Ordinary families, there is really no need to invest too much in their children, and they can raise whatever children they have

In today's society, many parents want the best of everything for their children. They are willing to invest a lot of time and money in their children's education and future. However, for many ordinary households, this excessive investment is not necessary and may even have some negative effects. Because, every child is unique and they have their own interests and talents, not all children need to invest a lot to succeed. Therefore, ordinary families should raise their children according to their own conditions, rather than blindly pursuing investments.

Here, I will share with you a story, there is a mother with a very ordinary family, on her daughter's birthday, bought her an old Apple mobile phone as a birthday gift, but she didn't expect her daughter to lose her temper and shouted: "I don't care, who called you so useless, the money you earn is not enough!" and some daughters grew up and scolded their parents: "Old guy, you can't afford to raise this fairy, don't give birth back then." How do you feel as a parent?

First of all, excessive investment can be a huge stress for children. When parents expect too much from their children, children may feel too stressed to handle. Not only can this affect their physical and mental health, but it can also cause them to lose interest in their Xi. Conversely, if parents are able to set reasonable expectations based on their child's actual situation, then the child will have more time and energy to do the things they really enjoy.

Second, excessive investment can make children too dependent on their parents. If parents always provide the best for their children, then children may become too dependent on their parents and lack the ability to live independently. This is very detrimental to their growth and development. Therefore, parents should teach their children to think independently and solve problems so that they can better cope with various challenges in their future lives.

In addition, excessive investment may cause parents to neglect their own needs. In order to provide the best for their children, many parents sacrifice their time and energy or even neglect their own health. However, the health and well-being of parents is very important for children. Only when parents themselves live well can they take better care of and educate their children.

Finally, we should understand that success is not determined only by money and investment. There are many successful people who do not have a high education, but they achieve their dreams through their own efforts and talents. Therefore, we should encourage children to discover their own interests and talents, rather than blindly pursuing investments.

In general, for ordinary families, the best education should be how to raise children under whatever conditions in the family. Only in this way can we raise children who are truly talented, capable, and responsible. At the same time, we should also let children understand that success is not only determined by money and investment, but needs to be achieved through their own efforts and talents.