In today's society, communication is particularly important. If you don't know how to communicate, or if you don't communicate well, just like being illiterate, you'll get into a lot of trouble.
Did you know that there is a very famous speech master in the United States named Dale Carnegie, who said in a book: "If a person wants to succeed in his career, most of them do not depend on his intelligence or skill, but on his ability to communicate, speak and persuade others." ”
So, one's eloquence is really important. However, many parents are now only concerned about their children's learning ability and cognitive ability, but do not pay much attention to cultivating their children's eloquence. This has led to a lot of boys being a bit weak in speaking. Some parents complained, "Why do my boys have such a hard time talking? Other girls can tell stories fluently, but my boys can only speak a few simple words." ”
This is a real headache for parents. Boys often appear nervous, speechless, or unclear when they need to express themselves. In this way, others will not understand his true thoughts, which will affect his relationships and career development. Therefore, cultivating the eloquence of boys is really a very important step. It helps boys build self-confidence and express themselves better. If a boy has ideas but can't say them, others will not understand him, and he will not be recognized and understood by others, which will affect his interpersonal communication and career development.
As parents, we need to find out why boys are not eloquent. Actually, in addition to the innate factor, there are other reasons. For example, the family spoils the child too much, and the child does not need to speak to get what he wants, so that he has no motivation to express it. Another reason is the family environment. If parents don't like to talk, there will not be many opportunities for communication at home, and children will naturally not learn how to speak. However, if there is an environment in the home that encourages the child to speak, the child's eloquence will improve quickly.
Therefore, parents should know that the exercise they have acquired can help boys improve their eloquence. So, how do we help our children develop their eloquence? This requires parents to think carefully.
My advice for young parents
Method 1: Seize the critical period when boys learn to speak
From very young age to three years old, a boy's language ability goes through several stages, such as babbling, speaking words, simple sentences, and understanding simple grammar. This time is especially critical because your child's language skills will develop quickly. And at this time, boys are particularly curious and like to imitate others, so parents should seize this period and teach their children to talk more.
Method 2: Let the boy talk more
Some parents love their children too much, and what their children want, as long as they look at their expressions, they know that their children have little chance to speak. In this way, the child may not be able to speak much when he grows up. Parents should change their minds and let their children talk more. For example, when telling a story to your child, you can stop and ask, "What do you think will happen next?" or when eating an apple, "Is this apple sweet?" so that your child will start talking more and be more willing to ask questions. If the child is not very good at speaking, parents should train him more and let him talk more, so that his language ability will improve.
Method 3: Teach the boy how to organize language
Sometimes the boy may speak in a way that is not clear. At this time, parents can help him organize the language, such as asking him: "When did this happen?" "Who was involved?" "What was the result?", so as to guide him step by step, let him know what to say first and then what to say, and slowly, he can speak more clearly.
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