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Cherish the time you are alive, because you will die for a long time.
How good it is to be alive, to enjoy the sun and rain, to feel the warmth between people, and to go with people you like.
As the saying goes, "Ants are still stealing." ”
Why don't you cherish life? Why torture yourself? What's the reason to go to extremes?
Everyone wants to live in their own scenery, but there are always people who are destined to "survive and steal", and can even be described as "lingering".
There are many ways to live, maybe the way you live is not what you want, so you repeatedly toss yourself, and you have been desperately trying to live according to your own way.
"Life is not satisfactory often eight or nine", seven or eight out of ten things are not satisfied. Because life is not destined to be perfect, and the world is not developing according to your ideas.
Maybe at some point, you will find that there is no point in living, and you do not want to live more and more.
02
Everyone lives hard, and people who live easy have learned to "give up."
Life is a process of "giving up and getting", if you don't give up anything, then the more difficult you live, the more difficult it is to cling to something, you will suffer because of something.
Learn to give up and make your life easier, even if you are ridiculed, it doesn't matter.
Only by giving up the person who cannot be loved can you have the opportunity to get true love and build a good family. Many people, because of love, have lost themselves.
When a person loves someone regardless of whether he cares, he must want to marry him and be together for a lifetime. However, the person you love does not necessarily love you, and the opportunity to meet is not necessarily right. The person who meets and hates late is often the person who has no luck, and the more desperately you pursue, the more helpless you will love.
"Letting go is also love", two people who have no reason to be separated, may be very painful, but the second half of life will not live very tired, each other is no longer entangled, one day, the past love, will become light and light.
Give up the ideals that are doomed to be unattainable, and stop suffering. Not all persistence has results. It's not that you have anything in mind and you have to stick to it.
Someone said, "Get through it and you'll win." ”
Yeah, life has to survive. However, when you survive, you will often become more and more confused, and you may also have a lot of negative emotions.
A person's ability to withstand pressure is limited, like a huge balloon, no matter how large the volume, as long as it keeps blowing into it, it will one day be blown up.
If you can't stick to the work, you can also give up. No matter how great a person's ability is, it is not omnipotent. Also, no matter how well you do, you can't satisfy everyone.
When you can't go on in the workplace, please be kind to your life, don't use your life to prove your ability, and don't use your life to express your determination.
Do you know? How heart-wrenching your parents were when you gave up your life!
Really, there's nothing more important than life. You can make a lot of money, but money doesn't necessarily buy life.
03
You are not even afraid of death, why should you be afraid of living?
As the saying goes, "When a Buddha receives incense, a man breathes one breath." ”
When a person is alive, he has to fight for anger. But you also have to understand that only when you are healthy and healthy can you have the opportunity to fight for qi, if you are sick and your body collapses, what kind of contending is you taking?
"It is better to die than to live; it is better to live than to live well", life is not that there is no reason to live, nor is there no way to live, but do not know how to "turn", do not know how to convince themselves to "give up".
For example, a person who goes to work in the south, because of his undergraduates, is not willing to go to the factory to work as a general worker, but to apply for a job in a large company, there is no place willing to give him a chance. After a few months of going around, he spent all his savings and continued to look for a job with a determination of "not mixing up with his personal appearance and vowing not to return to his hometown".
What happens to him if he can't find the right job all the time? The consequences are truly unimaginable.
Many people, who have learned to "move forward", but have not learned to "retreat", often force themselves into a desperate situation.
"The bitter sea has no end, and the back is the shore", it is clear that there is a road behind and a road next to it, but you are just unwilling to go, knowing that there is a cliff in front, but you want to go, you are really too ignorant.
04
Really smart people know how to live for themselves.
There's a classic line in Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon: "You clench your fists and you have nothing in your hands." You let go of ten fingers, but you can have the whole world. ”
Clenching your fists and cheering yourself up is a kind of courage; spreading your palms and making yourself easier is also a kind of courage. The key is whether you dare to "relax".
Although there are business opportunities everywhere and you can find a job at will, it is really not easy to find the right life path in a suitable place and meet the right person.
There are too many "yin and yang mistakes" in life, you don't want to go into a dead end, and you don't know how to retreat.
People with great wisdom always move forward and backwards, put down their faces, stop meaningless disputes, and give up struggles that are doomed to be fruitless.
Let go of a thought, all natural. Living to be what you want, rather than living for the face of others, is really alive, not "the walking dead".
Carrying a heavy load forward, it is better to go light. Don't push yourself to the brink of despair.
05
If it's too hard to live, let yourself go.
The best life may be: not to be confused in the heart, not to be trapped in love; not to fear the future, not to think about the past.
In this life, what should come will come and cannot be stopped; those who should go will go and cannot be retained. Learn to follow the direction of fate and push yourself hard, then you can go with the flow; if you are destined to go against the wind, there is nothing to be afraid of, then stick to it.
In any case, you must know that life always has rivers that cannot be crossed, and there are always mountains that cannot be crossed. Don't be too embarrassed about yourself, let yourself go, don't think of yourself as a "god".
Everyone wants to live a wonderful life, but there are always people who live a very provocative life, and there are people who live all their lives and have not found a direction.
However, there is really no fixed way of life in life, so you can go with the flow, love and hate with fate.
As long as you have worked hard and become an ordinary person, what does it matter?
Author: Cloth coarse food.
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