Introduction: Seemingly perfect Baochao is actually a person with a "stubborn disease". At first, Baoyu praised these stubborn diseases, but later, because he could not bear it, he became a monk.
Not to mention that Baoyu, who is already a bit out of the ordinary, Baochao married to any man will make her husband's brain buzz. Over time, it will inevitably make the husband and wife turn against each other and deviate from morality.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" >1, Baochao is a good teacher, showing off everywhere</h1>
But as long as Baoyu is present, Baochao will never let go of any opportunity to show himself, just like a peacock opening the screen.
For example, in the part of listening to the play, Bao Yu said that "Drunken Mountain Gate" is a lively drama, and he does not like to watch it. Bao Chao then said that Bao Yu was superficial and could not understand the deep meaning of the words, so he called Bao Yu to his side and personally enlightened and taught him. Bao Yu Mao suddenly opened, clapped his hands and shouted: "Sister Bao really has no books, no books and no knowledge!" ”
The same is true of the time when I ate cold wine in Lixiangyuan. However, a cup of cold wine is just that, but Baochao wants to make a fuss, so he makes a mistake, saying that what wine is the hottest, if you eat it cold, use your internal organs to warm it, don't you suffer?
Since ancient times, I had never heard of people who died because of eating cold wine, and the angry Daiyu borrowed the topic to play and fiercely ridiculed Baoyu and Baochao.
Yuan Chun province kissed that time, ordered the sisters to write poems, Bao Chao gathered around Bao Yu again to point out and teach: "Because she doesn't like the word green jade, don't you mean to argue with her when you write like this?" Let's change the other ones. All you need to do is change the word 'green' in the green jade to 'green wax'. ”
Bao Chao not only taught Bao Yu, but also taught Dai Yu not to read miscellaneous books, so as not to divert his mind and think wildly. In other words, if Bao Chao hadn't read those books such as "The Tale of the West Chamber" and "Peony Pavilion", how could he know the origin of Daiyu's two poems? Obviously, she not only read it, but also "memorized" the contents. To say that the book was "poisonous" only means that she was "more poisoned."
Baochao is the "life teacher" who wanders in the Grand View Garden, and as long as he seizes the opportunity, he will inevitably teach. One day, when she happened to see Xing Xiuyan wearing a jade pendant given to her by Tanchun, she taught Xing Xiuyan that she should not wear these gorgeous ornaments, but should be simple and elegant. You shouldn't compare yourself with these big ladies, our family is inferior to others...
Xing Xiuyan was very embarrassed, and it was not to be taken off, nor was it to continue to wear it. After all, it is the kindness of Tanchun, if you don't wear it, won't you live up to the goodwill of others? If you continue to wear it, baochao said so, and there is a suspicion of "loading B".
There was also the time when Xi Chun painted the Grand View Garden, just when Bao Chao "showed off the knowledge points", he gushed about nearly a page of paper, about a thousand words. People xichun is specialized in painting, is it not as good as you? Do you still need to stand in the position of the teacher and "command the world and point out the country?" ”
Baochao's biggest "stubborn disease" is to flaunt itself and dominate. Wherever she goes, she can turn someone's home stadium into her home. At first, everyone may be attracted to her wonderful speech, but after a long time, it is always this set, and everyone will be impatient.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="16" >2: Baochao is duplicitous and contradictory</h1>
Of course, if Bao Chao can lead by example, set an example by example, and behave in line with her words and teachings, there is nothing wrong with it. But this is not the case.
Bao Chao mouthed that "cherish fangzi covered the door during the day", but at night he secretly ran out to find a man to talk to, and ran to Yihong Courtyard to sit down, and the harmful person Qingwen "could not sleep at three in the middle of the night".
Every time Bao Dai interacted intimately together, she would break in coldly. Like a poisonous mushroom that has become a sperm, as long as Bao Dai is alone, there is a good chance that she will appear in time to be a light bulb.
In the time of Jia Jing's death, Bao Yu took advantage of shou Ling's leisure time and ran home to visit Dai Yu. It was also people who were chatting about it, and Bao Chao came out of nowhere, and no one knew where she was hiding in advance, that is, she coldly put up a cavity. Let's first look at the original text and recall the scene:
Bao Yu saw a paper corner slightly exposed under Daiyu's yantai, and couldn't help but reach out and pick it up. Dai Yu was busy getting up to grab it, but Bao Yu was already in his arms, and smiled: "Good sister! Just give me a look. Dai Yu said, "Whatever it is, when it comes, it will be mixed up." ”
Without a word, he saw Bao Chao come and smiled: "What does Brother Bao want to see?" ”
Dai Yu smiled and said, "I have seen a talented woman in ancient history, who has suffered all her life, which is gratifying, enviable, pathetic, and lamentable. There was nothing to do after the meal today, because a few people were selected, and a few poems were randomly put together to send sighs... I don't want the second master to come, I saw it, in fact, there is nothing to show him, but I only think he is not written to show people. ”
Bao Yu was guarding the spirit and receiving relatives at the NingGuo Mansion, but he was busy sneaking back to see Dai Yu, originally the time was limited, the two still had time to talk about themselves, and as a result, they were disturbed by Bao Chao.
Bao Chao didn't seem to be able to see Bao Dai and bao dai talking alone, as long as the two were alone, she came out to make a conversation, as if a "positioning tracker" was installed on Bao Yu. The original text continues:
Bao Yu said busily, "How early and late do I give people a look?" Yesterday's fan was originally a poem that I loved about the white begonias, so I wrote it myself in small letters, but it was easy to hold it in my hand and look at it. Don't I know that the handwriting of the poems in the boudoir is easily transmitted to the outside world? Since you said it, I haven't taken out the garden. ”
Bao Chao said, "Sister Lin is worried about this too." Since you wrote it on a fan, you forgot it by chance, and you took it to the study, and you were seen by the brothers-in-law, so why don't you ask who made it? If it spreads, it is not beautiful. Since the ancient road 'a woman without talent is virtuous', it is always based on chastity, and female workers are still the second. The rest of the poems, etc., are just boudoir games, which can be, can not be. Girls like us don't want the reputation of these talents. Yin smiled at Daiyu again, "It doesn't hurt to show me it, just don't ask Brother Bao to take it out." Dai Yu smiled, "Even if you say so, even you don't have to look at it." ”
Look, at this time, Bao Chao's love of teaching people's addiction has risen again, and he has begun to brainwash Daiyu in class. Saying that "a woman's talentlessness is virtue". Dai Yu was most proud of her talent, but as a result, she was completely denied by Bao Chao.
Then, Bao Chao condescended to judge Daiyu's poetry manuscript. Isn't that a contradiction? Even if Dai Yu "writes well", what is the use? Doesn't it say that "a woman's talentlessness is virtue"? If she doesn't write well, she may take the opportunity to give Daiyu "insufficient guidance".
Horizontal and vertical are all her wins, left and right are her prevailing, so what is the need for Dai Yu to let her see? No matter what the result was, Dai Yu was losing, and she was all self-deprecating. That's why Dai Yu said, "Since you said that, you don't have to look at it."
Baochao's hypocrisy and cunning are here, she strikes a person, and is best at blocking both sides. Let the family be in a dilemma, left and right. After a long time, everyone can see through her true face, how can they not be disgusted? She herself can't be a person, and she still teaches others everywhere to "how to be a person" and how to serve the public?
Bao Chao didn't even pay attention to Yuan Chun, and even called her "she". "She" doesn't like the word green jade — who is she? Who is "she"? Even Jia Mu and Jia Zheng are respectful of a "Niangniang", but you BaoChao sit on an equal footing with Yuan Chun and call "her"? Was that an era when you could casually call "you, me, and him"? It is no longer a question of character, but of upbringing.
Moreover, her Xue family obviously has several houses and rents them out, but she has been living in a relative's house for many years and months, is this the behavior of a gentleman? How can a person like her, who is "knowledgeable and reasonable", not know how to divide and advance, and what face does she have to go around teaching others?
These "stubborn diseases" of Baochao belong to the hard wounds of personality, innate, just like her "hot poison". At first, they may be confused by her, and after a long time, no one will be able to stand it, and Baoyu will be even more unbearable.
Baochao's erudition and versatility will only make Baoyu more and more ignorant and incompetent, like waste. No man stays in an unrecognized, unappreciated marriage for too long. Therefore, it is better to become a monk.