#妙笔生花创作挑战#
Recently, the Internet celebrity Autumn Mother, who has millions of fans, suddenly posted a long article on social platforms, responding to various grudges with her ex-husband.
In the long article, Autumn's mother revealed the promise made by her ex-husband during her pregnancy, and said that over the years, she has carried the weight of this marriage, and even thought that she had lost completely. Autumn yoke, what exactly is this promise? Why does it make Autumn mom feel breathless?
Next, let's walk into the feud between Autumn's mother and ex-husband.
The cause of the incident was on October 11, when Autumn's mother's little uncle (Shihao) exposed some negative news about her sister Liu Hui on social media, including the emotional entanglement between Liu Hui and her ex-husband Shijie.
In the face of the sudden attack of the little uncle, Qiu's mother did not show dissatisfaction with the little uncle, but pointed the finger at her ex-husband Shijie, and her words were full of anger and disappointment.
It is understood that Autumn's mother and Liu Hui used to be a loving couple and spent many unforgettable years together. However, the triviality and contradictions of life made the relationship between the two gradually break down, and finally chose to divorce.
During the divorce, serious disputes arose between the parties over the division of property and the maintenance of children.
In this dispute, Autumn's mother accused her ex-husband Shijie of trying to control herself by "shackling" her children, and even posted a recording of her ex-husband Shijie's commitment, which shocked many netizens.
In the face of Qiu's mother's accusations, Shijie did not remain silent, but posted a long response on social media.
In response, Shijie admitted that he was at fault in the marriage relationship, but he stressed that everything he did was for the sake of his children.
In addition, Shijie also said that he did not "shackle" his mother in the autumn, but hoped that she could take marriage and family seriously and create a warm and harmonious growth environment for her children.
In the process of the two accusing each other, many netizens began to sigh whether there is really love between Autumn's mother and Shijie.
If the two were once really in love, then why did they act so fiercely when they divorced? Is love really so fragile and vulnerable in real life?
Autumn's love affair with her ex-husband began in 2018, when they were still a loving little couple. During Autumn's pregnancy, her ex-husband made a promise that he would do his best to take care of Autumn's mother and the baby in her belly.
However, this promise became the "shackles" in the mouth of Autumn's mother, allowing her to carry the weight in this marriage.
In Autumn's mother's long essay, we can see her dissatisfaction with her ex-husband. Autumn's mother believes that the love her ex-husband gave her made her feel unable to breathe.
In this marriage, she gave her all, but ended up disappointed. Autumn's mother said that the moment she decided to leave everything behind and firmly choose to believe in her ex-husband, she had already lost everything.
In response to the long article of the autumn mother, many netizens expressed puzzlement. Since Autumn's mother thinks that this promise is a shackle, why didn't she make it clear at the beginning, and now she turns back to blame her ex-husband. As an adult, you should take responsibility for your actions and not complain afterwards.
However, some netizens expressed sympathy for Autumn's mother's experience. They believe that in marriage, love is indeed a shackle that will make the person in it feel tired. Autumn's mother dares to stand up and expose her past experience, which is a kind of courage in itself.
As the incident continued to ferment, Autumn's father also stood up and responded to Autumn's mother's accusations.
Autumn's father said that he has tried his best in marriage, but he may not fully understand Autumn's mother's feelings. Autumn's dad admits that he may not be good enough in some areas, but he hopes that Autumn's mom will give him a chance to correct his mistakes.
At present, the grudge between Autumn's mother and her ex-husband is still fermenting, and the two sides have their own words, making it difficult for the melon-eating masses to distinguish the real from the fake.
However, in this dispute, the most innocent is their daughter Autumn. In the eyes of this little child, her parents should love each other, not accuse each other as they do now.
The grudge between my mother and her ex-husband in the autumn makes us think a lot.
In love and marriage, both parties need to give and compromise, but if this giving and compromise becomes a kind of shackles, then the relationship may already have problems. As adults, when facing love and marriage, we should remain sane, learn to communicate and understand, and do not let love become a shackle that binds each other.
Recently, similar to the grudges and feuds between Autumn's mother and ex-husband in the entertainment industry, from the divorce turmoil of Wang Leehom and Li Lianglei to the divorce of Huang Xiaoming and Angelababy, we have to reflect on what made these couples who used to love each other finally part ways.
Perhaps, in the entertainment industry chasing fame and fortune, love has long become vulnerable.
The grudge between my mother and her ex-husband in the autumn not only allows us to see the unknown side of love, but also makes us start to think about how to avoid making love become a shackle in the process of pursuing love.
As a melon-eating mass, we expect Autumn's mother and ex-husband to reconcile and give Autumn a happy and complete home. After all, children are innocent and they should not fall victim to the yoke of love.