Recently, I have read a lot of reviews about "Dream of the Red Chamber", and in the eyes of some readers, Xue Baochao is the most suitable wife.
In the eyes of those readers, Xue Baochao has many advantages:
For example, Sister Bao, good behavior, open-mindedness and generosity;
For example, Sister Bao, who is in good health and has a rich family.
In the eyes of those readers, Sister Bao is a beautiful, learned, no temper, can wash her hands to make soup, and use her mellow coping ability to serve everyone in the in-laws well.
Sister Bao has these advantages, of course, it is the best candidate to marry into the family as a wife.
Those readers never seem to notice that Sister Bao's ability to manage the house refers to Sister Bao's ability to be an excellent manager. Bao's sister, who was born into a rich family, is by no means an old woman who can do housework.
May I ask those readers, how big is their property, and are they willing to be managed by Sister Bao?
The Xue family is not a vegetarian, the family is shrewd and has a big appetite. The Xue family only allowed themselves to take advantage, and they were never allowed to eat a little loss!
Can marrying such a precious sister into the door as an ordinary reader?
At this point, suppose that an ordinary reader marries Xue Baochao into the door, and we use the means of substitution to see what kind of chicken feathers this ordinary reader will suffer...
One. Shrewd aunt Xue and sister Bao
Although the Xue family is rich, if there is no background behind them, the wealth of the Xue family is a floating cloud, which may disappear at any time.
For this matter, aunt Xue, the owner of the Xue family, knew it well.
Aunt Xue must choose to be a snob so that he can keep his family running properly.
Not putting eggs in one basket is typical of businessmen's thinking, and Aunt Xue has always done the same.
The Wang family is their own mother's family, and Aunt Xue can still speak. The relationship between the Xue family and the Rong Guo Mansion is much worse, after all, the Rong Guo Mansion is only the in-laws of Aunt Xue's sister Lady Wang.
This meant that Aunt Xue needed to spend a lot of effort and time to deal with Jia Mu, the supreme ruler of Rongguo Province.
In order to ensure the smooth operation of the Xue family's business, Aunt Xue had to deal with the relationship with the Wang family and the Rong Guofu at the same time.
The Xue family lived in Rongguo Mansion for more than ten years, and I did not write it wrong, that is, lived for more than ten years. Bao chao lived in RongGuo Mansion in his early 10s, bao chao was 15 years old in the 22nd time, 18 years old in the 45th time, and about 21 years old in the 80th time.
What does the Xue family, who have lived for so long, want to do?
Aunt Xue herself is a lady of the Wang family of the family, but she was married to a merchant by the family. Aunt Xue had already eaten enough of being a merchant woman, and she was bent on letting her sons and daughters marry high and high.
Jin Yuliang's marriage is just a bright line, after all, Baochao is smart and beautiful, and this girl can get her hands on it.
The Xue family also had a dark line, that is, they wanted Xue Pan to marry Jia Yingchun, the daughter of Jia Yu, the heir of the Rongguo Mansion.
Otherwise, why did the Xue family wait so long in the RongGuo Mansion, until Jia Yingchun got married, and Xue Pan, the old bachelor, did not marry his wife.
Xue Pan was Wang Xifeng's cousin, and he was twenty-seven or eighteen when he got married.
The people of Rong Guofu looked down on the Xue family and did not transfer it in time. No matter how long the Xue family waited, Xue Pan would not be able to marry the girl of the RongGuo Mansion.
Helpless, Aunt Xue took Xia Jingui, the daughter of the imperial merchant family who was the opposite of her own family.
Xia Jingui's door is absolutely worthy of the Xue family:
His family's original surname was Xia, and he was very rich. ...... Where the osmanthus outside the city of Chang'an is his family, even the bonsai that should be furnished in the palace is also his family's tribute,...... Only the grandmother lives with a biological girl...
The Xia family is also very rich, and their family has links with the harem, which means that the Xia family has a network larger than the Xue family.
Is it such a Xia Jingui, after marrying into the Xue family, has she become the young grandmother of the family and respected by the Xue family?
The answer is no.
What the Xue family wants to marry is only the resources and connections behind Xia Jingui. As for Xia Jingui herself, whether it was Aunt Xue or Xue Baochao, she had never looked up to her.
In Aunt Xue's eyes, a qualified daughter-in-law's style should be like Sanchun of Rong Guofu, permeated with the grace and quality of everyone's boudoir.
The arrogance and pungency that Xia Jingui carried on his body made Aunt Xue and Xue Baochao very disdainful.
Aunt Xue and Xue Baochao, watching the Xue family's business and resources closely, did not allow Xia Jingui to get started at all. Of course, the aunt of the Xia family is not a vegetarian, and the purpose of her marrying into the Xue family is to become the majority shareholder of the Xue family, and she is not here to be a daughter-in-law.
For the sake of tangible benefits, Aunt Xue and Xia Jingui quarreled endlessly every day.
And Xue Pan, the dumb overlord, could not handle all this!
As for readers who like Baochao, please start from here, at this time he married Xue Baochao.
Two. The Xue family is a huge burden
Someone married Xue Baochao, which was a huge burden for Rong Guofu.
At this time, the Rong Guo Mansion could be completely cut from the Xue family.
The Xue family, no matter how thick-skinned, could not continue to live in the Rong Guo Mansion.
Readers who marry Xue Baochao, don't fantasize about bringing in the beautiful days that you can live in Rongguo Mansion, at this time, readers, you must start to live a life of standing on the top of the door.
What a living you will be!
Ordinary you, how do you start to live with Xue Baochao? Naturally, there must be a job to make a living, and since it is a brain-hole topic, it is a brain-opening, whether it is ancient work or modern work.
Calculate a high salary for you, even if you earn 50,000 yuan a month, of course, you have to hand over the 50,000 yuan to Xue Baochao for distribution, do you know how this girl will be distributed?
Xue Baochao is a big lady of a rich family, usually want a oil and salt fried goji buds, you can tip the next person 500 yuan, that is a month's salary of the little girl.
Can you stand such a tip?
Of course, marrying Xue Baochao is not only a matter of tipping, Xue Baochao this girl will not do housework.
Please note that Xue Baochao does not do laundry, cooking, or cleaning. These things are all done by the Xue family.
What Xue Baochao will do is an exquisite female red such as embroidery, this kind of fine craftsmanship, as an ordinary reader, you may not be able to appreciate it.
In daily life, ordinary housework Xue Baochao will not do, all of which you need to ask an hourly worker to do.
Another huge expense, can you bear it?
Of course, marrying Xue Baochao is more than that, Xue Baochao's circle of friends is all a big miss of the family.
The golden locks brought by Xue Baochao cannot be equipped with the same ring all year round, and the pearl gems on the ring need to be replaced frequently.
For this expense, your monthly salary is not enough.
What kind of clothes Xue Baochao wears, just an ordinary winter coat can scare you:
Xue Baochao wore a lotus green bucket pattern with a brocade of flowers and foreign threads
This imported top haute couture will be almost the sum of your years' salary.
Of course, Xue Baochao can't just wear this one piece of clothing, and Xue Baochao's expense of wearing clothes can bankrupt you.
Baochao's daily life is not just about wearing clothes, a series of collocations, extravagant to unimaginable.
Are these still tangible expenses, intangible?
Xue Baochao This girl has a chronic disease, and she needs to eat cold incense pills all year round.
Cold incense pills are the top match among the top luxury goods.
First, let's take a look at the recipe of Cold Incense Pills:
White peony flowers, white lotus flowers, white hibiscus flowers, and white plum blossoms are each studied in twelve pairs, and mixed with the rain of the same year's rain festival, the dew of the white dew festival, the frost of the frost season, and the snow of the light snow festival, plus honey and sugar, etc., to make a longan pill, which is buried in a vessel and buried under the roots of the flower tree. At the onset of the disease, take one pill with the decoction of yellow cedar.
This delicacy, this luxury, goes without saying.
There's no real pharmacy in the world to match this stuff, you have to match it yourself.
How much manpower and material resources it takes to make such a pair of medicines, how much time and money to take, it is outrageous to think about.
Such a medicine, as an ordinary reader, you simply cannot afford it.
You can't even guarantee Xue Baochao's basic health, how can you afford to marry this girl?
Then it can only be assumed that you are a son-in-law who has inserted the door upside down, so that it is possible to complete the marriage with Xue Baochao.
In the face of the shrewd Xue family, how are you prepared to deal with it?
The Xue family is rich, but the Xue family's money can't even touch their own daughter-in-law, let alone an outsider.
Xue Baochao's dowry, you can't get a son.
You who become the son-in-law of the Xue family can only become a benchmark for Jackie Chan of the Xue family.
Are you the material for reading?
If so, you can still stay in the Xue family.
Xue Baochao will implement a strict cultivation plan for you.
This virtuous girl will arrange for your head to be suspended and coned, and you will not be allowed to slack off every day;
This virtuous girl will supervise you every day, monitor your reading and endorsement.
If you can't carry it down, Xue Baochao's mouth is so strong that you have to bear it.
Jia Baoyu, a good-tempered brother, couldn't stand Xue Baochao's nagging to let him study, so he walked away.
Bao Yu was only Xue Baochao's cousin, and he still had a chance to walk away.
And you, xue baochao's husband, you have nowhere to hide.
At this time, you can't hide, Xue Baochao is an open-minded and generous wife in your eyes, she is all for your own good, you avoid her, will not become a person who does not know what to do and does not know how to lift.
Xue Baochao hopes that if he becomes a dragon, he will definitely reach an outrageous level.
Because her family's responsibilities are waiting for you to shoulder it!
You must pass the examination to bring status to the Xue family;
You must pass the examination to pull out Xue Pan, the incompetent Dumb Overlord.
You have to test xiucai, examine people, and enter the army, and along the way, at least ten years of work.
The day you are admitted, you soar; the days when you study hard day and night will only be angry every day.
Your sister-in-law, Xia Jingui, will laugh at you every day as an incompetent waste who only spends money.
When Xia Jingui is full of firepower and scolds you every day, it will be a feeling that you can't stay at home and it is better to live than to die.
This humiliation, few people can stand it!
If you want to learn to do business and business with Xue Pan, then your marriage with Xue Baochao will not be able to keep it.
Bao Chao wanted a husband who could bring him a phoenix crown, not to marry a businessman.
If Baochao himself was willing, he would have been able to marry a really rich and powerful businessman a long time ago, and would not marry you.
The day you really survive until you have a chance is the beginning of your tragedy.
Xue Baochao hopes that her husband Willy-Chan has a great ability to control you, but she has no ability to control her brother at all.
Xue Pan has been a Jinling Yiba since he was a child, and this dumb overlord has a first-class ability to cause trouble.
Before you married Xue Baochao, Xue Pan bullied men and women and caused a lawsuit for people's lives.
Xue Pan, the troublemaker, will only keep running into trouble, and you will have to keep wiping his ass.
At that time, you can't wipe it or not, at that time Xue Pan is your child's uncle, if xue pan's history is not clean, you can implicate your child at any time.
If Xue Pan has a problem, your child can't read and take the exam.
This family trouble you can never pick, a place of chicken feathers you will deal with, such a Xue Baochao you still marry.