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In the past 9 months, my health has deteriorated, Zhang Qiang is very worried about me, and he shush the cold every day, for fear that I will be reluctant to endure hardship.
"Wife, do you think the baby is moving today?" Zhang Qiang asked with concern while massaging my stomach.
"Yes, yes, our baby is super lively. I replied with a smile.
"That's good, you and the baby have to work together, I'll take care of you. Zhang Qiang said gently.
However, just 1 month before my due date, I suddenly started having a high fever, dizziness and nausea every day. Zhang Qiang was frightened and hurriedly took me to the hospital for examination. The doctor did a thorough examination and told me that it might be caused by placental abruption and that I needed to be hospitalized for observation.
I was very worried about my baby's safety and was tossing and turning in the hospital bed. Zhang Qiang stayed by my side every step of the way, always caring about my condition.
"Husband, could it be that I didn't take care of myself to cause the baby to have problems?" I couldn't help but ask.
"Don't say that, you've done a great job. It's not your fault, the doctor will cure you and your baby. Zhang Qiang held my hand and comforted.
My condition gradually deteriorated during my hospitalization, and Zhang Qiang was very anxious. In order to find the best doctor for me, he contacted my mother and asked her to come forward and help.
My mother, who is a very traditional person, insisted that we be discharged from the hospital and go home, saying that recuperating at home and drinking Chinese medicine would be more beneficial to my recovery.
Zhang Qiang hesitated, he didn't want to disobey the doctor's instructions.
"Mom, the doctor said that the baby's condition is not stable, and it is best to receive treatment in the hospital. Zhang Qiang said cautiously.
"What good things can a doctor say! When I go to home, I take care of Mei Mei personally, which is definitely better than being in the hospital. My mother said forcefully.
In the face of his mother's insistence and her age, Zhang Qiang is no longer able to force it. So, I had to go back home and recuperate.
My mother boiled Chinese medicine for me every day, and told me not to take the medicine prescribed by the doctor, and I was not allowed to take hanging injections. I watched my mother busy with her work, but I didn't know the bottom of my heart. Zhang Qiang was also worried, but no
At my mother's insistence, I had to stay at home to recuperate. But my body was getting worse day by day, I continued to have a high fever, and the fetal movement became less and less. Zhang Qiang was very worried and tried to take me back to the hospital several times, but my mother forcibly stopped me.
"Mom, Meimei's condition is really wrong, we have to take her to the hospital. Zhang Qiang persuaded his mother again.
"It's enough to have me, don't listen to the doctor's nonsense!" The mother remained unmoved.
I looked at Zhang Qiang's anxious appearance, and I was also very anxious. "Mom, let's go back to the hospital first, and let Zhang Qiang rest assured. "I carefully advised my mother.
"Okay, you're an unfilial girl, listen to your husband and don't listen to me!" The mother was annoyed.
"Mom, we all want to make Meimei better, don't be angry. Zhang Qiang hurriedly persuaded his mother.
"You should have listened to the doctor's advice and continued to be hospitalized, how could you just take the patient home? The doctor bitterly rebuked my family.
My mother couldn't cry either, she hugged my body and cried loudly: "Meimei, my mother is wrong, you must come back!"
Zhang Qiang dealt with the aftermath in despair, and as soon as he returned home, he began to overeat and drink heavily.
"Zhang Qiang, you can't go on like this, Meimei will be sad. My mother advised him.
"It's all my fault! I shouldn't have listened to you and brought her home!" Zhang Qiang punched the wall.
Zhang Qiang stayed in bed all day and all night, thinking about me and our unborn child. He looked at our wedding photos and cried bitterly, wishing that he would turn back time and bring me back to life.
During this time, Zhang Qiang lost a lot of weight, and he began to reflect on what if
During this time, Zhang Qiang lost a lot of weight, and he began to reflect that if he insisted on keeping me in the hospital for treatment, maybe the fate of me and my baby would not be like this.
Just as he was blaming himself and grief-stricken, two policemen came to him and said they were here to investigate the cause of my death.
"Mr. Zhang, after investigation, we found that your wife's death was related to medical malpractice. The police said.
"What? Didn't I bring her home?" Zhang Qiang asked in surprise.
"Not really. The prenatal examiner's negligence during the examination did not find your wife's placental abruption, which is the real reason. The policeman replied.
It turned out that my death was entirely due to medical malpractice and had nothing to do with my family. Zhang Qiang was stunned when he heard the whole person, and he didn't know what to think.
"Mr. Zhang, we will hold the responsible doctor accountable in accordance with the law. You don't need to blame yourself for this. The policeman comforted.
"Thanks, I see. Zhang Qiang was relieved.
My mother was also relieved to learn the truth, she hugged Zhang Qiang and said, "Son, we have all made too many mistakes for ourselves. Mei Mei will understand us in the spirit of heaven. ”
"Mom, I'm sorry, I shouldn't have blamed you before. Let's live well, this is the best memorial to Meimei. ”
Since then, Zhang Qiang no longer blames himself. He thought about it a lot and decided to set up a public welfare foundation to help families who lost loved ones due to medical malpractice. My mother joined in and started volunteering, using her time to visit patients at the hospital.
Zhang Qiang also regained his strength, he wants to work hard, and then use the money he earns to help more people in need, this is my wish.
"Meimei, I will slowly come out of my grief and live. Your Spirit in Heaven will surely bless us. Zhang Qiang looked at my photo and whispered.
I believe Zhang Qiang will be able to do it. Through this foundation, more families who have been victims of medical malpractice can be helped, and that may be the reason for my departure. I will watch him in heaven and thank my husband for not giving up his life because of me.
A year later, on the day of my death, Zhang Qiang came to my grave, and he laid down his bouquet and worshiped me reverently.
"Meimei, I will always love you, and I will never forget it in this life. Zhang Qiang burst into tears.
I know he's going to keep trying to live. That's what I want to see the most.
On the day of my death, Zhang Qiang not only came to the tomb to worship, but also held a simple sacrifice ceremony for me at home.
"Meimei, I prepared your favorite dishes, as well as our wedding photos, you will definitely like it. "Zhang Qiang put my favorite home-cooked food in front of my posthumous photos.
"Daughter, mom misses you too. My mother said with tears in her eyes.
"We will all remember you forever, and you must bless us in the Spirit of Heaven. Zhang Qiang folded his hands in prayer.
In this way, in the company of Zhang Qiang and my mother, my soul was also comforted.
After a while, Zhang Qiang regained his strength and actively devoted himself to the work of the public welfare foundation. At a donation ceremony, one of the recipients said directly to Zhang Qiang:
"Mr. Zhang, thanks to your foundation, my child has been treated in a timely manner. Thank you so much!"
"Don't thank me, that's what I'm supposed to do. Zhang Qiang said modestly.
I am also proud of Zhang Qiang in the Spirit of Heaven. He walked out of his grief and passed on my love to more people in need.
I often appear in Zhang Qiang's dreams and say to him, "Husband, I have always been by your side, please continue to work hard to live!" Every time he woke up from a dream, Zhang Qiang would nod silently with red eyes.
On our wedding anniversary, Zhang Qiang came to the church alone and sat in the place where we had made our vows.
"Meimei, this was supposed to be our 10th wedding anniversary, I miss you so much. Zhang Qiang looked at my photo and whispered to himself.
"Daughter, don't worry, I'll take care of Zhang Qiang. "My mother also came to the church and sat down next to Zhang Qiang.
"Mom, thank you for your understanding. Zhang Qiang held his mother's hand.
I believe that with his mother's company, Zhang Qiang will be able to gradually get out of his grief and start a new life. I will always protect their mother and son.
After this tragedy, Zhang Qiang grew a lot. He no longer blames himself, but tries to live and pass on my love to more people. I can finally go to another world with peace of mind.
Life in the world is full of unknowns and helplessness. We all need to learn Xi to understand, forgive, and encourage one another. That's what I want to say to Zhang Qiang and my mother. Thank them for letting me experience the true feelings of the world, I will always remember it.
In the years that I have been away, Zhang Qiang has given all his love to my mother. He often accompanied his mother to walks in the park and shopping at the supermarket, trying not to make her feel lonely.
One day, the mother suddenly said, "Son, I want to go and see Meimei." ”
"Okay Mom, let's go now. Zhang Qiang immediately agreed.
At my grave, my mother caressed my picture and whispered, "Daughter, Mommy really misses you." Thank you for blessing us mother and son in the Spirit of Heaven all these years, and we will always remember you. ”
"Meimei, I don't blame myself anymore. Because I know it's not anyone's fault, it's fate. I will live as well as you hope. Zhang Qiang also said on the side.
"Daughter, don't worry, with my mother here, I will take care of Zhang Qiang. We will rely on each other and live together. "Mother was in tears.
"Mom, I'm relieved to have you here. Mei Mei will be happy too. Zhang Qiang helped his mother to leave slowly.
When I saw this scene in the Heavenly Spirit, I was very relieved. Zhang Qiang did not collapse because of my departure, but grew into a more optimistic and strong person. I am also very happy that my mother is happily alive in the company of Zhang Qiang.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, I have been dead for ten years. Zhang Qiang still comes to my grave every year to pay respects and tell me about what happened that year.
"Meimei, our foundation has helped more than 2,000 patients, this is all your credit, I will always glorify you. "Zhang Qiang put down the bouquet in front of my grave.
"Daughter, my mother's health is getting better and better, all thanks to Zhang Qiang's care. You must keep him safe. Mother also came to the grave.
"Mom, with you, I have the motivation to live well. I will always love Meimei and will always be with you. Zhang Qiang hugged his mother.
The deceased is gone, but the living still have to look forward. I am very relieved that Zhang Qiang and his mother have finally come out of their grief and supported each other in life. I can finally go to the next life without regrets.
The most precious thing in the world is gratitude and tolerance. Be thankful for everyone in your life who has ever appeared, and learn to be tolerant of the arrangement of fate. I sincerely wish Zhang Qiang and his mother every day in the future full of sunshine, hope and happiness. In heaven, I will always watch you and thank you for giving me wonderful memories of this life.
Years after my passing, Zhang Qiang and his mother's lives gradually got back on track. Zhang Qiang continues to manage our charity foundation in his spare time, and his mother is also actively involved in it.
"Son, our foundation has received another large donation, which can help more patients. One day, my mother said to Zhang Qiang excitedly.
"Yes, Mom, we have received so much help from kind-hearted people over the years, Meimei would be happy if she knew. Zhang Qiang said.
"Mei Mei's kindness has infected so many people, and she must be very pleased in the spirit of heaven. Mother nodded.
After a few more years, my mother was 80 years old and could not move easily. Zhang Qiang hired a caregiver to take care of her around the clock at home.
"Son, I've lived for so many years, and now that I'm unable to move, it's time to meet your father and Meimei. One day, his mother suddenly said to Zhang Qiang.
"Mom, you still have many years to live, don't talk about these sad things. Zhang Qiang hurriedly comforted his mother.
"My time is short, you have to be ready. Remember, live well. Mother told Zhang Qiang.
I also felt my mother's breath of life gradually weakening. In her last days, Zhang Qiang stayed by her side every step of the way.
In this way, on a sunny morning, my mother finally passed away with a smile. Zhang Qiang burst into tears, but he knew that his mother had gone to a better place to be reunited.
"Mom, thank you for being with me all these years. I'll listen to you and live well. Zhang Qiang put down a bouquet of white flowers in front of his mother's grave.
In heaven, I welcome my mother. "Mom, you're welcome here. I hugged her happily.
"Daughter, Mom finally sees you again!" Mother said excitedly.
I believe that Zhang Qiang will slowly come out of his grief and live a more wonderful life. Because he knew that my mother and I would watch and bless him in heaven.
In life, the most valuable thing is gratitude and tolerance. Be thankful for everyone who has ever appeared in your life, and learn to be tolerant of the natural laws of birth, old age, sickness and death. I sincerely wish Zhang Qiang every day in the future to be full of sunshine, hope and happiness.