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In April 2021, the costume movie "General Nuo" was broadcast on Tencent Video, and the famous actor Hu Ge played the villain for the first time, and the audience witnessed another completely different Hu Ge.
Hu Ge is both a famous singer and a popular actor, and has been active in the front line of film and television. He has starred in many film and television dramas such as "The Legend of the Paladin Sword", "Forty-Nine Days Festival", "The Pretender", "Langya List" and other film and television dramas, and won the Chinese TV series "Feitian Award" Outstanding Actor Award and other honors.
When Hu Ge was 5 years old, her mother suffered from breast cancer, and the filial Piety Hu Ge accompanied her mother to fight cancer for more than 30 years, and their mother-child relationship was tearful. In March 2019, my mother died of a recurrence of cancer. Hu Ge buried tears and pain in his heart, and led his father out of the pain of widowhood with love and filial piety...
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On December 23, 2018, the film "Li Na" was released in Wuhan, and the lead actor Hu Ge returned to his home in Shanghai. As soon as he entered the house, his heart shook suddenly: his mother was more emaciated and haggard than when he left home, and the circles of his eyes were covered with green halos, and the whole person was exhausted. Hu Ge asked his mother with a heart, "Mom, you are in a very bad state, have you gone to the doctor?" The mother sighed softly: "I have seen it, it is no big deal." Alas, the old sick number, some physical discomfort is also normal. ”
Childhood Hu Ge with mom
When the mother went to the bedroom to get the medicine, the father pulled Hu Ge into the study, and the old tearfully said: "Half a month ago, I took your mother to the hospital for review, and the doctor said that the cancer cells in her body had spread, and more could live for a year and a half, and less could only live for half a year, and I did not dare to tell her the truth." Let her be hospitalized, your mother firmly disagreed. Son, you're going to convince your mother to go to the hospital no matter what. Hu Ge was heartbroken: "Dad, I can definitely do it." Without a word, Hu Ge was already in tears...
Hu Ge was born in Shanghai in 1982 to a grassroots tennis coach and his mother, Jiang Qin, a primary school teacher. Hu Ge is the only son in the family, and has been pampered by his parents since he was a child. When Hu Ge was 5 years old, her mother, who was in her early 30s, was diagnosed with breast cancer. The sudden family change shattered Hu Ge's happiness and also gave birth to his precocious puberty.
After her mother underwent resection of the lesion at Shanghai Ruijin Hospital, Hu Ge accompanied her mother in fighting cancer at a young age. At that time, my father taught his children to play tennis outside all day long, and most of the time there was only Hu Ge and his mother at home. He studied hard, earning high scores on one exam after another in exchange for a smile on his mother's face. Hu Ge also accompanied his mother to the hospital for examination and medicine. When her mother was boiling Chinese medicine at home, Hu Ge let her mother lie on the bed and rest, and she kept a fire to boil Chinese medicine. The little friends in the alley stood under the window and shouted loudly for Hu Ge to go out and play. Hu Ge opened the window, stuck his head out, and said, "I want to help my mother boil Chinese medicine, I can't leave." The son's premature understanding involved the sour tears in Jiang Qin's eyes.
At that time, Jiang Qin's monthly medical expenses were no less than 100 yuan, and her and her husband's monthly salary did not exceed 300 yuan. The couple also has to support both parents, to bear the daily expenses of a family of three, and the medical expenses account for one-third, and the life is stretched. In junior high school, Hu Ge, a handsome and versatile young man, competed to become the host of the "Sunshine Boy" column of Shanghai Education Television. In this way, Hu Ge has an income of more than 20 yuan per month, and he is reluctant to spend a penny, all of which is given to his mother to subsidize the family.
In 2001, Hu Ge graduated from high school and was admitted to the Directing Department of the Central Academy of Drama with honors. However, Hu Ge gave up the Chinese opera: first, Beijing is too far from Shanghai, the round-trip fare per semester is a big expense, he wants to save this money to see his mother; second, his father is often not at home, his mother is lonely at home, Hu Ge wants to spend more time with his mother and accompany her to fight cancer. In the end, Hu Ge gave up Chinese opera and chose the acting department of Shanghai Theater Academy. The mother knew Hu Ge's thoughts, felt that she was dragging down her son, and felt very guilty. Hu Ge comforted: "Mom, now for me, your health overrides everything." What is the difference between a Chinese drama and a play? As long as you are talented and study hard, it is the same in any university. The mother laughed with tears.
During college, Hu Ge filmed more than 30 advertisements, dubbed a number of film and television dramas, and participated in film and television dramas such as "PretendIng to Have No Feelings", "Suspicious Gods and Ghosts", "Dandelions" and so on. In his sophomore year, Hu Ge never asked for a penny from his family and supported himself by working and studying. Not only that, he also often used the film remuneration to buy medicine for his mother, and taking his mother to the hospital for review was also Hu Ge's payment, which greatly alleviated the financial pressure of his parents.
Jiang Qin is a wise and strong mother, although breast cancer has caused her great physical and mental damage, she rarely shed tears in front of her son, let alone complain about the unfairness of fate. When she goes out, she has to put on a light makeup to clean herself up. Under the infection of his mother, Hu Ge is happy and sunny, and his psychological endurance is obviously stronger than that of children of the same age...
Time stopped and went in the days when Hu Ge accompanied her mother in the fight against cancer. In the years after graduating from university, Hu Ge developed in both directions in the music industry and film and television circles, and also worked as a host, becoming a multi-habitat star loved by the audience. On August 29, 2006, Hu Ge returned to Shanghai to visit his parents after filming in Hengdian, Zhejiang, the driver Xiao Kai gave Hu Ge a car, and assistant Zhang Mian accompanied Hu Ge. At that time, Zhang Mian was still a junior at Beijing Normal University, and she and Xiao Kai were both fans of Hu Ge and took the initiative to serve Hu Ge.
Originally, Hu Ge was sitting in the passenger seat, and Zhang Mian took the initiative to change positions with him in order to let Hu Ge rest in the back row. When the commercial vehicle drove to the Jiaxing section of the Shanghai-Hangzhou Expressway, Xiao Kai was slow to react due to fatigue driving, causing their commercial vehicle to collide with a large truck, and Zhang Mian died on the spot. Xiao Kai was seriously injured, and Hu Ge was completely disfigured. The traffic police on duty quickly sent Hu Ge and Xiao Kai to shanghai people's hospital. After first aid, Xiao Kai saved his life, and Hu Ge's face was stitched more than 100 times, becoming unrecognizable.
Hu Ge's parents
After receiving a call from the traffic police, Jiang Qin and her husband stumbled to the hospital. Knowing that his son's life was not in danger, Jiang Qin had a little comfort in his heartbreak. Outside the operating room, she often shed tears, and once she appeared in front of Hu Ge's bedside, her mother behaved unusually strong. Hu Ge felt that he was disfigured, that his future was over, and that his heart was like ashes. After being discharged from the hospital, he felt more confused about his future than ever before, and people became very decadent.
In the most difficult years, her mother accompanied Hu Ge for plastic surgery 3 times, and Hu Ge still has a scar on her neck. His mother told him: "In the past, the audience was more concerned about your appearance, but now the heavens have opened a window on your face, hoping that the audience can see more of you inside." His mother's words made Hu Ge burst into tears, and also made his confused heart open.
But after the car accident, Hu Ge still had a heart knot. After Xiao Kai was discharged from the hospital, his mother accompanied Hu Ge to visit him several times. After Zhang Mian's death, his parents were immersed in great grief. Her mother accompanied Hu Ge to visit the Parents of the Zhang family and give them the help they could. Her mother also supported Hu Ge and donated more than 30 Hope Primary Schools across the country in the name of Zhang Mian. Under the care and companionship of his mother, in 2011, Hu Ge completely walked out of the after-effects of the car accident.
Hu opera photo
After regaining his new life, Hu Ge's career reached its peak, and he successively launched classic film and television dramas such as "Langya List", "Pretender", "Good Time", "Surgical Storm" and so on, and won the Best Actor Award of the China Television Golden Eagle Award, becoming a first-line student. Moreover, Hu Ge fed his mother with greater filial piety, he bought imported special drugs for her and accompanied her to the hospital every two months for re-examination. He also personally developed nutritious recipes for his mother. Many breast cancer patients died less than 10 years after surgery, and Jiang Qin's condition has been very stable for more than 20 years after surgery, and people around him have praised Hu Ge for creating miracles with filial piety.
In October 2017, Hu Ge was invited to participate in the International Breast Cancer Forum held in Shanghai. This time, he was not a popular star, but as the son of a cancer patient, he shared his inspirational story of accompanying his mother to fight cancer for 30 years. The experts and cancer friends in the audience were deeply touched by their mother and son, and they were all in tears.
Hu Ge has always hoped that his mother can live to be 80 years old and 90 years old, but in December 2018, his mother was just 64 years old, and his life entered the countdown.
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After the mother took the medicine, Hu Ge broke open and rubbed her heart: "Mom, now that my son has this financial ability, you can go to the hospital for a while, just as a convalescence." The mother sighed: "It costs thousands of yuan to stay in the hospital for a day, why spend money there to buy guilt?" You rarely come home, and your dad and I want to give you family warmth. Hu Ge lied in a hurry: "Mom, I don't want to hide from you, I've been too tired of filming all these years, physically and mentally exhausted, my blood sugar and blood pressure are a little high, I want to go to the hospital for a while." Our mother and son live in a hospital, so that we can see each other every day. ”
Jiang Qin regarded her son's health as more important than her own life, and when Hu Ge said this, she agreed. In the afternoon, Hu Ge and his father packed up their hospital belongings, and he and his mother were admitted to Shanghai Huashan Hospital. After the doctor did a comprehensive examination for Hu Ge, all the indicators of his body tended to be normal, and there was no need to be hospitalized at all. The doctor asked him incomprehensibly: "Many people are sick and do not want to be hospitalized, why do you have to be admitted to the hospital if you are not sick?" Hu Ge told the truth darkly: "My mother's cancer cells have spread in the body, we hid the truth from her, she refused to be hospitalized, I had to lie that I was unwell and accompany her to the hospital." The doctor was touched by Hu Ge's filial piety and promised to keep a secret from Jiang Qin with him.
On the second day of admission, Hu Ge again gave her mother a comprehensive examination, and the results showed that the cancer cells in Jiang Qin's body had spread to the lungs. The doctor solemnly told Hu Ge: "Your mother's life span is only half a year at most. Hu Ge stood in the doctor's office with his father and wept. After the mood calmed down a little, the father and son rinsed their faces with cool water in the bathroom, and then appeared in Jiang Qin's hospital room with a forced smile.
Hu Ge and father
Hu Ge and his father made a division of labor: the father was responsible for cooking for the mother and son every day, and then used the insulated bucket to send them to the hospital. Hu Ge has full authority to guard her mother in the hospital. Hu Ge's hospital room is on the 4th floor, and his mother lives on the second floor, and he spends most of the day in his mother's ward. In order not to let the lie wear the gang, Hu Ge often took medicine in front of his mother, in fact, he ate vitamins. At night, he bedsided his mother in the hospital room.
In order to prolong her mother's life, Hu Ge asked the hospital to perform a lesion resection operation on her mother. Attending doctor Liang Xiaohua told Hu Ge: "Your mother's cancer cells have spread to multiple organs, and it is not meaningful to do surgery again, moreover, her blood sugar and blood pressure are somewhat high, and it is not suitable for surgery." In this case, Hu Ge asked the hospital to give the mother the best medicine and the most effective means of salvation.
On January 12, 2019, when Jiang Qin coughed with blood in her sputum, she seemed to realize something and said sadly to her son: "I feel more and more tired every day, my chest hurts, and my condition may be aggravated." Hu Ge endured the heartbreak to comfort his mother: "I asked the doctor, and he said that you coughed up blood because you were on fire, and the condition did not deteriorate." At this time, his father came to the ward to deliver food, and he was worried that he could not control his emotions, so he walked to the door of the ward and retreated, squatting in the corridor with two thermos buckets and crying.
Hu Ge is a first-line student, and directors often ask him to shoot movies. In just half a month, the company helped him receive 6 scripts for Hu Ge to choose. Hu Ge said to the agent: "Now is the time when my mother needs me the most, her life is far more important than my filming, I want to accompany her and not leave regrets for myself." The other party respected Hu Ge's choice.
On January 20, when a new nurse gave Jiang Qin medicine, she accidentally said that she was a terminal cancer patient and should reflect her physical changes in time. Jiang Qin's whole body trembled for a moment, and then two lines of clear tears fell down his cheeks. When Hu Ge came to his mother's hospital room, Jiang Qin dried his tears and choked up and said to him: "Don't hide from me with your father, I know that the cancer cells have spread in the body." I'm not afraid of death, I just don't want to leave you. Hu Ge couldn't help but feel sad: "Mom, you have to be strong, now that medicine is so developed, maybe you can create miracles again." ”
In the evening, when her husband came to deliver food, Jiang Qin said to the father and son: "Like my case, there is not much point in staying in the hospital again, and I want to be discharged." The husband burst into tears: "You know what? In order to let you heal, the son pretends that he is sick and accompanies you to the hospital. As long as there is one percent hope, we will make a hundred percent effort. Hu Ge took his mother's hand: "Mom, even if you live one more day, a month, or half a year, it will be the happiness of me and my father." As a son, how can you watch your life disappear? Others borrow money to save their parents, not to mention I have the financial ability! ”
The instinct to survive, coupled with the warm enlightenment of his son and husband, made Jiang Qin anxin stay in the hospital and fight against cancer.
Since his mother knew the truth of the illness, Hu Ge no longer needed to disguise, and on the same day he went through the discharge procedures and took full care of his mother who was ill with his father...
As the Spring Festival approached, some patients were taken home by their families for the New Year, and Jiang Qin also asked her husband and son to take them home. Hu Ge consulted with his father: "Mother's physical condition is not suitable for going home for the time being, so let's spend the New Year in the hospital." As long as the family is together, everywhere is home. The father agreed with Hu Ge's ideas and supported his son's decision.
Then Hu Ge gave his mother a job: "Now is a special period, there will be the greatest safety and security in the hospital, just here for the New Year." The husband also advised Jiang Qin: "If you go home for the New Year, in case of any accident, the consequences will be unimaginable." If you really think about me and my son, our family will be in the hospital for the New Year. The husband and son did this to consider their own safety, and Jiang Qin agreed.
On February 3, the 29th day of the waxing moon, Hu Ge and his father bought lanterns, window flowers, and spring festivals, and then decorated the ward with joy. Hu Ge also placed a pot of daffodils and a pot of lilies next to his mother's bedside, and the cold and solemn ward was suddenly full of joy and vitality. In the atmosphere of love between her husband and son, Jiang Qin's mood improved significantly, and a trace of redness appeared on her pale face.
The next day was Chinese New Year's Eve, Hu Ge accompanied his mother in the ward, and his father cooked 6 home-cooked dishes at home, and then took advantage of the tropics to go to the hospital, and the family gathered around for a Chinese New Year's Eve. In order to make her mother look more energetic, Hu Ge personally put on light makeup for her and let her put on new clothes. When my father saw this scene when he set the dishes, his eyes were moist. Hu Ge proposed: "Today is the Chinese New Year's Eve, we should be happy, no one is allowed to shed tears." ”
Hu Ge and his parents
When the family gathered around to eat a reunion dinner, the 3 people talked and laughed, recalling the happy past of hu ge when he was a child. Thinking of next year's Chinese New Year's Eve, her mother may not be able to accompany herself, Hu Ge can't help but feel sad, and her voice choked. He looked up at his parents, who were desperately trying to suppress the tears, but there were still tears swirling in their eyes... Although all three people had smiles on their faces, sadness flowed in their hearts.
On the fifth day of the first lunar month, my mother suddenly fell into a coma after eating breakfast. Hu Ge panicked and called for medical staff, and everyone pushed Hu Mu into the ICU ward. Hu Ge and his father were standing outside the ward, and he saw that his whole body was trembling. Hu Ge grabbed his father's hand and gave him warmth and strength. A thin door separated the family of three in two worlds, hu ge wondered if his mother could break through this ghost door?
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After oxygen infusion, drip and other first aid, after more than 3 hours, Jiang Qin woke up from the coma, and Hu Ge and his father were relieved. The next day, Hu Mu's condition stabilized, and the medical staff asked her to return to the general ward. After lunch, my mother proposed to Hu Ge, "I want to go home." Hu Ge firmly disagreed: "How can you go back at this time?" "The mother has always shown love, calmness and tolerance in front of Hu Ge, but this time she is a rare stubbornness, gambling with Hu Ge and refusing to take medicine.
Hu Ge and his father could not convince their mother, so they asked the attending doctor for help, hoping that he could do the work of his mother. The other party told Hu Ge: "There will not be too much time left for your mother, just respect her wishes, don't let her have regrets." This sentence made Hu Ge's heart break again, and he tearfully agreed.
Stills of Hu Ge and Wang Lejun
Two days later, Hu Ge went through the discharge procedures for her mother and let her return to her home after more than two months of absence. That night, her mother called Hu Ge to the bedside and said to him wearily, "Son, my mother is not afraid of death, but she can't rest assured of you." You have a good career but lack life skills. For a man, life is not enough just to have a career, but also to have the ability to be a good husband and father. You will get married and have a family in the future, be a father, and not be a weak person in life. ”
At this time, Hu Mu was even more haggard and weak, her arms were frighteningly thin, and her hair and eyebrows were basically lost. After saying so many words in one breath, she coughed violently again. Hu Ge tearfully helped his mother beat his back, and his mother said to him: "I want to take advantage of my last breath to teach you to improve your life skills, son, are you willing?" Hu Ge choked and nodded, "I listen to you." ”
From then on, every day from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m., it was the time when my mother's mental state was at its best. At this time, she would struggle to get up and instruct Hu Ge to learn to cook in the kitchen. She taught her son to make sweet and sour steaks, spiced smoked fish and other Shanghainese dishes. From the procurement of ingredients, to washing and cutting processing, pickling, to cooking under the pot, ingredient ratio, fire mastery, etc., hu ge is meticulously taught. After several internships, Hu Ge was able to make more than 10 Taoist dishes, and his mother praised him.
His mother also taught Hu Ge to clean the floor with a vacuum cleaner, reminded him of the precautions for using a microwave oven, and let him learn to wipe the range hood. Every praise from the mother, every smile on her face, is the best affirmation and encouragement for Hu Ge. He learned very hard and soon mastered the basic skills of life...
Stills from Hu Ge's "The Climber"
As early as half a year ago, Hu Ge signed a contract with the film "The Climber" crew, in which Hu Ge played the male number three "Yang Guang", and the role was not particularly much. After the Spring Festival, the crew rushed to the Gangshika Snow Peak in Qinghai Province to shoot. Because he had to take care of his mother and was not the male number one, Hu Ge postponed joining the group after obtaining the consent of the director. At the end of February, Hu Ge's scene began filming, he could not let go of his mother, and his heart was very entangled and anxious. His mother told him: "You have given up a lot of work for me, and my mother is very uneasy. The crew has taken good care of you, you can't let the other party be embarrassed anymore, hurry up. His father also advised Hu Ge: "You can go out to shoot a drama with peace of mind, and I will take good care of your mother." Hu Ge said goodbye to his parents in tears and hurried to Qinghai.
At 5254.5 meters above sea level, Gangshika Snow Peak is the highest peak in the eastern section of the Qilian Mountains, the summit is snow-capped all year round, and the average temperature in March is more than -20 degrees, and the shooting environment is quite harsh. Every day when Hu Ge and the crew members went up the mountain, the snowflakes raised by the wind made people unable to open their eyes, and Hu Ge's hair and eyebrows were frozen, so cold that it was difficult to even speak his lines. The mother learned about the filming tidbits from the TV and was very worried about Hu Ge. In order to reassure his mother, Hu Ge described the Gangshka Snow Peak as beautiful and magnificent. Every day when he returned to the crew station after work, Hu Ge had to warm up his body and speak neatly before calling his parents to report that he was safe.
In fact, at this time, the cancer cells in the mother's body have spread in an all-round way, and the heart has failed, and it is difficult to even get up. But when Hu Ge was videotaping her mother, she asked her husband to paint herself a light makeup and then lean on his shoulder so that she looked mentally better. Mother told Hu Ge: "Safety when going out is first, I am all fine, don't worry about it." "Listening to his wife's lies, Father Hu twisted his face to shed tears...
Hu Ge and Wang Ou
In mid-March, Hu Ge finished filming and he hurried back to his home in Shanghai. At this time, the mother's life entered the countdown, and she was in a coma three or four times a day. She had a poor appetite and couldn't eat anything, so the doctor had to inject her with glucose to keep her alive. The doctor quietly told Hu Ge: "There is not much time left for your mother, you must be mentally prepared." Hu Ge could not suppress his sadness, carrying his mother's tears like rain.
On March 20, when her mother entered her deathbed, Hu Ge and her father stayed by her mother's side. The mother tearfully told Hu Ge: "Mother is leaving, you and father must be strong." In recent years, my mother has not forced marriage, because she does not want to put too much pressure on you. In fact, this has always been my heart disease, solve your personal problems early, and your mother will bless you over there. "The Eternal Secret of The Dearest Is the Most Torn Picture in the World, the Deepest Pain in the Heart!" Hu Ge grabbed his mother's hand and burst into tears: "I have remembered your words in my heart." ”
Under the gaze of Hu Ge and her father, the mother serenely closed her eyes the next day. When her heart stopped beating, there were still two tears hanging from the corners of her eyes.
Bidding farewell to his mother, Hu Ge and his father were immersed in great grief. Especially the father, unable to accept the tragic pain of his wife's departure for a while, locked himself at home, wept at his wife's posthumous photos, and drank only a small bowl of rice porridge a day. Hu Ge's heart was also scarred, and he was in no mood to take care of his father. Unable to resolve his grief, my father developed symptoms of loneliness: he was insomniac, gaunt, silent, and felt that life was meaningless. In June 2019, my father said to Hu Ge in a daze: "If I leave one day, you don't have to be sad, you must be strong." ”
His father's words hurt Hu Ge's heart, and he realized that his father's inner pain far exceeded his own, and his spiritual home collapsed. He had lost his mother, and his father had to be well. At that moment, Hu Ge stood up mentally completely. He felt that only when he was happy first could he make his father happy and support his old age.
Hu Ge buried tears and pain in his heart and decided to use love and filial piety to lead his father out of the pain of widowhood. In September of that year, Hu Ge went to Beijing to perform and took his father with him. Between events, he accompanied his father on the scenic spots of Beijing, took him to the hutongs to shop for Beijing's food, and accompanied him to watch tennis matches. Back in Shanghai, Hu Ge led his father to visit relatives and friends, and also invited his father's old friends and colleagues to the family to gather.
The mother is gone, and Hu Ge has full authority to take care of his father's life. He cooked for his father at home and bought clothes and shoes for him. Even razors and shaving cream, he would buy them for his father. January 24, 2020 is the Chinese New Year's Eve of the reunion of thousands of families, Hu Ge and his father spent the first year without a mother. The father and son eat a reunion dinner at home, and Hu Ge buries his thoughts about his mother in his heart and talks and laughs with his father.
Under the guidance of Hu Ge's love and filial piety, this October, my father completely walked out of the shadow of widowhood and returned to normal life. In May 2021, Hu Ge was 39 years old and still unmarried and single. His father told him: "You used to take care of your mother, you didn't have the heart to find a partner, and now there is no drag in the family, you hurry up and fall in love and get married." So I have an account to your mother. Hu Ge reassured his father: "I have never forgotten my mother's advice, and I will consider love marriage as the most important thing!" ”
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