Text丨Shuangqi Town Inn (We don't have much time in this world, it's not worth wasting time trying to please those vulgar and despicable scoundrels!)
On April 28, 2024, in a high-standard hospital in Shaoxing, Zhejiang, a junior and senior high school student in a black school uniform was wearing a hanging needle because he was sick, and he was still insisting on doing his homework on the other.
Just watching this scene, you should be very moved, right? Such a diligent and studious child!
However, then there was a small conflict, and if you could read it in its entirety, you might not think so, right?
After the conflict, insiders speculated from the school uniform of the minor, who only showed her back but never looked up, that she should be a student of a famous local high school, Yigao. According to insiders, this high school is a well-known and thunderous high school in the local area, and its admission rate is the highest among other schools in the region.
I don't know what the admission rate of this high school is, but our local high school called "First High School" has unscrupulously focused on the admission rate, and the online rate of one and two of its books has been stable at more than 60% all year round. With the exception of this high school, the admission rate is lackluster — 10 percent is probably an impossible task.
I think that Shaoxing, Zhejiang Province is not a third- or fourth-tier city like me, and the admission rate of its first-class high schools should be even more terrifying, right?
If the admission rate of this high school is very terrifying, then we can be sure that this student must not be an unknown person.
First, this student should represent many students today - the quality of this person is the quality of the current minor, and the original family environment in which this person lives is the environment of many original families at present; second, this student is also very likely to be able to enter the upper echelon of the crowd pyramid in the future and become a successful person in the secular sense.
The student was immersed in his homework while receiving infusions, which of course moved everyone -- if a teenager is strong, China is strong! However, the place where this child used to write his homework was a medical device in this hospital that treats diseases and saves people -- a machine that makes nebulized inhalation therapy for minors.
In fact, this student who writes his homework can completely relax and not have to write his homework so wastelessly. If she really wants to do her homework, she can also consider doing it elsewhere in the hospital.
For example, there is not only one nebulizer inhalation therapy device in this hospital, but more than a dozen in a neat row. The one she occupied happened to be the only one of the dozen or so that was functioning and not being occupied.
A parent of a child took his child to look for a nebulized inhalation therapy device that could be used, and saw that all the available treatment instruments had been occupied, and the only vacant instrument that could be used was occupied by the student who was writing homework while infusion, so he stepped forward and used the honorific word "you" in a euphemistic tone to communicate with the parents of the students who were writing homework, hoping that they could go to other places to write homework, and explained: their children will not use the nebulization therapy device for more than ten minutes, and hope that the other party can make it convenient.
However, no matter how much the parents of the children pleaded, the parents of the students who occupied the nebulizer were not friendly and were reluctant to give up their places.
In desperation, the parents of the children who urgently needed nebulized inhalation treatment found a nurse and pinned their hopes on the nurse's coordination.
With the intervention of the nurse, the parents of the students who occupied the nebulizer inhalation therapy device said, "There are so many instruments idle, why don't you use other machines?!"
Nurse: "Those instruments are in a damaged state and can't be used!"
"Then why don't you go to repair?!"
Nurse: "That's for later, now, can you put yourself in someone else's shoes?"
"I don't empathize!"
Seeing that all communication methods have entered a dead end: when a person is unreasonable, she has not violated the bottom line of the law, and it is impossible for the "six doors" with law enforcement power to interfere, and the nurse who does not have law enforcement power can only be helpless and anxious.
Fortunately, the problem was solved by a parent of a child next to him, whose child had just finished treatment during the dispute between the two parties, and called on the parents of the child who could not find the nebulizer to use the vacated equipment.
This is the end of the matter, but shouldn't we really think about something?
Everyone is advocating the law of the jungle of "the jungle of the jungle", and the tide of this kind of thinking has brought us more and more of this kind of original family. Under the influence of their parents' education, children who come out of this kind of original family are growing into absolutely refined people, and they have become unwilling to empathize and facilitate others.
As a front-line teacher with a junior title for 26 years, I once again came to a conclusion from this incident: the root cause of the increasing difficulty in educating minors is that their families of origin are becoming more and more difficult to educate, isn't that true?