As the saying goes, if there is an old man in the family, there is a treasure, and the big truth left by the ancestors is really incisive!
First, the light is red and green and the eyes are charming, and the coarse tea and light rice see people's hearts: it means that material enjoyment may cause greed and loss, and true friendship and affection need to be sincere and ordinary to get along.
Second, women are guarding themselves, men are favoring women: emphasizing that women should keep a low profile and temperance, and men should focus on loving and pampering their women.
Third, asking for people is like swallowing a three-foot sword, relying on people is like the nine heavens. This statement implies that relying on others for help can bring difficulties and pain, while relying on oneself can lead to greater success and happiness.
Fourth, a good drum will sound as soon as it is beaten, and a good light will light up as soon as it is dialed: it means that the quality of the item is good, and it is convenient and quick to use.
Fifth, one horse is not worthy of two saddlers, one foot is difficult to step on two boats: means that a person should not pursue two different goals or maintain intimate relationships with more than one person at the same time.
Birds do not fly without wings, fish do not swim without water: emphasize that things need to adapt to their own environment and conditions in order to develop and survive.
7. The skin whips the flesh, and the evil words hurt the heart: The harm of metaphorical words can hurt the hearts of others as deeply as the whip.
8. There are only eight meters in fate, and it is not enough to find the world: it means that fate is destined for a person's situation, no matter how much effort he makes, it will not exceed the limited range.
9. The valley must grow on its own, and people must strengthen themselves: it means that grain needs to be planted by oneself to get harvested, and people also need to work hard to become strong.
10. Whether rich or poor, in the end, we all follow the Huangquan road: emphasize that the ultimate destiny of life is death, and rich and poor have nothing to do with it.
11. People see people poor and go around, dogs see family poor and die: It means that when a person is poor, friends will avoid it, and only loyal dogs will always be by their side.
12. People do not say anything in difficulty, and horses do not whip when they are in difficulty: It means that in difficult times, people should no longer aggravate the suffering of others, but should give help and support.
13. If you don't stand up to thousands of miles, where can you get 10,000 catties of fish: It means that if you dare not face hardships and hardships, you cannot obtain greater rewards or successes.
XIV. Excessive enthusiasm must lead to demand, and repeated speech must lead to fraud: It means that people who are overly enthusiastic often have the motive of deception, and those who repeatedly change their words often have the motive of fraud.
Fifteen, the spider's home falls, fortune will come: Legend has it that if a spider falls on you, it means that good luck is coming.
16. Combing your hair is not good for a day, and it is not good to marry a husband: Emphasize that it is very important for women to choose a good husband, and the marriage relationship will have a profound impact on the whole life.
17. People do not know about the accumulation of good deeds for three years, and evil is heard about in one day: It means that it takes a long time to accumulate good deeds, and evil deeds are easily known, and bad deeds in one day will have long-term effects.
XVIII. There is flesh protruding from the hall of the seal, and genius emerges from among the children. This phrase means that if a person has a fleshy bulge on his forehead, it means that there may be geniuses among his children.
19. The lonely son is stupid, and the city is full of people. This phrase means that a child who grows up in isolation may seem stupid, while a child who grows up in a busy social environment may become intelligent and resourceful.
20. Selling houses does not sell doors, selling cattle without selling ropes. This phrase means that when doing business or trading, it is wise to keep something important or resource for your own benefit.
21. In the face of poor parents, money is filial piety; In the face of lonely parents, companionship is filial piety. This quote emphasizes that filial piety towards parents varies from case to case. If the parents are poor, giving material help is filial piety; If parents are lonely, it is filial piety to give companionship and care.
22. The Aroma of Mother's Family's Meal, The Length of Mother-in-Law's Meal: In marriage, the wife is more loved and respected in her own family.
