When I had nothing to do to watch the video, I saw several girls with disabilities, who confidently and calmly showed off their prosthetics in front of the camera, and some of them made their prosthetics particularly cool.
One of them said: I am much more serious than Zhuang Jie's amputation, look, mine is also very cool, what's the big deal.
Looking further back, many friends in the comment area are talking about spring sending lovers, oh, I know, there is a hit drama "Spring Sending Lover" by Li Xian and Zhou Yutong recently.
Zhuang Jie, played by Zhou Yutong, had her left calf amputated because of a car accident, and there is a handsome and excellent boy Chen Maidong (played by Li Xian) who has always guarded and loved her.
The brightness, cheerfulness and strength of the heroine deeply affect the people who sympathize with the disease.
After the broadcast, Zhou Yutong also said that there are many sisters with similar experiences, and there are so many people with disabilities who are determined to live happily, and they are stronger than we imagined.
Often, after these people have experienced major changes in their lives, their bravery and open-mindedness cannot be underestimated, and they are really powerful.
Zhou Yutong has done "Zhuang Jie" wholeheartedly, she has a deep experience, and she appeals: We are not sympathetic, but seeing.
She said: Too much sympathy is offense.
Yes, what they need is respect, equal treatment, not sympathy, which is a kind of condescending scrutiny.
I saw that they didn't dare to wear short skirts, they were always covered with trousers, they struggled to go up the stairs, and every time they climbed the stairs, they let others go first, and the sunshine on the surface was hiding the extreme inferiority complex in their hearts.
Zhuang Jie's sobriety in the world comes from self-licking after being injured again and again, she said: I can understand those men who mind my disability in their bones, but I can't look down on it, because it is they who make disability a problem, not me.
In the drama "Spring Sending Lover", the two had intimate contact for the first time, Zhuang Jie was very sensitive, she was hurt, and she was afraid that her boyfriend would see her ugly stump, and she needed to do countless psychological construction.
Chen Maidong gently and distressed Zhuang Jie put on a prosthetic leg, which was particularly moving.
Trust and let her open her heart.
When everyone thinks that a disabled girl must be matched with someone who is also disabled, Zhuang Jie believes that as long as she is good enough, defects are no longer a problem, but a motivation to work harder than ordinary people.
Zhuang Jie did it: don't stumble yourself because of other people's eyes, she told Mai Dong, don't lower the standard of mate selection because of your profession (body plastic surgeon), people who understand you will naturally accept everything about you.
Zhuang Jie and Mai Dong are mutually redeeming.
A good film and television drama must be educational.
"Spring Sending Lover" is good for healing, family, friendship, love, ideals and reality, as well as life and death.
What it brings to the audience, in addition to being brave enough to pursue love, is more about the meaning of life.
Those who have experienced it and survived it well are all strong.
(The picture comes from the Internet, invaded and deleted)