Different countries may have differences in the details of the concept of family, but on the whole, family harmony has always been a happy thing. A harmonious family not only gives birth to a happy life, but also is a valuable asset for the psychology and growth of each family member.
The film recommended to you today is an Indian movie, and "One Heart" is an Indian movie about family harmony. Of course, as an Indian film, singing and dancing are indispensable, but for this film, these songs and dances are not the biggest component, the biggest feature of this film is the upgrade of the concept of harmonious family created in the film, for anyone who has watched this film, the surprise is always greater than the sadness.
The core of "Heart in One Place" has been undoubtedly revealed in the title. At a family banquet, some people love each other and some people sing, and at a continuous family banquet, there are people who continue to love each other and some people sing. Originally, this family banquet would go on forever, but when the family members formed their own families one after another, the new family had its own joys and sorrows, and the joys that originally belonged to the old family were gradually forgotten. The original family members walked into their own huts, and the family lost its old laughter because of the gradual growth of the members. Of course, the ending of this film is still happy, but we can't ignore its hidden danger, that is, the connection between time and family.
For any person, family is an inevitable social connection in a lifetime, even if a person advocates independence, he still needs to play a role of his own in the face of the family. Human beings themselves are social animals, and from birth to death, the family is naturally an unavoidable and important relationship chain. The delusion of so-called freedom by leaving the family is itself unrealistic. For the family, the growth and unity of the family members itself means that the family takes root and multiplies. And the rooting and reproduction of the family itself means that each member of the family can share in more actual benefits, which should be a happy thing for all.
However, the criticism of the family in modern society lies in the fact that the family is a place where ideas are imprisoned, people are getting closer and closer to individualization, and the existence of the family itself is not established for individualization, the family emphasizes the collective, emphasizes the interests of all members, but the interests of all members can not simply take into account everyone, but the complex of everyone's interests, once there is the greatest common divisor, it is natural to sacrifice some individual interests to make concessions for the collective. But such concessions are a division of their own interests for those who have a clear advantage, which is obviously not in line with the principle of the supremacy of the individual, and therefore, they will be unhappy.
For those family members with obvious disadvantages, the greatest common divisor is obviously to protect their own interests from infringement, to protect their own interests in the long run, to protect their own interests to be guarded, and so on. These are naturally highly respected for family members who are at a disadvantage.
If there is no strong collective to average individual interests, then individual interests themselves will cause polarization, and the existence of polarization is intolerant to a collective. The two levels of differentiation themselves create more acute problems that modern societies cannot solve.
People in modern society can always put themselves in a situation where they have to have and want, and the existence of the family itself is to break this situation little by little, because if you want to get it, you need to pay something, if you don't have any contribution to the family to divide the benefits of the family, then this is unfair to all family members. Just like the disabled brother in the film, when he realized that his left hand would be disabled forever, his first thought was not that his personal interests would be damaged, but that his contribution to the family would be damaged, so he was reluctant to get married and start a new family at first, which is a manifestation of a natural family consciousness. Of course, his perception also changed later, which is a later story.
In addition to the individual factors in the family members, let's look at the collective factors, the basis of the existence of the organization of the family is also more beneficial than disadvantageous, because the collective ability to resist risks is better than the individual, when the major disaster risk comes, the body itself has a strong resistance, this resistance is different from the individual resistance, in the collective, even if the individual ability is very subtle, but when the subtle ability of all people is concentrated together, it will glow with greater strength, and this greater strength is a reliable guarantee for us to resist external risks。
In other words, no matter how strong the strength of the individual is, it is only an individual, when a major risk hits, even if the individual can resist for a while, but when the time line begins to lengthen, the individual's resistance will appear very weak, so the existence of the family is undoubtedly a stabilizing factor for major risks. Therefore, in many film and television dramas, family harmony is naturally what everyone is happy to see, for this film, even if there are some episodes later, it does not affect the final ending, and the family carnival does not seem to be divided into nationalities.
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