He regards his daughter as a treasure, and feels that all men are not worthy of his daughter, either thinking that the other party has a low education or looks ugly.
The helpless daughter secretly fell in love with her father and became pregnant before marriage. For the happiness of his daughter, what else can he do?
Unexpectedly, although the father agreed to the marriage, he began to stage various dramas and eventually sent himself to prison
One day in the summer of 2018, the old Li Tou, who lived in a city in the north, came to a family in anger, and the old Li Tou knocked on the door like a drum, and Zhang Yu and his parents lived in the house.
Zhang Yu happened to be at home, and heard someone knocking desperately on the door, while walking towards the door, shouting, whoa, tap and knock
Zhang Yu opened the door impatiently, and as soon as the door opened, Old Li Tou rushed in, pointing at Zhang Yu and scolding, "The guy who doesn't want a face dares to bully my daughter."
Zhang Yu saw that old Li Tou was a little confused, and after calming down, while helping Old Li Tou to go to the house with his hand, he said, Don't worry, sit down and say slowly, I didn't bully Li Mei
You didn't bully her, how did you get pregnant?
Zhang Yu was stunned, he was both happy and confused, squinting and standing there with his mouth open, not knowing what to say.
Zhang Yu's parents quickly came over and persuaded old Li Tou to sit down and say slowly, this old Li Tou sat on the sofa breathlessly, why was Old Li Tou so excited, and did Zhang Yu bully Li Mei in the end?
On this matter, we also have to start from the experience of old Li Tou
Old Li Tou is not bad, but the personality is a bit strange, from a young age he is very lonely, do not believe in others, there is not even a friend around, to 40 years old finally married, and his own child Li Mei, Li Mei the parents of the advantages of the appearance are inherited, big eyes, small mouth, the corners of the mouth and a pair of small dimples, look at it to attract people's likes.
For the beloved daughter, this old Li tou is afraid to lose it in his hand, and he is afraid of melting in his mouth, afraid that his daughter will be hurt in any way, and he will not allow her to suffer any loss.
In the blink of an eye, Li Mei has been participating in the work for several years, and when he saw it, he went to the age of 30, and the old Li Tou and his wife began to worry about Li Mei's marriage, and the daughter-in-law of the old Li Tou launched the neighbors, relatives and friends to introduce the object to Li Mei, but there were more objects of introduction, and this old Li Tou was worried again, why?
Because after watching many people, old Li Tou either thinks that the other party's education is low or ugly, and then he feels that the other party's family conditions are poor, which will drag down his daughter and make several good ones hard to yellow.
So can this Li Mei still find an object?
This neighborhood is also very enthusiastic, introducing Zhang Yu to Li Mei, Zhang Yu looks polite and polite, works in the bank, and the family is also considered a well-off family.
However, a few months later, when Zhang Yu came to visit Old Li Tou, this old Li Tou'er was still not satisfied, he felt that This Zhang Yu was too weak, in case he met a bad person, it was not necessarily who would protect whom? There is also Zhang Yu's job, although stable, but the salary is not high, in the future Li Mei may not be able to live happily with him.
So this old Li Tou's old trick was repeated, and he planned to mix with huang them as before.
However, this time Li Mei did not plan to listen to Old Li Tou again, because not only did she and Zhang Yu like each other, but Zhang Yu's parents also liked Li Mei very much
So Li Mei left a heart eye, she said to the old Li Tou, and Zhang Yu had long broken up, but in fact secretly interacted with Zhang Yu, originally wanted to slowly let his father accept this relationship, but the occurrence of an incident made old Li Tou find the clue and was angry.
It turned out that recently this Li Mei appetite has been bad, unwilling to eat, one weekend, this old Li Tou personally cooked, for her daughter to cook a few of her favorite dishes. Braised pork rib sauce, pork trotters, sweet and sour fish.
This sight made people salivate, but when Li Mei had not yet eaten a few bites, she covered her mouth and ran to the toilet.
This old Li Tou is more than 60 years old, can you not see what is going on? This is obviously pregnancy.
Old Li Tou suppressed his anger and questioned his daughter Li Mei what was going on
As soon as Li Mei saw that she couldn't hide it, she told the truth.
After listening to this, the old Li head was full of excitement, and stretched out his hand to hit Li Mei, but his hand was raised in mid-air, and after hesitating for a moment, the old Li head slapped his thigh fiercely, turned around and left the house.
Where is Old Li Tou going? He was going to find Zhang Yu to settle the account.
Old Li Tou angrily came to Zhang Yujia knocked on the door and the door opened, and Old Li Tou scolded Zhang Yu for bullying Li Bai, and this Zhang Yu looked innocent.
And so the scene at the beginning happened.
When old Li Tou said that Li Mei was pregnant, this Zhang Yu was not only not afraid, but also a little happy, and Zhang Yu's parents were actually very happy in their hearts.
Seeing the anxious look of old Li Tou, Zhang Yu's mother said that Li Mei and Zhang Yu were older, and the two people were really in love, and it was rare to have children, so it was better to let them get married quickly and live a small life.
Hearing this, Old Li Tou was not satisfied, but at this time, for the happiness of his daughter, what else could he do?
So the old Li Tou reluctantly agreed
Here old Li Tou promised to be unwilling, and Zhang Yujia's wedding preparation over there was lively and lively.
Zhang Yu's new house has long been prepared, and the next step should be to obtain a license for the wedding.
But things didn't go so smoothly, because this marriage room caused contradictions between the two families
Zhang Yu's parents Zhang Yu's uncle and Aunt Zhang are diligent and thrifty, and they have long prepared a marriage room for their son Zhang Yu, just on the opposite door of the same floor, the old two want to wait for Zhang Yu to get married, and then have children, this lives on the right door, looking at the grandchildren are convenient.
No, as soon as Old Li Tou agreed to the marriage, Uncle Zhang and Aunt Zhang immediately began to decorate the marriage room, but a month passed, the house was decorated for a long time, and Old Li Tou suddenly led a mysterious man to see the house, and after seeing the marriage room, he wanted to see The house of Uncle Zhang and Aunt Zhang.
Who is this man?
It turned out that this was Mr. Feng Shui invited by Old Li Tou, but after Mr. Feng Shui left, Old Li Tou said to Uncle Zhang and Aunt Zhang, the location of this marriage room is not good, Ke Li Mei, you and them to change
What, Uncle Zhang listened to this, shouted out in surprise, and said that this house is almost renovated, let's change, aren't you tossing people?
Old Li Tou said, I didn't expect you to repair it so quickly, besides, it is not good for Li Mei, it is also not good for children, don't you live in a newly renovated house better than living in the old one?
Although Uncle Zhang and Aunt Zhang felt that old Li Tou's reason was somewhat absurd, when she heard Old Li Tou talk about the child, she did not dare to oppose it easily, in case this child was really affected, who would take responsibility?
Uncle Zhang sighed and agreed.
It is reasonable to say that this marriage should have proceeded smoothly, and the two families have a gap because of the next matter.
The new house has just been renovated, and at the request of old Li Tou, the old house has to be installed, Zhang Yu has no money, and this redecoration will cost more than 200,000 yuan, which cannot all be borne by us.
It turned out that until now, for this marriage between Li Mei and Zhang Yu, whether it was the decoration of the wedding room, it was the money from Uncle Zhang and Aunt Zhang, and the old Li Tou had never paid a penny.
Uncle Zhang and Aunt Zhang are not very rich and expensive, if they are renovated again, there is indeed some pressure, so Uncle Zhang and Aunt Zhang proposed to let Old Li Tou bear half of the cost
Old Li Tou heard that, "What, you marry a daughter-in-law, isn't it necessary to decorate the house?"
Uncle Zhang said, but the problem is that the redecoration is what you asked for, this redecoration will cost more than 200,000 yuan, can't let us all bear it.
Old Li Tou and Uncle Zhang quarreled, Aunt Zhang rushed over to persuade Old Li Tou, big brother, you see we are not rich, let us bear it, we do have some difficulties, now Li Mei's production time is close to the time of the wedding can not be changed, we can not delay any longer, then do not let our family bear half, your family also bear half, how?
Old Li Tou also felt that he was losing money, and considering that his daughter's belly was getting bigger and bigger, he gritted his teeth and agreed to give 100,000 yuan of decoration money.
It is reasonable to say that this decoration storm should come to an end, but after a month and then there is a fork, when the house is almost finished, this old Li Tou to see the new house, although the style of this decoration is very good, but the old Li Tou still feels that this decoration can not use more than two hundred thousand in any case.
Old Li Tou saw the remaining half barrel of paint left by the workers, so he secretly took it to the building materials market to inquire about the price, and after knowing the price, Old Li Tou asked Uncle Zhang how much this paint was a barrel
Uncle Zhang said that what I wanted was the best paint, 800 yuan per barrel.
Listening to Uncle Zhang's words, Old Li Tou said in a strange way, Who are you lying to? This paint is not the best bucket at all, it does not need 800 yuan at all, if you buy more, it is at most 500 yuan a barrel.
Uncle Zhang said doubtfully, how can it be, the decoration company told me so.
Old Li Tou said, don't pretend here, I see that you are falsely reporting the decoration price, trying to cheat me of money
You don't care about anything in the decoration, and you still come to wrongfully accuse me, what kind of person are you?
This old Li Tou and Uncle Zhang quarreled, and when they learned that Old Li Tou and Uncle Zhang had quarreled, Li Mei and Zhang Yu rushed to the new house
Li Mei and Zhang Yu confirmed what was going on, and then persuaded the old Li Tou to go home, and then went to the decoration company to theorize, and finally learned that the decoration master secretly replaced the expensive paint with cheap paint in order to earn the difference.
Listening to this reason, this old Li Tou's anger was somewhat dissipated, but his heart was still uncomfortable.
And Uncle Zhang and Aunt Zhang also had some twists in their hearts, looking forward to this old Li Tou not bothering himself in the future
Can old Li Tou stop from now on without bothering Uncle Zhang and Aunt Zhang?
Old Li Tou did not stop, and the next thing made the relationship between the two families worse.
The house was decorated, the wedding was also held not long ago, Li Mei gave birth to a boy, saw a lively and cute child, this uncle Zhang Aunt forgot the previous unpleasantness, every day is happy to take care of Li Mei and the child
Li Mei, Zhang Yu and Uncle Zhang and Aunt Zhang lived at the opposite door, and it was indeed convenient for Uncle Zhang to take care of them.
The grandson was born, and the old Li Tou also came to see his daughter and grandson almost every day.
It is reasonable to say that around such a big fat boy, everyone should be very happy, but this old Li Tou always frowns, is there anything he is not satisfied with?
It turned out that Old Li Tou still cared about the things he suffered when he was renovating, and he felt that this uncle and aunt Zhang were not generous, and it could even be said that he was a door cutter.
And Li Mei suddenly changed from a young girl to an obese mother, and he felt that he had to help his daughter in materials
Taking advantage of the absence of Uncle Zhang and Aunt Zhang, old Li Tou said to Li Mei, you get married and have children, Zhang Yu's family did not give you anything, you have to let them change this house to your name
Li Mei felt inappropriate and said, Zhang Yu and her in-laws are very good to me, why did we let the family change the house to my name for no reason.
Old Li Tou said what do you know, you gave birth to a son to his family, that is a first-class achievement, they are good to you now, but in case one day you and Zhang Yu have an awkward quarrel and throw you out, what can you get?
Old Li Tou's daughter-in-law also advised Old Li Tou not to make such unreasonable trouble.
Old Li Tou said angrily, You are a woman and a Taoist family who knows something, I have my own way, make sure that they can't speak.
Old Li Tou's daughter-in-law and Li Mei both knew Old Li Tou's temper and felt that they could not persuade him at all, so they no longer objected, but Old Li Tou's daughter-in-law and Li Mei were also thinking in their hearts what kind of way this old Li Tou would make Zhang Yu's parents change the name of the house to Li Mei's name.
Uncle Zhang and Aunt Zhang did not take long to come to see his grandson, and when he saw that Old Li Tou was also taking the initiative to say hello, he went to hug his beloved grandson.
Old Li Tou said, this child is more and more cute the more you look, and your old Zhang family can also be regarded as a successor.
Uncle Zhang and Aunt Zhang couldn't close their mouths when they heard the music, and they quickly echoed the voice, we have not struggled in vain in this life, and in the future we will leave all this to this child.
Old Li Listened, and then said, Isn't that why you are fighting for your sons and grandsons, and there is no need to wait until the future, find a time to transfer this house to your grandson's name? If there is any accident in the future, there is no need to worry about the transfer of the house.
Upon hearing Old Li Tou's words, Uncle Zhang, who was still smiling, immediately frowned, and Uncle Zhang casually said, This is what our family has saved for a lifetime, why give it to you, and then throw your hands back to your own home.
And Aunt Zhang didn't know what to say, and followed Uncle Zhang home, and the atmosphere in this room suddenly became tense.
Old Li Tou stared at the back of Uncle Zhang and Aunt Zhang's departure and snorted, said, Play temper with me, see I can't cure you, and then shout to his daughter-in-law and Li Mei, hurry up and pack up your things, take the child, let's go home
Old Li Tou's daughter-in-law and Li Mei were stunned, and Li Mei said, Forget it, don't want the house, you go home first.
Old Li Tou narrowed his eyes and shouted, No, this house will be transferred to the child's name, besides, this decorated house has a taste, let's go home is good for the child, I tell you, if you don't go home with me, then you don't go back to my home in the future.
Li Mei and her mother were well aware of the temper of this old Li Tou, so they had to pack up their things, hold the child and go home with Old Li Tou, and li Mei in a hurry did not have time to tell Zhang Yu that Zhang Yu went home and saw that his wife and children were gone, what would he do, and Old Li Tou would eventually let his daughter and grandson return to the country.
Old Li Tou returned to his home with his daughter-in-law and Li Mei, but the Zhang Yu family did not know what was happening.
After Zhang Yu returned home, he suddenly found that Li Mei and the child were missing, and Li Mei secretly contacted Zhang Yu.
Zhang Yu knew the cause and effect, and thought to himself, after a few days, old Li Tou was relieved and took Li Mei back.
And Aunt Zhang, who missed her grandson, also asked Uncle Zhang to bow his head and give Old Li Tou a face.
Uncle Zhang also felt that the words he had said before were a bit heavy, so he agreed to go to old Li Tou's house with Zhang Yu' aunt Zhang Yu to pick up Li Mei's mother and son.
However, what they did not expect was that when they knocked on the door at the old Li Tou's house, the old Li Tou shouted across the door, the child was smoked by the smell of decoration in your home, uncomfortable, not suitable for seeing you, after saying it, even the door did not open.
Uncle Zhang understood what kind of decoration pollution this was, which forced us to transfer the house to the child's name.
Zhang Shu angrily scolded him, I told you the surname Li, I come to your house again, I am not a person. After saying that, he turned around and left.
Aunt Zhang and Zhang Yu had no choice but to follow along.
After returning home, Uncle Zhang said to Zhang Yu even more viciously, if you go to his house again, you should not go back to my house, and you will go wherever you want.
After hearing this, Zhang Yu dared to go to Old Li Tou's house.
Old Li Tou originally thought that with the child, this uncle and aunt Zhang must have bowed their heads and confessed their mistakes, but more than half a month later, Zhang Yu did not come, and even Li Mei's phone was not answered
Here Li Meike was anxious, and began to complain that old Li Tou was too much, Zhang Aunt was also on the side, Old Li Tou was unable to speak, his face could not hang up, and Zhang Yu's family asked Zhang Yu why he did not come to see his daughter
But what Old Li Tou himself did not expect was that he not only failed to let his son-in-law come to see his daughter, but even caused more trouble.
Old Li Tou knocked on Zhang Yu's house, knocked on the door and no one opened, turned around and knocked on the door of Uncle Zhang and Aunt Zhang's house.
In fact, Zhang Yu was at Uncle Zhang's aunt Zhang's house, and he was going to open the door, but Uncle Zhang shouted to Zhang Yu, if you open the door, I will break your leg, and then Uncle Zhang shouted to old Li tou across the door, you come to my house less, I call the police when you knock on my door.
When Old Li First heard it, he was angry, and when he saw that there was a big stone in the corridor, he picked up the stone and locked the door and door of Uncle Zhang's house, and also smashed the door of the house where Zhang Yu and Li Mei lived.
Some of the neighbors watched the bustle outside the corridor, and some put their ears to the door to eavesdrop.
And Uncle Zhang in the house also broke out, scolding old Li Tou in the house and calling the police
Zhang Yu shouted that the ugliness of the family should not be publicized, while holding Uncle Zhang and not letting him go out to fight with old Li Tou, it was not easy to make things bigger.
Uncle Zhang's aunt Zhang's family thought that old Li Tou's nonsense would end here, and forced themselves to replace two new doors, which were still electronic locks
However, within a few days, Old Li Tou came again, and this time he carried his pocket to the door of Uncle Zhang's house, and without saying a word, he took out a hammer in his pocket and directly smashed the door lock of their house.
After smashing the lock, Old Li Tou picked up the hammer and threw his legs away.
But uncle Zhang and aunt in this house were in a hurry, because the door lock was broken, and they were trapped in the house and could not come out.
Zhang Shu angrily stomped his feet, picked up the mobile phone and called the police, and at the same time called the unlocking company to open the door
What Old Li Tou did not expect was that the police came to this matter, and the police came to Uncle Zhang's house to inquire about and basic information, and planned to go to the suspect Old Li Tou.
However, at this time, the aunt of the neighborhood committee ran over and said that someone at the gate of the compound saw that Old Li Tou had not left and came back, and the police rushed downstairs to arrest Old Li Tou.
And this old Li Tou saw that the police knew that it was not good, and ran away.
So in the compound of Uncle Zhang's house staged a police arrest of bad guys, old Li Tou was quickly caught, it turned out that after he smashed the news of Uncle Zhang's house, he remembered that he had not smashed the door of Zhang Yu and Li Mei's house, and planned to come back and smash it.
Then the police also angrily questioned the old I Li Tou, your family repeatedly tolerated, why are you not endless, do not know that destroying people's property is illegal?
Old Li Tou narrowed his eyes and shouted, "Do you take care of the internal affairs of our own home?"
Listening to Old Li Tou's words, some people around the crowd also echoed it, saying that Old Li Tou was right, seeing here, you may also ask, this is an internal dispute between relatives, even if you solve it yourself, why should the police take care of it? Even the behavior of this old plum head should not constitute a crime.
When Old Li Tou repeatedly destroyed the door of Uncle Zhang's aunt Zhang's house many times because he did not get the benefits he demanded, and his attitude was arbitrary after being arrested, it obviously did not belong to the category of exemption from punishment.
It is correct for the public security organs to arrest him and the public prosecution to prosecute him.
At the opening of the trial, the judge said to Old Li Tou, Old Li, have you not lived in this life to make your daughter's life good and happy, but you look at you so tossed, can they be happy?
Looking at Li Mei's already crying red eyes, this old Li Tou really regretted what he had done, sincerely apologized like Uncle Zhang's aunt And Aunt Zhang's family, and Uncle Zhang's aunt zhang also immediately expressed his willingness to forgive.
Old Li Tou hopes that the two families will reconcile.
In the end, the court found that Lao Litou had repeatedly destroyed other people's property, worth more than 10,000 yuan, constituting the crime of intentional destruction of property.
However, in view of the family dispute, and finally got the victim's forgiveness, he was given a light sentence of six months and a suspended sentence of one year
This is a mixed story, because on the one hand we think that this old Li Tou is too capable of doing it, but on the other hand, in him we see a lot of people around us, even our own shadows.
Parents love their children very much, but they can't just want their children not to suffer losses without considering the feelings of others.
There is no such thing in the world that only takes advantage of the situation and does not suffer losses.
The relationship between the relatives is a special relationship that integrates all the living habits and personality characteristics of the two families.
For the happiness of the whole family, we should understand each other and tolerate each other, but we must not get along with the idea of not suffering losses, otherwise our children will not only not be happy, but also likely harm them.