Before the Internet set off a wave of discussion about "women do not want to be full-time housewives", many women think that being a full-time housewife will lose the ability to be financially independent and will not be happy. In fact, whether a woman can obtain marital happiness and economic independence has no inevitable relationship.
Carnegie mentioned in "Advice for Lifelong Happiness for Women" that a large part of the reason why modern women can't get happiness is the lack of skills, stick to these 4 laws, and teach you to be a smart woman.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" >, quit blessing, learn to praise, and be a dignified woman</h1>
The last thing a lot of women can control after marriage is blame and criticism. It is normal for two people to have friction with each other, but don't be like a "stern teacher" who can't stop blaming and criticizing. Blaming and complaining will not bring good results, but will also make others resentful. Everyone likes to listen to praise, and sometimes you can exchange a serious criticism for euphemism, so that communication is better and more effective.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > second, enrich life and be a happy woman</h1>
Many women fall in love for a long time or after marriage, they no longer have their own hobbies and interests, gradually lose themselves, and only care about chai rice oil and salt and parents all day long, such a life is boring, and people who live such a life are also boring.
Life is not only about gouge, but also about poetry and far away. It is not enough for one to focus only on the present, but also in addition to the normal state of life, the pursuit of a more poetic and interesting world. Hobbies are the best way for a person to express themselves.
Women's lives can not only revolve around men and children, but also have their own independent interests and hobbies, life is rich, the mood will be good, in order to bring happiness to others.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > three, enrich yourself, be an attractive woman</h1>
Carnegie said: Women's charm comes from the external dress, but also from the inner temperament.
The appearance will age, but the temperament will get better and better with age. How to improve your temperament? The ancients said that "there is poetry and bookishness in the belly" reading is the best way for a person to improve his temperament, and the woman who reads will be more atmospheric and reasonable. In addition to reading, you can also cultivate some hobbies that cultivate your body and mind, such as raising flowers, yoga, baking, etc.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > fourth, learn to be rational and be a wise woman</h1>
In a relationship, it is important to be rational, and many women become gained and lost after giving their feelings. When women are entangled in emotional problems, even normal lives are disrupted, let alone work. Therefore, if a woman encounters emotional problems, she must maintain her own rationality and not let herself lose her sanity because of emotional problems.
Women should have their own wisdom, which can better protect you in life and shape a more beautiful you. May you go through the vicissitudes and return as a young girl.
As the greatest interpersonal scientist, Carnegie pointed out a clear path for women, and these so-called doorways and doorways made a brilliant theoretical analysis in "Carnegie's Advice for women's Happiness in Life", and put forward many specific and feasible guidelines and guidance for doing things.
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