Jealousy – The meaning of the word is resentment or dissatisfaction with the hearts of people who are stronger than themselves in some way.
There will always be things in our lives that produce jealousy. For example, your colleagues have raised their salaries, your classmates have been promoted, your neighbors have bought new cars... In short, when the people around you get better than you, you will develop jealousy. It is not that jealousy is a pathology, it is just a human nature.
At first, I also feel that getting and giving are equal, when others get what I don't have because others give more than me, others do better than me, but this is not the case. Because the adult world has never been so simple, there is no so-called black and white. Of course, there is always a truth behind the matter that is not known to ordinary people. It's just that we rarely really dig into the truth behind it, because we are always blinded by appearances. Our brains have a tendency to be simple.
We always compare our own losses when others gain; when others ascend, we unconsciously compare the shortcomings of others; when others are proud, we want to see the loss of others. Because people like to move themselves, they will turn a blind eye to the silent efforts of others. Or other people's momentary pride forgets what they have received before, because people always like to feel that what Zhangjiajie gets is taken for granted.
People who raise their salaries may also be jealous that you have more holidays than he does, your classmates who have been promoted may envy your good wife, and neighbors may envy your well-kept home and full of life. Things are clustered in groups, and people are grouped. There is not much gap between a group of people who can really generate communication.
The water rises and the boat rises, and people have ups and downs. Of course some people are promoted and then move on to another level. If you feel like you should be like this, you can pursue it, and when you really pursue what you want, you don't care about the people around you. If you feel that's not the life you want, what's the jealousy? For example, when you are in college, you know that you can get good grades by studying hard. But some people just want to do something meaningful in this good time, he may have a happy relationship, he may go to his favorite place in his young days and make close friends. Aren't these things that others should envy?
Just like the saying that even though you know so many truths about life, you still can't live a good life. Even if you understand that jealousy is common, you will still be jealous when it happens. Then you may wish to boldly admit it, just the common sense of man. When we admit something, we naturally find reasons to comfort ourselves. Whether to keep working hard or keep your own pace is up to you. Don't be influenced by others to do what you should do. After all, the road of life is still so long, not firm enough, how can you walk well in this life.