Just how disappointing are the people who pour cold water? People who always like to praise others, how rare are they?
Think about it, if you are enthusiastic to share your very proud things with your good friend, and he habitually splashes you with cold water, you know that he may not have malicious intentions, but often, always, and every time, will you slowly be reluctant to share your feelings with him?
Therefore, avoid making negative comments on other people's hot things, praise more, and talk more along with other people's words, which may better make a person open up.
Of course, praise should not be too thin, and everyone is tired of hearing cliché compliments, which may not only fail to be effective, but will backfire. So, add something with a special meaning to you and the other person, such as a little joke that only a friend can understand, to add to the compliment.
In the face of strangers, a pair of eyes that are good at finding beauty is very important, if a person's appearance makes your eyes shine, you can directly praise its beauty, if a person chats endlessly, you can praise his eloquence, after all, it is always right to praise people, who doesn't like to be with a person who can always find their own shining points in time and praise them?
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