It wasn't until I saw a man in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province who took his wife to the hospital because her water broke, and the car couldn't get in because of a roadblock at the door, and called the security guard for help but ignored the matter, that I knew how small contradictions turned into big troubles step by step.
In the impression of many people, in addition to protecting the safety of one party, security also has some service nature, such as helping to open the door, which is all a gesture.
But there are also some security guards who are unruly and think that it is not their responsibility to open the door. Recently, a security guard at the gate of a hospital in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province, caused controversy because he ignored patients who wanted to enter the hospital.
The pregnant woman's amniotic water broke, but the hospital security guarded it
On May 11, a man in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province, posted online that he encountered an infuriating scene when he took his wife, whose amniotic water had broken, to the hospital.
That night, the man's wife's amniotic water suddenly broke, and in desperation, he quickly drove his wife to a nearby hospital.
However, when the car drove to the gate, there were several roadblocks blocking the way, making it impossible for the car to enter the hospital.
You must know that it was pouring rain in the sky at that time, so you can't let the already weak pregnant woman go to the hospital in the heavy rain, right?
So the man called the security guard in the security booth to open the door. Generally speaking, this kind of request is unlikely to be rejected by security guards, after all, it is just a gesture. But the security guard had a bit of a personality, even if the man called him as if he hadn't heard it.
The man was also anxious, so he told the security guard that his wife's amniotic water broke, so that the security guard brother was accommodating. But the security guard still turned a deaf ear and only lowered his head to play with his phone.
There was no way, the man had to get out of the car and enter the hospital by himself, and found the nurse in the emergency department to ask what to do next.
Hearing this, the nurse immediately asked the man to drive the car in. But the man was also aggrieved, he also wanted to drive the car in, but the roadblock stopped him from getting in at all.
The nurse was also a little stunned when she heard this, and immediately came to the gate with the man, and at the request of the nurse, the security guard finally walked out reluctantly and moved the barricade.
And the man was able to drive straight in, and in the end, there was no danger, no accident.
The matter was over, but the man couldn't stay with his wife in the hospital all the time, so when his wife settled down, the man drove home to get ready to go home.
As a result, when I drove to the gate, the previous barricade appeared in front of me again, and it happened that it was the security guard sitting in the security hall.
There was no way, the man was light again, and honked the horn again, but the security guards in the security booth didn't seem to hear any sound at all, and there was no movement for a long time, so the man could only get out of the car in person and ask the security guard to move the barricade for himself.
Unexpectedly, the security guard not only did not agree, but also replied to the man, saying: You don't have hands, you can't open it yourself?
This completely angered the man, thinking of the previous behavior of the security guard, the man felt that the security guard was obviously negligent, so he posted all this on the Internet.
Netizens have different opinions
Regarding what happened to the man, netizens did not agree on it.
Some netizens have encountered similar experiences before, so they are more empathetic, and they all support the man to hold the security guard accountable:
But some netizens feel that the barricade is there, and the man can get out of the car and move the barricade by himself, why do you have to let the security guard come out and move it for you? It wasn't meant to be something he had to do.
My opinion
Objectively speaking, this is another typical example of a small incident turning into a big contradiction.
Let's talk about the security guard first, the security guard does have problems in this process, and his problem is that he is a little too cold. Even though it is not the duty of security guards to remove the barricades, anyone who has empathy will help them when they hear that their water has broken and they need to go to the hospital. So the problem with the security guard is that he can't help but seem a little impersonal.
But to say that it's all the security guard's fault, that's not necessarily the case. In the end, the security guards did remove the barricades, which is not to be said. And the reason why the man wants to post all this on the Internet is because he wants to go out later, but the security guard does not move the barricade for himself, so it is worth saying.
When I came, there was a pregnant woman in the car, and it would be reasonable if the security guard didn't help. But when he went, there was only a man in the car, so the security guard naturally didn't have to do it, as some netizens said, the man could have moved the barricade by himself and drove the car away.
Therefore, the man posted all this on the Internet afterwards, and it really cannot be said that it is completely reasonable. Let's just say that each has its own problems.
The hospital responded
The hospital also dealt with the matter.
It is understood that the security guard also realized his problem afterwards and apologized to the man's family. This matter can be regarded as a good result, in fact, in the final analysis, this is a small problem, and it is good for both sides to be able to talk about everything.
What do you think?