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For most people, men don't care about loyalty, loyalty is because the temptation is not enough, women don't care about decency, decency is because the stakes of betrayal are too low.
Whether it's a man or a woman, if someone says to you: I'm definitely not going to have an affair! Then you don't have to believe what he or she says. Because most of the extramarital affairs in reality often have no signs, it only takes a casual reason for men and women to break through the bottom line!
My name is XiaoMin, is a 34-year-old woman, married for 7 years, originally I had a happy and happy family, the husband is diligent and thrifty, the daughter is lively and lovely. However, I was in the midst of the blessing and did something sorry for my husband, and now I am full of guilt and self-blame!
If God could give me another chance, I would definitely abide by the duty of a wife and would never do anything unfaithful to the marriage. However, everything is irretrievable, and even the most affectionate repentance will not help!
It goes back a few months, when I was working at work when I suddenly heard the news that surprised me: One of my male colleagues, Wu Han, was divorced because her wife had cheated on me. As soon as this matter came out, there was a lot of noise in the unit, and everyone knew it!
In fact, Wu Han not only looks good, but also has a lot of courage in doing things, his work performance is very prominent, and he is also very popular. In the eyes of everyone, he belongs to the more excellent charismatic male type, and many girls have chased him at the beginning, but he finally chose his college classmates.
He and I are considered to be old employees of the unit, and I once had a good feeling for him, but we can only be regarded as fateless. In fact, our relationship has always been good, although each other has their own family, but they often help each other at work, and over time, they have become good friends.
The news of his divorce really shocked me, and I never expected his wife to cheat. But after all, I have a good relationship with Wu Han, no matter what, I still have to express my condolences.
So, I took the opportunity to talk to him for a while, and comforted: "Don't be depressed because of divorce, divorce is not your fault, life still has to continue, cheer up, you will find happiness again!" ”
Wu Han thanked me for my encouragement, and he said to me slightly helplessly: "In fact, my marriage was not happy in the first place, and now that I am divorced, it is also a relief." Although he seems strong on the surface, I can feel the bitterness in his heart, after all, this kind of thing is a great irony for every man.
Since talking to him, the contact between the two of us has inadvertently increased, he will take the initiative to chat with me in the evening, and I will actively respond to him. Although I didn't talk about any sensitive topics, over time, I found that there was an inexplicable feeling between us.
Maybe it was because I had a crush on him, or maybe it was out of sympathy for the person I admired, though I knew that it was against the principle of a wife to do so with him. But every time I saw the WeChat he sent, I still couldn't help but go back.
One day, Wu Han suddenly told me that he wanted to invite me to dinner, first out of the friendship of colleagues, and second, he also wanted to thank me for helping him during this time. Because we couldn't avoid eating together at work before, I didn't think much about it, so I agreed to her invitation.
So after work, Wu Han and I found a clean private room, and he also ordered a few bottles of red wine. During the period, we ate and talked, told our respective life stories as usual, and he also toasted with me to thank me.
It is said that men will borrow wine to pour sorrow when they have a heart, and it is not long before Wu Han is already drunk, although I am also a little hazy, but fortunately I am still relatively sober. Seeing him lying on his stomach on the table, speaking incoherently, I quickly settled the bill and took a taxi to take him home.
After placing him, I was about to go out, but he suddenly hugged me and said he liked me. I instinctively broke free and said to him, "Say don't do this, you must have drunk too much", but he did not give up!
At this moment, I should have chosen to refuse, but suddenly I felt a little pity for him, and I also thought of some unsatisfactory things in my married life. So I borrowed some alcohol for anesthesia, but I still couldn't control myself!
Afterwards, I was full of remorse, because I did something that shouldn't have happened on a whim, which filled me with guilt and self-blame! Once I expressed strong contempt and indignation at cheating women, now I am them!
Although my husband does not know this matter, but my heart can not be calm for a long time, I do not know how to face my husband, my family in the future!
Conclusion: Once there is dissatisfaction in married life, it is easy for people to instinctively choose to empathize with each other, so never underestimate their inner desires, if there is not enough rationality and restraint, they will often inadvertently become prisoners of desire!
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