The mother of the girl published a confession book on a certain platform. Photo/Screenshot of a social media platform
Mr. Wang Yangming said that "it is easy to break the mountain and the thief in the heart is difficult", and now, this sentence should be given to the parents who "live endlessly, and the chickens and babies are not endless".
Recently, a parent rejected the "chicken baby", but was excluded and isolated by the parents of other students in his class on the hot search, the news came out, triggering a discussion among the people.
The incident occurred in a local "top-class" primary school in Guizhou, because her mother opposed the teacher's excessive written homework, and the 7-year-old was jointly "petitioned" by 37 of the 39 parents in the class to transfer schools. The reason is not that the girl violates the class discipline and affects the learning of others, but that the mother of the girl and the class teacher have a conflict in the concept of education. After the fermentation of the matter, the teachers involved were given the decision to report criticism in the whole district, revoke the position of grade group leader, and cancel the title of "municipal famous class teacher".
This incident has also caused many netizens to discuss, most of the netizens are "singing unevenly" for the girls, but there are still a considerable number of voices for the teachers involved in the "cry", thinking that the mother of the girls is against the "chicken baby" to damage the class style and damage education.
On October 19, the mother chose to speak out again, and in this article titled "Confessions of the Mother", the mother told the story of the journey against the "chicken baby".
In her eyes, the "out of place" self is refusing to be a refined egoist, reflecting the intellectuals' feelings of home and country and responsibility. At the end of the article, she stressed that "the results brought about by stampede education and brush-up training that can only be won by a few people are not conducive to the development of the country and the nation" "We need to educate every child well, so that every child can grow up healthily according to its own characteristics and thrive." ”
Surprisingly, this "confession" not only failed to respond to the doubts of some netizens, but instead added oil and blazing salaries.
Netizens in the comment area choose their own teams, which are divided into two distinct factions. It can be seen that the contradictory mentality of many parents under the "double reduction" policy is like the tip of the iceberg on the sea. Just a gentle impact is enough to set off a huge wave of public opinion-
Some netizens chose to support your mother and praise her bravery. In their view, when most people are numb to acquiescence and obedience to the "unspoken rules" of education, only when more people stand up and "do not compromise" can schools return to the original intention of teaching and educating people. Parents have less "moths" in order to let their children have a happy childhood.
There are also some parents who stand on the side of "chicken baby justice", criticizing the mother for being "too good for people", "low emotional intelligence, a tendon", "too paranoid" and "not good at communication".
Summarizing the central idea of the opponents, it is actually a sentence: you don't want to "roll" can, don't pull everyone together "no volume".
Netizens commented under the confession book of the mother of the girl. Photo/Screenshot of a social media platform
In recent years, the "theater effect" in economics has become the most vivid metaphor for the "inner volume" of education, and it may be useful to analyze the mentality of some parents who do not give up the "chicken baby" under the "double reduction" policy.
In order to get a better view, one person stood up first, the person who was blocked by him had to stand up as well, and finally everyone had to stand up to watch the performance. Under this "inner volume", it is ultimately the children and parents who stand and watch the performance.
But when everyone is used to standing and watching the performance, suddenly a parent chooses to sit down to watch as before, he not only refuses to stand up to watch the performance, but also wants to pull other parents to sit down together, and as a result, other parents do not do it, and also want to directly kick the parents who "provoke" out of the theater and continue to "roll up".
The "double reduction" policy essentially allows everyone to return to the original intention of education, so that children and parents can "sit down and watch the performance without losing vision".
But in reality, there are not a few parents who refuse to "sit down and watch the performance". Today, the first semester after the "double reduction" policy is nearly halfway through, and the "chicken baby" dark war is still being staged. Some parents try to give their children a "small stove" and identify "losses inside the embankment and outside the embankment"; some people are still "wearing new shoes and walking the old road", falling into the mindset of "improving one point and killing a thousand people".
Interpretation: Can the implementation of the "double reduction" policy alleviate educational anxiety? Video/Beijing News
As a result, there are a lot of "outrageous" news that appear in the public eye:
High-end home economics recruitment with the label of "returnee master's degree, English specialist eight" surfaced;
Tutors who "take private lessons" only accept cash receipts;
In order to collect money for weekend make-up classes, the physics class venue is set up in the basketball hall, and what is even funnier is that the parent group of students is named "sports theory knowledge improvement", and the mechanical principles taught in the class are defined as "the force analysis of basketball";
Around the "monthly examination, class assignment", two parents of a middle school set off a "war of words", one side demanded cancellation, the other side directly "angry", questioning the "burden reduction" to make students become "scum", and finally delayed everyone's future...
If education is the confusion of our generation of parents, then "double subtraction" should be the starting point of the original source.
Formally, the "reduction" is the pressure of schoolwork and the burden of heavy homework, and at a deep level, what should really be "reduced" is the "inner volume" thinking in the hearts of some parents.
Guarding children's interest and creativity, comprehensively promoting the reform of talent training and education evaluation system, letting each endowment find a stage to display, and giving each life the possibility of blooming, can we truly open the thousand knots in the hearts of "chicken baby" parents and avoid the farce of being excluded and isolated without "chicken baby" being staged again.
Contributing Writer 丨Bai Jingjing (Media Person)
Edited by 丨Ding Hui
Intern 丨 Wei Yingzi
Proofreading 丨 Li Lijun