusts them - their wives.
Zhu Rongji, former premier of the Republic, and his wife Lao'an were such a good couple; Zhu Rongji took serving the people as his faith, and Lao'an helped him handle the trivial affairs of life, so that he had no worries about the future, and was the "loveliest" arm behind Zhu Rongji.
< h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > born famous in the wind and rain to study</h1>
Although most people know Lau An because of her status as Zhu Rongji's wife, Lau An herself is also a woman with an outstanding family and excellent growth.
Born in Hunan in 1929, Lao An is the daughter of a local celebrity. The famous Hunan Jiuzhi Hall was founded by the ancestors of the Lao family. In the 1930s, the Jiuzhitang Medicine Shop was quite large,000 and spread all over the streets.
Unfortunately, in 1938, Changsha City was burned by the "Wenxi Fire", and a large number of valuable Chinese herbal medicines in the shops and shops of Jiuzhitang burned out in the fire, causing heavy losses. After the victory of the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression, thanks to the efforts of Lao An's father, Lao Shaoji, and others, Changsha Lao Jiu Zhi Tang was revived and revitalized.
To this day, this brand is still inherited, and has been recognized as "China's time-honored brand" by the Ministry of Commerce.
Although Lauan did not come from a humble background, due to the turmoil of the situation at that time, Lauan's early childhood was not smooth.
Since the Japanese army's all-out war of aggression against China in 1937, tens of millions of children under Chinese territory have been sad to live in stability and peace. In 1939, the Hunan Second Nursery School was established to house and train hundreds of children who had been displaced by war or other reasons, and Lao'an was one of them.
Later, the war in northern Hunan was tight, and Lao An followed the second conservationist of Hunan to move to Chaling, not only lacking clothes and food on the way, but also had to avoid the bombing of enemy aircraft by the Japanese army. For The Young Lauan, it was a particularly difficult and impressive journey.
After the "Wenxi Fire", Lao An's father, Lao Shaoji, rented a private house in Chaling Old Street and founded the Chaling Office of the Agricultural Bank of China in order to resist Japan and save the country.
In 1939, at the age of 10, Lao An arrived at Chaling in a bumpy road to be able to reunite with his father.
People in the depths of turbulent times understand that only education can shape the character and cultivation of the next generation, to survive, to progress, to end all this catastrophe.
Therefore, although the years of relocation to Chaling are still very difficult, the teachers of the nursery school still tirelessly educate the children in patriotism, knowledge and culture, and the ability to take care of themselves.
In terms of cultural learning, teachers have taught children according to their learning level and achieved good results. In the practice of life, the teacher led the children to grow vegetables, raise pigs, transport coal, sew clothes, and cultivate the children's independent character.
Perhaps it is the turbulence and displacement of childhood life, the children of the nursery school especially cherish this hard-won learning opportunity, and many people have stepped out of here, stepped into the palace of the university, and eventually grown into the pillars of the country. Lauan is one of them.
In 1943, Lao An was admitted from the nursery school to the provincial no. 2 middle school, and in 1944 transferred to the provincial no. 12 middle school. In 1951, Lao An walked out of Hunan and entered the Department of Electrical Engineering of Tsinghua University, and thus became Zhu Rongji's sister.
After work, Lao An also wanted to return to Chaling many times to remember the years of life and study, but he was unable to make the trip for various reasons.
< H1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > middle school acquaintance with Tsinghua</h1>
Most people think that Zhu Rongji and Lao An met on the Tsinghua campus, but in fact, Zhu Rongji and Lao An met much earlier than that.
Lao An and Zhu Rongji were actually fellow villagers, they were both from Hunan, and more coincidentally, both of them had attended school in western Hunan. Although Lao An was younger than Zhu Rongji, the two were not in the same class, but Lao An's brother Lau Te An and Zhu Rongji were classmates, and Zhu Rongji thus knew Lao An.
Although it is not where the first acquaintance is, Tsinghua is still the initial place where Zhu Rongji and Lao An fell in love and held hands for a lifetime.
In 1947, Zhu Rongji was admitted to the Department of Electrical Engineering of Tsinghua University with the first place in Hunan Province and studied motor manufacturing. In 1951, Zhu Rongji graduated from Tsinghua University, and Lao An also entered the Department of Electrical Engineering of Tsinghua University to study, becoming Zhu Rongji's sister..
Similar growth experiences and the same educational background provide conditions for the two to fall in love. In 1956, Zhu Rongji and Lao An got married in Changsha.
When Lao Anshang was studying at Tsinghua University, he had already given birth to a child for Zhu Rongji.
Zhu Rongji and Lao An have a son and a daughter, and both children were born when Lao An was studying at Tsinghua University. The couple's first child, daughter Yanlai, was born at Tsinghua's school hospital. On the eve of Lao An's graduation, when he was busy with the defense of his graduation thesis, he was already pregnant with the second child of the two, his son Yun, in his belly.
Tsinghua's educational experience shaped the lives of Zhu Rongji and Lao An, and also indirectly influenced the growth of their children.
Zhu Rongji and Lao An's children were born on the Tsinghua campus, and were naturally influenced by Mizuki Tsinghua's upright and rigorous study style, although none of them had any study experience at Tsinghua, but Tsinghua's spirit had penetrated deep into their marrow.
"Although they did not go to Tsinghua, they have the spirit of Tsinghua." This is Zhu Rongji's father's evaluation of Zhu Yanlai and Zhu Yunlai in a speech at Tsinghua University, which implies precisely his gratitude and praise for the spirit of Tsinghua.
Many years after their retirement, Zhu Rongji and Lao An also remembered Tsinghua's cultivation and earnestly cared about the development of their alma mater.
Zhu Rongji served as the first dean of the School of Economics and Management, and in 2016, he also attended the annual conference of Tsinghua School of Economics and Management with his wife. They are all happy to see that Tsinghua has developed well and the School of Economics and Management has developed well.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > and Er'an and Er's Tribulation</h1>
When it comes to the feelings of Zhu Rongji and Lao An and his wife, everyone who knows them is full of praise and envy.
In life, Lau Ann took good care of her husband's diet and living. Although Zhu Rongji and another great man in modern China, Mao Zedong, came out of Hunan together, Zhu Rongji was not as spicy and unhappy as Mao Zedong, but his taste was light, and Lao An naturally prepared food for him according to Zhu Rongji's taste.
When Zhu Rongji was still at work, as long as he did not really shirk it, he would choose to go home and have dinner with Lao An.
When Lao An appeared in front of the public as the premier's wife, he always smiled and silently accompanied his husband jun, giving Zhu Rongji silent encouragement and support. Zhu Rongji also said that he was proud to have such a wife.
Once, at an event, someone ridiculed Zhu Rongji, and I heard that Premier Zhu was not afraid of anything, but only Mrs. Lao'an, so what do you think your wife has that makes you feel terrible? Zhu Rongji smiled and said, "I don't think she's scary at all, I think she's cute." The man asked, "If your wife were not here, would you answer the same question?" Premier Zhu said, "Of course, it is the same on the inside."
If Zhu Rongji, who has always been known for his "iron face," be able to say such words in public, it can be seen that the relationship between the husband and wife can really be called Qinse and Ming.
Some people may envy Lao'an, whose husband is in a high position and has no worries about food and clothing all his life, but in fact, Zhu Rongji's career is not smooth, but Lao'an is not a person who is facing difficulties and flying separately.
Even at the low point of Zhu Rongji's career, Lao An still did not abandon him, believing in her husband's character and ability, and was the staunchest supporter behind Zhu Rongji.
When refuting the US delegation's criticism of the Women's Issue in China, Zhu Rongji jokingly said: I completely listen to my wife at home, and I don't have a penny in my pocket now, so I have handed it all over to my wife. But in fact, for the "expenses" of her husband to help the people, Lao An has always supported unconditionally.
In 2014, Zhu Rongji, who was already a former premier of the State Council, once again attracted widespread attention for a donation news. It turned out that since 2013, Zhu Rongji has donated more than 20 million yuan, ranking 60th in China's charity list, and all this money is the royalties obtained by Zhu Rongji from his retirement, and Zhu Rongji and his wife have donated all of them for the cause of mass education.
< h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > enjoy their old age together</h1>
After Zhu Rongji retired, he spent most of his time living with his wife in Beijing and Shanghai. Whether Zhu Rongji went to Shanghai to watch a play or returned to his alma mater, Tsinghua University, to participate in the celebrations, Lao An silently accompanied him.
In 2012, after his retirement, Zhu Rongji appeared at the Shanghai Grand Theatre with his wife Lao An to watch a Spring Festival Peking Opera gala. At that time, the 84-year-old Zhu Rongji was still very good in spirit, spoke quickly, was also very humorous, and even used Internet tide language, laughing and asking everyone to hold on to these three hours.
In the same year, Zhu Rongji also visited the Lin Zexu Memorial Hall in Fuzhou with Lao'an. On that day, the weather was a little cold, and the two of them were tired of the boat, and Lao An, who was wearing a dark red shirt, followed Zhu Rongji closely, paying attention to her husband's physical condition, and occasionally gently helping her wife.
Don't look at Zhu Rongji's seriousness and frighteningness during his reign, after his retirement, Zhu Rongji showed himself in front of everyone, but he was extremely humorous and humorous, and he was full of laughter.
After retirement, Zhu Rongji is very willing to chat with people, and Zhu Rong is basically a person with rich knowledge and a wide range of knowledge, so he can often talk about it and even a little unable to stop the car.
Young people always have their own work and arrangements, and Zhu Rongji sometimes laughs at himself and says, "Now it's not that I'm afraid I don't have time to talk, but I'm afraid that you don't have time to talk." But in fact, every time Zhu Rongji talked about the world, he would be accompanied by one of the most loyal listeners, Lao An.
Zhu Rongji and his wife Lao An are both Peking Opera lovers, and when they were still studying in Tsinghua, they successively worked as ticket holders in the Tsinghua Peking Opera Team, and after retirement, the two left more time and energy to this hobby.
Lao An can sing, she once learned mei pai and Xun pai singing; Zhu Rongji will pull, after retirement, Zhu Rongji studied hard, and even specially sought a famous teacher to guide, Lajinghu's level and ability have been greatly improved.
When the excitement came, the two held a husband and wife Peking Opera party at home. When Lao An hung his throat and opened his mouth, Zhu Rongji was accompanied by Jinghu as his wife, and this happy and harmonious scene was very envious of others.
When you are older, you will inevitably have some small problems, and Zhu Rongji is no exception. The person who was most worried about Zhu Rongji's health was none other than Lao'an.
After his retirement, Zhu Rongji was diagnosed with a tumor and underwent resection for this purpose. At that time, Lao An was worried about this small tumor all day and had difficulty sleeping and eating. In fact, all those in the know believe that it is a benign tumor, as long as it is removed. However, Lao An was still difficult to rest assured, and it was not until after the operation, after the pathology test, that the tumor was indeed benign, and Lao An was relieved.
"And Er kai old", the promise at the wedding, Zhu Rongji and Lao An really did it.
October 23, 2020, is Zhu Rongji's 92nd birthday. Photos of Zhu Rongji wearing a red robe celebrating his birthday in the hospital flowed out, and although Zhu Rongji, who was sitting in the middle, had some gray hair, he was still in good spirits and did not reduce his spirits. Mrs. Lauan also sat beside him with a smile, presenting a scene of harmony and beauty.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > good family style children low-key</h1>
Zhu Rongji's family style is extremely strict, on the one hand, he himself is in a high position, every move is eye-catching, and his family should naturally be used as an example; on the other hand, it is also caused by his childhood experience, which has created a character that cannot tolerate sand in his eyes. All this was infused into Zhu Rongji's attitude toward life and his family philosophy.
There have been media reports that when Zhu Rongji was the mayor of Shanghai, his granddaughter was still transported to and from school by his wife Lao An every day by bicycle. Once, when there was a sudden rainstorm, the guards used a bus to send the children to the kindergarten out of safety considerations, and zhu Rongji immediately settled the gasoline bill with the administrative office of the municipal party committee after learning about this.
Zhu Rongji attached great importance to the education of his children, and from an early age, he hoped that his children would become upright and honest people.
When Zhu Yunlai was more than ten years old, he picked up a piece of tattered linoleum and went home, and when Zhu Rongji saw it, he taught Zhu Yunlai that no matter how poor or rich he was, he could not take other people's things, and even slapped Zhu Yunlai.
Later, Zhu Rongji learned that this piece of linoleum was picked up by Zhu Yunlai from the garbage heap, and Zhu Rongji also regretted hitting him. However, the strictness of Zhu Rongji's family style can be seen.
For this kind of strict family education, Zhu Yanlai also has a deep feeling, "Our family style is really quite strict, my parents have always emphasized the honesty and integrity of being a person, and since childhood told us that no matter what the situation, we must be positive, promising, but also down-to-earth." ”
It is Precisely Zhu Rongji's education that has enabled Zhu Yunlai to maintain a rigorous and low-key style after becoming an adult.
When Zhu Yunlai was a general manager of CICC, he wrote a 500-page financial research report for a state-owned enterprise.
After becoming the CEO of CICC, Zhu Yunlai was extremely low-key, the office did not place photos of his father, refused to publish photos in the company's anniversary publications, and remained silent in the face of reporters' questions at the company's cocktail party, refusing to exchange business cards with reporters.
Although Zhu Yunlai has always been low-key, when speaking in some public occasions, he has shown a sharp and straightforward speech style like a father, not avoiding hot topics, and what he says is what he thinks.
At the annual meeting of the Boao Forum for Asia in 2015, the vice president of a company praised the CSRC, and Zhu Yunlai bluntly said that this was their duty in itself.
Under the careful cultivation of Zhu Rongji and Lao An, both Zhu Yanlai and Zhu Yunlai grew into extremely outstanding talents.
Zhu Yanlai
Zhu Yanlai studied both in philosophy at Chinese University, and later went to Canada for further study, where she obtained a master's degree in sociology. After graduation, she mainly worked in the financial field, joined the Bank of China in 1997, and was also a member of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference, participating in the two sessions many times.
Zhu Yunlai is a Ph.D. in atmospheric physics, but after entering the financial field, he has presided over the public offering of several state-owned enterprises, and was even named one of the "25 Most Influential Business Leaders in Asia" by Fortune magazine as early as 2004.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > concluding remarks:</h1>
A harmonious living atmosphere and good family relations will inevitably have a positive impact and promotion effect on the development of an individual's career.
Zhu Rongji's success lies not only in the success of his personal political status, but also in the success of family relations. At this point, his wife, Lau An, has done a great job.
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > references:</h1>
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Tang Jianguang. Graduates: The Chinese Rings of Tsinghua in the Past Century[M]. 2011 edition.