In a family, children have a good life, and parents basically have these 3 good habits, and you have a few

Ting Ma Alan

2024-05-11 18:16Posted in Guangdong parenting field creators

Hello everyone, I'm Ting's mother

Yesterday I went to Tingting School to attend the annual Parent-Teacher Conference, which was held in the school's lecture hall and was attended by both Year 8 students and parents.

In a family, children have a good life, and parents basically have these 3 good habits, and you have a few

One of the things I noticed was that some children excelled in every subject.

The teacher shared the children who performed particularly well in each course, and there were several girl names in them, which appeared in each class. Tingting also said that those children almost won the top 10 in the grade.

Seeing other people's children so good, and looking at Tingting again, I am really envious.

But envy is envy, and I also have to reflect on why other people's children are so good, in fact, they are inseparable from their families and their parents.

We all know that family is the first and most important school for children in their journey of growth.

Parents are their children's first teachers, and our words and actions will undoubtedly have a profound impact on children.

Both scientific research and real-world cases have shown that parents can greatly contribute to their children's future success if they can develop the following 3 habits.

These habits are not only related to a child's academic achievement, but also to their psychological development, social skills, and attitude towards life.

1. Positive family learning atmosphere

Children who grow up in an intellectually curious family environment tend to have a more positive attitude towards learning.

Parents' reading habits, curiosity about knowledge, and support and encouragement for their children's learning are all key factors in cultivating children's enthusiasm for learning.

Li Mei, who is a neighbor, reads with her children every night, not only letting them choose the books they are interested in, but also discussing the contents of the books with them to stimulate their thinking and imagination.

This interaction not only strengthens the parent-child relationship, but also cultivates the child's ability to think and express independently.

2. Positive emotional expression and management

Emotional intelligence plays an increasingly important role in personal success.

Parents can set a good example for their children if they can express and manage their emotions correctly.

When parents remain optimistic in the face of challenges and calm when they encounter difficulties, children learn how to deal with their emotions effectively.

My colleague Li Ming is a particularly emotionally stable person, and he can also stay calm when he is under pressure at work. We've never seen a time when he was emotionally out of control.

His son Li Sihang was influenced by Li Ming and had a particularly good personality. Sometimes when they see us, they always greet us from afar, and they also enthusiastically share their toys or delicious snacks with us.

Li Ming said that when he is at home, he often talks to his children about emotions, helps them understand that it is normal to have emotions, and teaches them how to deal with emotions in a healthy way.

3. Actively participate in children's lives

Parents' active involvement in their children's lives not only strengthens the bonds between family members, but also helps children build self-confidence and a sense of responsibility.

Zhang Jing is a good example of this, she often participates in the activities of her children's school, whether it is sports competitions or academic displays, she is never absent and is always there to cheer for the children.

This support makes children feel valued and valued, which in turn makes them more motivated to strive for excellence.

In addition to these 3 habits, there are many other details and behavior patterns that we can develop through daily interactions to develop children's success qualities. For example, setting reasonable expectations, encouraging children to try new things, and teaching children to be grateful are all examples of family parenting styles worth advocating.

Summary:

The role of parents is crucial in the development of children. They are not only the guides and supporters of children, but also the objects of children's learning and imitation.

Therefore, parents need to constantly improve themselves and lead by example to create a healthy, positive, and loving environment for their children to grow up.

Such an environment will not only help children succeed academically, but also enable them to go further in life and become responsible, empathetic, and creative people.

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