A smart and beautiful Vietnamese girl, Xuan Mi, has been attached to her family since she was a child, and once firmly stated that she would not marry a foreigner.
However, the opportunity to study in China as an adult changed her mind. She began to fall in love with Chinese culture, and as a result, she became acquainted with a young man from Henan, China, Xu Ge.
Lao Xu and Genmi
The two are attracted by each other's charm, slowly approach, and get to know each other. In 2018, witnessed by their parents and relatives, the two walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand.
Hold a wedding
Now that they have been married for 6 years, Genmi has successfully given birth to two mixed-race babies and settled in Foshan, ancient Guangdong, China. So how did they live after marriage? How did Genmi feel when she married in China?
The most famous person in this issue will take you into the love story of Vietnamese daughter-in-law Xuan Mi and Chinese guy Brother Xu!
Vietnamese girl Xuan Mi
In 1994, Genmi was born into a wealthy family in Vietnam.
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She doesn't have to worry about eating and dressing, and she is loved by her parents. The family owns a lot of land in the local area, and relying on the family's property alone is enough to make the brown rice live without worrying about food and clothing.
Under such living conditions, Genmi firmly believed that he would never marry a foreigner. Vietnam is already so good, why go and live abroad?
According to Genmi's idea, she didn't need to learn a foreign language. However, the school arranged Chinese classes, and after contact with Xuanmi, he found that Chinese culture is broad and profound. Gradually, she developed a strong interest in Chinese.
Coupled with the needs of the future market, in order to expand the family business, Genmi decided to study Chinese well.
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In 2012, 18-year-old Xuan Mi was admitted to a local university in Vietnam to study Chinese. At this time, she devoted herself to studying Chinese and constantly participated in various activities held by the school.
Her outstanding performance was quickly discovered by the school teachers and attracted the appreciation of the school leaders.
"Do you want to go to China for an exchange study?" After class that day, the teacher stopped Genmi and asked her. Genmi hesitated because she had never thought of leaving Vietnam to live.
"How long is the exchange?" asked Genmi.
"One semester. After hearing the teacher's reply, Genmi's heart was moved. It's a great thing to get up close and personal with Chinese culture and get a good resume in just one semester.
Genmi told her parents about it, and her parents strongly supported her to study in China.
Study abroad in China
In 2014, Xuanmi, a third-year Vietnamese college student, followed the large army organized by the school to a normal college in Guangxi, China for exchange and study.
After arriving in Guilin, Genmi was once again shocked: the scenery of China is as beautiful as an ink painting, and the beauty of the mountains and rivers is even more beautiful.
After she came to China, she took her classes seriously in school and traveled around Guangxi. During the semester of studying in China, Genmi ate a lot of Chinese food, saw a lot of Chinese scenery, and naturally gained many Chinese friends.
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Sometimes she wonders, if I hadn't studied Chinese and studied abroad with the school, wouldn't I have missed too much beauty?
She is very sure of the correctness of learning Chinese, and believes that getting in touch with China and understanding Chinese culture is the most correct choice she has made.
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At this time, she forgot that she said that she would never marry a foreign Chinese. She wants to start a sweet relationship in China, but unfortunately her time in China is too short. Before I had time to date a boy I had a good feeling for, it was time to go home.
Returning to your home country to work
In 2015, Genmi returned to Vietnam after studying abroad in China. Instead of staying at home to help her father, she chose to join a Chinese company.
In contrast, the salaries and benefits offered by Chinese companies are much higher than those offered by local companies. There are many Vietnamese who are desperately trying to learn Chinese just to work under the hands of the Chinese.
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People like Genmi, who have returned from studying in China, are highly educated and can easily find a job in a Chinese company. Even if you can't find a big company, even if you translate for Chinese, you can get a lot of money every month.
Genmai's father was a farmer, and Genmai, who returned from studying in China, became an urban white-collar worker. No matter where he goes, Genmai is someone else's child who is a powerful person in the family.
Even many children in the family began to learn Chinese under the influence of Xuanmi.
Meet a Chinese man
In 2017, several colleagues from China came to Genmi's company. There was a Henan man named Brother Xu inside, who fell in love with Xuanmi at a glance.
Genmi and Lao Xu
The fate of the two began in the company's canteen, and Brother Xu, who had just come to work in a Vietnamese company, was a little restrained in an unfamiliar environment. After a person finishes eating, he sits alone in the corner and eats.
Suddenly, a pleasant voice came from the side, and Brother Xu hurriedly looked up: it was a Vietnamese woman in professional clothes chatting with friends. Speaking of the rise, the girl also raised her hand to hide the smile on the corner of her mouth.
Brother Xu and Genmi
This small gesture is full of Chinese subtlety.
The girl's side face and voice made Brother Xu lose his mind for a moment.
Brother Xu and Genmi
Brother Xu is nearly 30 years old, born in rural Henan, and he is working hard every day, and he has no chance to hold hands with his favorite female guests. It is no exaggeration to say that Brother Xu is a single mother.
The first time they met, Brother Xu had a deep understanding of Genmi. Xuanmi didn't even know who Brother Xu was. For several days in a row, Brother Xu stayed at the place where he first met, looking forward to seeing his favorite Vietnamese girl Xuanmi again.
Genmi and Brother Xu
Finally, the two met again. Brother Xu seized the opportunity and stepped forward to ask for contact information: Hello! I have seen you before. You're beautiful, can you add a contact information?
Genmi smiled and nodded, agreeing to Brother Xu's friend application.
Brother Xu and Genmi
The two were of similar age and spoke the same language, and soon became a couple.
Take it home to meet the parents
In 2018, Genmi returned to his hometown in Vietnam with Brother Xu.
Brother Hsu in Vietnam
She wants her parents and sisters to see if this Chinese boyfriend is reliable. Brother Xu was not ambiguous, and immediately went to the supermarket to buy a large bag of expensive gifts for the future father-in-law's family.
Not only that, but I also bought new clothes, new shoes and boxes of snacks for the children in the family.
Genmi's home in Vietnam
In this way, the father-in-law couldn't find fault with taking care of his son-in-law at all. The mother-in-law even looked at this Chinese boy and liked it more and more, and entertained Brother Xu with a pause.
Vietnamese mother-in-law and Brother Xu
Come here, naturally I want to talk about the big thing of marriage. Others marry Vietnamese daughters-in-law, and basically do not give a bride price. But Brother Xu was generous, and gave Xuanmi 30,000 yuan as a bride price at once, and also bought a piece of land for his father-in-law in Vietnam.
In this way, the Vietnamese family members are happy to urge Lao Xu to marry Xuan Mi and return to China.
Brother Xu and Genmi
So in 2018, witnessed by Vietnamese relatives and friends, Brother Xu and Xuan Mi held a Vietnamese-style wedding at home.
Return to China for development
Soon after the wedding, Brother Xu returned to his hometown in Henan with his daughter-in-law.
Genmi and Brother Xu
Brother Xu's parents were very satisfied when they saw this Vietnamese daughter-in-law who had come from afar! Not to mention that this daughter-in-law was beautiful, she was also very hardworking and capable. Not only can you work in the fields, but you can also earn money to work, and most importantly, you can speak standard Mandarin.
After staying in his hometown for a while, Brother Xu went to work in other places alone. He left his Vietnamese daughter-in-law, Xuan Mi, whom he had finally married, at home.
There is no way, for the sake of livelihood, the two husbands and wives can only be temporarily separated.
Genmi and Brother Xu
Genmai went from a college student with a job to a full-time housewife at home, and she was the one who stayed behind in the countryside.
But Genmi didn't care about this, because she had more important arrangements.
After 1 year of marriage, Genmi gave birth to her first child in her hometown, a handsome boy. Brother Xu's family was so happy! Brother Xu also said: Give you 4,000 yuan every month, and you will take care of the baby at home!
Brother Xu
After Genmi got the money from her husband, she didn't spend a penny, and all of it was saved as capital to buy a house.
Then Genmi gave birth to a second child, also a boy. At this time, Lao Xu directly has 2 sons and has become a winner in life. And both of these children have Chinese hukou.
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Now that we have children, the family has to live together. So in 2022, Xuanmi will take her 2 children and go to Foshan, Guangdong to do business with her husband Brother Xu.
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This idea was put forward by Xuanmi, and she said: We can do women's clothing e-commerce in Guangdong.
With the concerted efforts of the husband and wife, their e-commerce business has become bigger and bigger, and they have gradually accumulated a lot of capital.
In order to facilitate their lives, they bought a 100-square-meter house in Foshan for a family of four to live in. Even Genmi offered to bring his parents-in-law from his hometown to live together. The elderly can not only live with their children when they come to Guangdong, but also help take care of their children. If the family works together, they will definitely create a better life.
Seeing that his life at home was better, Lao Xu planned to take his Vietnamese father-in-law to China.
In 2023, the Vietnamese father-in-law, accompanied by his daughter and son-in-law, came to China. Originally, he had been worried that his daughter's life in China would not be easy, and that her daughter would not be used to life here. It wasn't until he actually came to China that he realized that his daughter married into China to enjoy happiness.
After this trip, the old father was much more relieved! When he returned to Vietnam, he praised China for being good and for his son-in-law. aroused the envy of relatives and neighbors: If only my daughter could marry in China!
So how is the Genmai family doing now?
The editor saw the latest situation of their family through Genmi's Douyin account "Vietnam Genmi".
Today, Vietnamese Xuan Mi and her husband's family live in Foshan, Guangdong Province, and are engaged in an e-commerce business.
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At the beginning of April 2024, the family had just moved to a new home.
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With a happy face, Genmi showed us the decoration of the new house and the picture of the four generations of the old Xu family living together.
It can be seen that Genmi has lived a happy life since marrying Brother Xu. And Brother Xu also embarked on the train of a happy life because he married a Vietnamese girl like Xuan Mi, who is knowledgeable and has a hearty temperament.
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