There are scumbags every year, especially this year.
Singer Huo Zun, and Chen Lu, an ex-girlfriend who has been in love for 9 years, tore up nearly a week of time in court and you and me on Weibo, and finally ended with Huo Zun announcing his withdrawal from the entertainment industry.
He probably didn't expect that his most outstanding work was not "Rolling Bead Curtain", but The Sea Dog Maru.
Many netizens felt sorry for Chen Lu, thinking that she used this rupture method to bid farewell to the scumbag, kill a thousand enemies, and damage herself eight hundred.
Feelings come to the stage of the final unrecognizable, tasteless food, abandonment of pity, where to go?
Maybe this movie can give you some inspiration: "Marriage Connection"
Rome, Italy.
Aldo and Wanda are an old couple who have been together for decades.
On this day, they had just returned from a vacation by the sea.
However, as soon as they opened the door, they were stunned...
I saw that the house was in a mess, chaotic, and it seemed that it had just undergone a violent looting.
What's even more frightening is that their pet, a small fat cat, disappeared out of thin air...
The neighbor told Wanda that there seemed to be two sneaky figures, flashing by.
The two men were suddenly panicked and distraught, not knowing where the trouble had come from.
Taking advantage of his wife's lack of discovery, Aldo secretly opened his promise to Xiao San and found that the nude photos hidden inside were missing...
He was weak and frightened, rummaging around, and he had to find it one step ahead of his wife before he found out.
Wanda was on the sidelines, reasoning to herself, and she suspected that the pretty delivery girl had done a good job.
Before leaving the door, a delivery girl lied about the price of the product and overcharged Aldo by 30 yuan.
This matter, Wanda was already on vacation, complaining all the way, Aldo's ears were almost cocooned.
Still worried about nude photos, he was suddenly ashamed and angry: You mean, that girl smashed our house?
Wanda taunted him: This is not the first time, anyway, you are often deceived by beautiful girls.
This clueless mystery made Wanda and Aldo's hearts knot and tie another rope...
Let's set the timeline back 30 years.
Young and beautiful Wanda, for love, desperately follows Aldo to a strange city, Abulus...
Here, she has no relatives, no friends, no career, and the only small world is Aldo and her children.
In order to make Aldo's development in Rome better, Wanda stayed alone in Abulus to take care of the family.
On this day, however, Aldo told her with a heavy face: I am with someone else.
It was a young, beautiful and intelligent girl in their office...
Anger, helplessness, depression, confusion, the pain of betrayal... These complicated emotions, the madness swept through Wanda, making her lose judgment.
The only thought in her mind was: I want to snatch this man back, and I absolutely can't let him and Xiao San get away with it.
So, she went to Aldo's office alone and negotiated with him, hoping to recover a derailed heart.
With her two children, she caught rape on the streets of Rome and wrestled with Xiao San and her husband.
The children witnessed with their own eyes, the hysterical mother, the little three who was protected by their father, and the father who beat the mother...
She jumped down the stairs and tried to kill herself.
But Aldo just sent a letter: I won't go to see you, even if you die, it won't affect my love for Little Three...
The film "Marriage Connection" was released in Italy in 2020 and is adapted from the popular Italian novel "Shoelaces".
It tells the story of a couple who have loved and killed each other for more than decades, and the current Douban score is stable at 7.4 points.
Netizen comments: This movie will be uncomfortable to watch, but it does reflect a common social problem: when marriage becomes a torment of each other, whether it is separated or not, it is not a fortunate thing...
Others say that a messy environment is not only a reality, but also a ruin of their spirit. The old saying that "holding the hand of the son, and the son with the old" is so sad and ridiculous in the face of reality, even if you hold hands until you are old, you have already been in ruins...
The film has a strong cast, all of which are the top Italian actors.
Among them, Aldo's young actor, Luigi Lo Caccio, is known as the "Liang Chaowei" of Italy.
Wanda's young role, Alba Lorvache, was nominated for the European Film Award for Best Actress for Happy Lazzaro.
Many netizens compared this movie to the Italian version of "Marriage Story".
The background of the story is also the woman's dedication to love, returning to the family, washing her hands for soup;
The man has a smooth career, soaring, mixing with the young flesh.
However, the two heroines have different choices, so that their lives have taken a completely different path...
Marriage Story
In "Marriage Story", the heroine is painfully determined and insists on divorce.
The pain of divorce, intense and long, makes people tear their hearts and lungs.
However, after surviving these dark days, she ushered in a new life and regained control of her life.
Stills from Marriage Story
But in "Marriage Connection", Wanda never gave up letting this cheating scumbag return to the family.
In fact, her love for him had long since dissipated over the years. The fight for him is not out of love, but just unwilling.
After years of married life, she has long been familiar with this cowardly and incompetent man.
So she changed her way of fighting.
After the divorce, she struggled to get custody of her children, she got a job at school, she was radiant and attractive...
She dressed up brightly and took the child to see Aldo, not pestering or tearing.
She told him: Children because you have become insecure, please don't make them feel bad anymore.
She deliberately made an extra dinner, telling Aldo: If you stay for dinner, the kids will be happy.
She asked the children to be in front of Aldo, mentioning that he taught the children to tie their shoelaces, and recalling Aldo's memories with the children...
The children became the connection of this marriage.
They are divorced, but there are still inextricable connections between them, children, blood, memories of the past...
Xiao San exploded Mao: Now the person who accompanies you to live is me, you go back every week to accompany your children and accompany Wanda, what is this?
Aldo fled back to his family.
This hypocritical and cowardly man has no way to establish a solid and reliable intimate relationship with anyone.
He seeks excitement, passion, the pleasure of indulging the lower body, and when it comes to taking responsibility and bondage, he longs to flee.
He returned to the family at the cost of losing his voice and control and becoming the aphasia of the family.
Wan Da won the protracted battle with Xiao San.
But this was only a short victory.
Soon, she was in a long state of pain.
Wanda had long since lost trust in Aldo.
She constantly provoked him, ridiculed him, ridiculed him, wanted him to expose his nature...
She refuses all intimate acts, when he tries to kiss her, she will immediately avoid, she has a physiological disgust for this man...
She considered herself to be on the moral high ground, the master and winner of the marriage.
But in fact, in this chicken and dog marriage, there is no winner at all, everyone is a loser, including their children...
He felt that he had returned to the family and made sacrifices; she felt that she was guarding the family and was wronged in her heart.
They resent each other, they shirk their responsibilities, they can't do without each other, they can only torture each other, suffer, resent each other...
And this constantly cut and chaotic connection is presented in front of the child's eyes, causing them great harm.
Wanda uses the child to tie up Aldo, and Aldo claims to return to the family for the sake of the child.
But is such a distorted family really what children expect?
In fact, children's sensitivity to emotions is far beyond the imagination of adults...
In her later years, Wanda finally realized a cruel truth.
This painful marriage made her lose the ability to love: she did not love her husband, did not love herself, and did not have the ability to love her children.
But she did not know that she taught this "love incompetence" to the children.
When she grows up, her daughter lives like a mother, distrusts feelings, hates marriage and family, and chooses to end up alone;
The son lived like a father, spending his heart and wandering among different women and families...
Marriage is inextricably linked.
Therefore, a marriage that survives in name only is trapped not only by husband and wife, but also by children.
Perhaps, a broken marriage can be glued together by blood.
However, just as you can never hold hot water in a cracked cup, so is a barely bonded relationship, vulnerable and shattered at the touch.
If Wanda can realize this sooner, perhaps each of their lives will be rewritten...