Son preference is a bad habit that has been followed for thousands of years, although the current society vigorously advocates equality between men and women, but this kind of thinking is deeply rooted after all, it is difficult to completely eliminate it for a while, people often scoff when talking about other people's patriarchal ideas, so as to show how enlightened they are, and when it is really their turn, they are undoubtedly eager to have a boy.
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Because of the family discord caused by the preference for sons and daughters, flesh and blood estrangement abounds. In the 1990s, xiaowen was rejected by the whole family because she was a girl from birth. In particular, her mother, Li Mei, grew up in a patriarchal family, and she was deeply poisoned by traditional ideas, believing that women are inherently inferior to men. Therefore, when her husband Wang Bing proposed to discard Xiaowen, Li Mei did not raise the slightest objection.
Although Xiaowen is the first child in the family, according to the policy, Wang Bing and Li Mei can also have a second child, but Wang Bing and Li Mei agree that the girl is a money-losing commodity, so they have an iron heart. Wang Bing left Xiaowen in a barren mountain 10 kilometers away from home, leaving her to fend for herself. Unexpectedly, there happened to be a pair of old couples who went up the mountain to collect firewood, and they found Xiaowen following Xiaowen's cries and carried her home.
Time passed day by day, Wang Bing and Li Mei were busy giving birth to their second child every day, but Li Mei's stomach never moved. Wang Bing took Li Mei everywhere to ask for medical treatment, and even asked God to worship The Buddha, seven years later, Li Mei is still not pregnant. At this time, the couple thought of the daughter who had been abandoned by themselves, if she was still alive, she should have been seven years old, and the daughter was also a queen, and she regretted that she had abandoned her in the first place. Wang Bing and Li Mei came to the place where he abandoned his daughter, inquired in many ways, and were very excited to learn that her daughter was still alive, so they found their daughter's current residence and asked the old couple to return their daughter to them. Since their biological parents came to the door, although the old couple was very reluctant in their hearts, they could only let Xiaowen go with them.
Xiao Wen returned home, Wang Bing had a kind of lost and regained joy, and was very fond of Xiao Wen, while Li Mei's mood was very delicate. She does not want other women to share her husband's love, even her own daughter, and this daughter has not grown up with herself since she was a child, and she is not close to herself at all, even her mother will not call, her heart is inevitably lost, resentful, the more she looks, the more she feels hated, whenever she sees Wang Bing interacting with Xiaowen, Li Mei's heart is always full of vinegar, looking for stubble and angry, Wang Bing does not know the reason, the couple often quarrel.
It is strange to say that within a few months of Xiaowen's return home, Li Mei was actually pregnant, and the next year she gave birth to a big fat boy. At this point, Li Mei can be regarded as raising her eyebrows, and the family status has improved. Li Mei, who has a son, completely disregards her daughter and bullies her daughter, she always yells at Xiao Wen, yells three or four, and makes her do this and that, take care of her brother, and if she doesn't like it at all, she will either beat her and scold, and when Wang Bing returns, the evil person who will add oil and vinegar will sue first, and she has to let Wang Bing beat Xiao Wen violently before she can be relieved. And Wang Bing, since he had a son, his attitude towards Xiaowen has also undergone a 180-degree change, always feeling that his daughter is not valuable, and punching and kicking at every turn.
The two mouths are extra careful about Xiao Wen in terms of eating and wearing, leaving the delicious food to his son, Xiao Wen usually can't even catch an egg to eat, resulting in Xiao Wen's serious malnutrition, plus Xiao Wen lives in a rage and scolding every day, and his spirit is very depressed, resulting in Xiao Wen's height forever fixed at one meter three.
Compared with xiaowen's harsh treatment, the younger brother Huzi is diametrically opposite, Li Mei and Wang Bing really put him in their mouths for fear of melting, holding him in their hands for fear of falling, Li Mei changed the law to make him a good meal every day, and he was obedient to his son, because of the nourishment of his parents' love, the tiger grew to one meter eight, looking at his son who was so much taller than his daughter, the two sons were slightly balanced in their hearts, and felt that there was no cheap outsider.
In the blink of an eye, the daughter is almost thirty years old, although her daughter is not satisfactory, Wang Bing and Li Mei still feel that raising their daughter is a great favor to her, and she should be grateful to her parents. They hope that their daughter will quickly get married and have children and complete the life course of a normal person. However, because her daughter is only one meter and three meters tall, she is very inferior in her heart, and she always does not believe that normal boys will be willing to marry her, so she does not dare to pursue her own happiness, and she is ready to be single for a lifetime.
Wang Bing and Li Mei always said that there are many young women and boys now, many men can't marry their wives because they don't have a bride price, and they are very popular as women, and it is easy to marry, they think that Xiaowen himself is not willing to find an object, and he can definitely find it if he wants to find it. Xiao Wen said that although it is difficult for men to marry wives now, but there are many single women, men are not eager to put into the basket is the dish, we go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables and have to pick and choose, not to mention the object of a lifetime, men would rather spend more dowry to marry a favorite, but also do not want to send ugly women in vain, because cheap no good goods, good goods are not cheap, whether it is people or things, it is like this. Do you think a woman can get her hands on it?
Xiao Wen said that he was so short, could you bear to let me have a baby? Wang Bing and Li Mei said that whoever was born with a disability did not have children as usual, who did not have Xiao Wengao, who did not have a child, did not also have a child, how Xiao Wen was so pretentious. Xiao Wen said angrily, why compare me with the most miserable people, is it because I am a girl, I have to be treated with the most meanness, live the most miserable life? Girls are born weak and should not be more loved? Wang Bing and Li Mei also said that when a man is married, a woman should be married, which is a social law, and if you do not marry at the marriageable age, others will laugh. Xiao Wen also said, I already knew that I could not marry out, when I was a child, you should give me more good food, let me look like Tingting Yuli, and I was not willing to invest, and I wanted to get a good return, where in the world is there such a good thing? Can you squeeze out milk without feeding the cows? Wang Bing and Li Mei said again, where are you wrong, what do girls do when they are so tall.
Seeing that his parents could not understand his own suffering, Xiao Wen was very distressed in his heart. One day, Tiger Zi told her that if she didn't marry again and stayed at home all day, it would also have an impact on her finding a partner. Xiao Wen had to move out to live, and since then he has only come home once in the New Year, but when his relatives meet in addition to urging marriage or urging marriage, Xiao Wen said that he is far away from them, which does not hinder their lives, and whether he marries or not has anything to do with them. Parents always adhere to their own views, saying that when people reach the marriageable age, they must get married and have children, and everyone expresses their own opinions, does not give in to each other, and finally always disperses without joy.
Now, the fields of the old family have been expropriated, the house has been demolished, all of them are compensation according to the head, that is to say, they all have a share of Xiao Wen, however, the parents have not given her a penny, they think that Xiao Wen is a daughter, sooner or later to get married, this is the property of the mother's family, should be left to the son. Xiaowen doesn't mind because she has a job and can support herself, and she still gives money to her parents every month. However, in her opinion, all this is just her fulfilling her obligations, and family affection has long been an unfamiliar word to her, out of reach.
Xiao Wen sometimes thinks that if her parents were not so patriarchal, from the beginning to love her well and spoil her, maybe she would grow into a Tingting Yuli, a girl full of love in her heart, because she has the accumulation of love in her heart, she is willing to give love to others, she may be willing to get married and have children. However, the reality is cruel, she is short in stature, indifferent to family affection, lost the courage and self-confidence to find true love, and built a stubborn copper wall around herself. However, a different life has a different scenery, choose another road, how can you know what this road is like? It is precisely because of the unfair treatment he received from childhood that Xiaowen really learned to be strong and independent.
Tiger Zi developed a solipsistic personality due to his pampering from an early age, and in a fight, he hacked others to death by mistake and was sentenced to life imprisonment. Wang Bing and Li Mei were like five thunderbolts, unable to afford to be sick, or Xiao Wen was busy taking care of them. At this time, the old couple felt that this daughter was incomparably precious, and her attitude towards her underwent a 180-degree change, shed old tears of shame, but Xiaowen, who had already seen through human nature, would no longer have the slightest touch in her heart, she still had no intention of getting married and having children, she did not know why she wanted to form a new family, her parents did not love her, who would love her? People don't love her, so what's the point of her giving birth to someone else? Due to the long-term lack of love, she no longer believes that there is true love in the world, and has long lost the motivation and ability to love.
This has to be said to be a tragedy, how can a person who has long lacked love have the ability to love others, and at the same time, why should we ask her to love others?