Fu Peirong: If this is missing, how boring and painful will life become? Holidays must see 1 Life is the game 2 What should I do if my child is addicted to games? 3 Why do people naturally like games? 4 Games are a secret recipe in life

The leaves originally existed to shade the roots and trunks of the trees, but they had obviously stretched wide enough, so why were the branches and leaves still expanding outward?

Some research experts believe that this is the leaf in the game.

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What is a game?

Anything that is neither purposeful nor practical can probably be described in terms of games.

This is true of plants, but it is especially true of animals.

Kittens are full of food, drink, nap and wake up, can chase their tails in the sun, and not get tired for half an hour. Animals are born of instinct, and when they are hungry, they will go to find food, and when they are full, they only think of playing.

Zhuangzi talked about pheasants, pecking at ten steps, drinking in a hundred steps, but walking around, looking happy.

In contrast, the chickens raised by man are kept in cages, and they are eaten and drunk on time, and they grow strong, but they are not very happy.

Kids think about games all day long.

I remember the first time I took my daughter abroad, she was only five years old, and insisted on me playing poker with her on the plane, and she could play for five or six hours without getting tired.

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Compared to children, the most common thoughts of adults are much more complicated:

What's the use of this?

Can it be profitable to do this?

Can it be famous?

What benefits can there be?

So the contradiction arises.

In the face of children addicted to comics, cartoons, and even indulging in online games, parents are really anxious, because this will definitely affect their children's homework.

Therefore, how to let children concentrate on studying has become a serious topic.

Many parents have asked me, "Kids are always playing online games, what should I do?" ”

In fact, all the problems in life should not be viewed in a simple dichotomy.

Before answering, let's clarify one point:

How are children allocated 24 hours a day?

Sleep for 8 hours, 10 hours in school, and 6 hours for the rest of the time.

If he spends 2 hours online, isn't it like we adults are tired from work and come home and sit in front of the TV for 2 hours?

In this way, the situation is not too bad, and it is reasonable.

Therefore, smart parents only need to urge their children to study seriously for 2-3 hours a day, and do not have to worry too much about other times.

I remembered that when I was in middle school, I lived in school for 6 years, and I was fascinated by chess in my second year of junior high school.

I bought two chess scores, and when I finished my homework in the evening self-study, I began to secretly play the chess scores and play the endgame. My homemade chessboard is slightly smaller than the textbook, and the pieces are smaller than the Go pieces.

The teacher looked at me from a distance and thought I was studying, but I was actually playing a game.

This lasted for almost a semester, and then I couldn't find a match in my class, so it stopped automatically.

In high school, I was passionate about playing basketball, playing every day, rain or shine.

Now think about it, without these games, the stressful middle school life would not know how tedious it would be!

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So, instead of being overly nervous about your child being held back by the game, sit down and think about a question:

Why do people naturally like games?

From a philosophical point of view, games are particularly unique in nature:

In addition to real life, another time and space, set a set of rules, so that everyone can compete fairly.

By the way, the word "fair" is the most inspiring.

The real world has never been truly fair, and a person's success or failure is often doomed to a large part of the birth, and if you want to change later, it is only half the work at most.

The game just makes up for this lack of regret in life. No matter what your identity is in the real world, once you enter the game, everyone is equal.

However, there are many complications in the real world, and the outcome of the game is often disturbed.

I am reminded of a sentence said by former US President George H.W. Bush, who said:

"When I came down from the presidency, I realized that many people had played much better golf than I did."

You see, this is the complexity of the real world.

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Of course, we don't need to be pessimistic, after all, most of the time, games are still a good way for people to get rid of the pressure of reality.

Even if you're not personally involved, you can get some kind of relief from the game.

This explains why, every year, when various sports competitions are held, countless spectators around the world pay keen attention to them.

When you watch the game, you actually step into the game as a character and become a part of it.

So, we see that many people would rather stay up late than watch live ball games on the other side of the globe.

At this point, he probably forgot to go to work tomorrow.

If there is no such forgetting, how many people can survive life except labor or labor?

This reminds us that we might as well find a game project for ourselves, allocate a little time, and incorporate it into the normal track of life.

Perhaps this is also a secret recipe for us to relieve psychological stress.