On May 26, 2020, Macau gambling king Stanley Ho completed his 98-year life path.
On the same day, Liang Jiehua, who was only 59 years old, also died of illness.
Although most of the media at that time focused on the gambling king, in fact, Liang Jiehua's funeral was also star-studded.
On the same day, and Stars such as Andy Lau and his wife, Miao Qiaowei, Zeng Zhiwei, Tan Yonglin, Hu Xing'er and other stars appeared one after another, and many artists who could not attend also sent a link.
Many people may feel a little strange when they see this place, why the funeral of an obscure middle-aged woman has attracted a large number of showbiz people to come to mourn.
The reason is simple, this Liang Jiehua used to be an actor.
In addition, she is also the wife of actor Huang Rihua.
Although Liang Jiehua regrets her death, the love story she and Huang Rihua have continued for 40 years is worth reading carefully.
For Huang Rihua, his wife is like the warmest light in his life.
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Wong was born in Kowloon City, Hong Kong in 1961.
His family was poor, and the family made ends meet by setting up two mahjong tables at home and taking a little tip.
Because the house is very small, and the mahjong players play cards day and night, Huang Rihua did not like the atmosphere of his family in his childhood.
At that time he was fascinated by playing football, and for a long time, it was his dream to be a professional footballer.
He also participated in the selection of football players, and among the thousands of people who signed up, Huang Rihua and three others rushed to the finals.
Just when he thought he was going to realize his dream, the organizers chose the other three and eliminated Huang Rihua alone, which made him very devastated.
As the saying goes, the east corner of the lost, the harvest of the mulberry elm.
Shortly after that, Huang Rihua participated in the examination of the Hong Kong Wireless Actor Training Class under the continuous lobbying of some elders.
According to Miao Qiaowei, who registered at the same time, there were more than 6,000 candidates in that class.
Huang Rihua only took the initial exam, and when he returned home in the evening, he received a call informing him that he was selected, and the other party also said that you can not take the later exam, but if you are interested in playing, we are also welcome.
In this way, Huang Rihua, who wants to play football, has a place in the ninth wireless actor training class like a probe.
At that time, he would not have thought that Elder Yue had already arranged a marriage on his road as an actor.
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After studying in the training class for half a year, Huang Rihua began to play soy sauce in TV series such as "Shanghai Beach" and "Jinghua Spring Dream".
It was also in this process that he got to know Liang Jiehua, the sister of the eighth actor training class of wireless.
Speaking of the beginning of love, Huang Rihua and Liang Jiehua both believe that they did not fall in love at first sight, but slowly accumulated feelings in daily contact.
But when the two people began to fall in love, they were assigned to different crews to shoot, during that time Huang Rihua did only two things most often in addition to filming, calling Liang Jiehua and thinking about Liang Jiehua while origami.
When Huang Rihua first sent the paper cranes, love, and flowers that represented misses to his girlfriend, she always had a bright smile on her face.
However, after a long time, Liang Jiehua will pretend to be disgusted and say, it is this again, and it is better to read more scripts when there is time.
The two men flirted, very sweetly.
In 1981, many popular students under THE WIRELESS left the nest, and Huang Rihua and Miao Qiaowei were photographed by the top and starred in a TV series called "Passerby".
In the play, Huang Rihua plays a cold killer Li Tang, because of his handsome appearance, Huang Rihua has become a popular character after the TV series is broadcast, and many young girls regard him as a dream lover.
Liu Jialing once revealed in an interview that she was fascinated by Huang Rihua that year, and she also went to the wireless training class because she wanted to meet her idol.
Another goddess, Maggie Cheung, also specifically talked about Huang Rihua when recalling the past, and said that in order to get his signature, she used to stand at the door of the TV station and wait.
In the face of fame and the admiration of many girls, Huang Rihua did not lose himself, and at the end of 1982, he and Liang Jiehua opened their relationship.
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Those years were a double harvest for Huang Rihua.
He not only worked with Miao Qiaowei, Andy Lau, Liang Chaowei and Tang Zhenye as the Wireless Five Tigers, but also played Guo Jing in "The Legend of the Eagle Shooter", a role that made Huang Rihua's popularity soar again.
If there's anything unsatisfactory, it's probably too tired.
All the actors who have become popular from wireless have a history of blood and tears, and actress Hu Xing'er once called the old owner the Shaolin Temple figuratively.
When Huang Rihua was at its most popular, of course, he could not avoid filming day and night.
When he was fighting, he had not slept for 7 days and 7 nights, just relying on the gap in makeup to take a nap.
Because he was too sleepy and tired, Huang Rihua even fell asleep while filming with his opponent actors, but even so, he could only hold on to acting.
If people overdraft their energy for a long time, it will not only damage their health, but also affect their emotions.
Soon, Liang Jiehua felt that Huang Rihua's temper had become difficult to get along with, and she was also suffering from more and more gains and losses.
In their 20s, everyone doesn't seem to know how to tolerate each other, and their feelings are getting worse and worse.
In 1985, Huang Rihua announced that he and Liang Jiehua had broken up.
Immediately after that, he had a scandal because of his cooperation with Deng Cuiwen in filming, but it was not long before the heroine of the scandal became the actress Gong Ci'en.
Gong Ci'en's representative work is "Snow Mountain Flying Fox", and she is also a very spirited actor.
At that time, Huang Rihua and she also had a relationship because of many cooperation in filming, so they naturally came together. However, the relationship did not last long.
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Around 1986, Huang Rihua and Gong Ci'en announced their breakup, and after calming down for a while, Huang Rihua found that he still couldn't let go of his first love girlfriend Liang Jiehua in his heart.
Although the saying goes that a good horse does not eat the grass, there are also verses that say that wushan is not a cloud.
Huang Rihua knew that he loved Liang Jiehua in his heart and it was difficult to like other girls, so he simply went to Liang Jiehua to reunite.
In this way, the lovers who broke up because of their youthful madness came together again.
This time, they identified each other, in 1988, Huang Rihua and Liang Jiehua held a wedding, Huang Rihua very emotionally confessed Liang Jiehua, you are my first woman, but also my last woman.
A year later, their daughter Huang Zhiqing was born.
Perhaps because of his family, Huang Rihua filmed harder, but during that time, because of the treatment problem, his relationship with wireless was not good.
The role of Ding Youjian in the classic work "Duty-bound" is still won by producer Wei Jiahui under pressure for Huang Rihua.
Therefore, after filming this film, Huang Rihua, whose contract expired, switched to ATV, and Liang Jiehua naturally followed the husband and wife, and left wireless together.
In 1992, in order to take care of her daughter, Liang Jiehua quit the show business and began to dabble in the insurance industry with relatively free time. The following year, under the persuasion of Wei Jiahui, Huang Rihua returned to wireless filming "Horse Farm Tycoon".
From 1993 to 2001, Huang Rihua kept working on filming because he was too tired to suffer from hepatitis.
However, it was also during this time that Huang Rihua starred in TV series such as "Heaven and Earth Pride" and "Tianlong Eight Parts", which became the most brilliant stroke on his career report card.
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The year 2000 was an eventful autumn for Huang Rihua.
That year, his mother died of illness, and Liang Jiehua was also exposed to photos of him talking and laughing in the car with his male colleagues and walking on the street.
Because of his dangerous condition, the doctor quickly arranged chemotherapy for Liang Jiehua. After 5 rounds of chemotherapy, her condition was finally under control.
Huang Rihua has worked hard in the entertainment industry for more than 10 years, and has also been exposed to scandals, and naturally knows the tricks of the gossip media, of course, he believes in Liang Jiehua as always.
But at the same time, Huang Rihua, who has always focused on his career, has also begun to examine his life, and his almost non-stop work for 20 years seems to have no breakthrough in his career.
Because of his busy work, he was unable to accompany his sick mother well and could not share the chores of life with his wife.
Because of her busy work, when her daughter was a child, she even recognized her father who wore a costumed hood, and he did not attend the parent-teacher conference once.
Once Huang Rihua and Liang Jiehua had an argument, he asked his daughter in a huff, I divorced my mother who do you follow, I did not expect that my daughter did not hesitate to choose Liang Jiehua.
At that moment, Huang Rihua seemed to wake up, and in the past 10 years, he was like an outsider to this family, and this was not the life he longed for.
In 2002, Huang Rihua gradually faded out of the show business circle after the expiration of his wireless contract.
In the words of his friend Miao Qiaowei, Huang Rihua became a full otaku, except for the occasional filming of some dramas, he began to pick up his wife and daughter every day, and strived to do a good job of supporting a family.
This is probably the most correct decision Huang Rihua has ever made, because these years have been the warmest time for him and his wife.
However, just when Huang Rihua was enjoying such a comfortable life more and more, the disease had already set its sights on this happy family.
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In 2013, Liang Jiehua sought medical treatment due to ill health and was diagnosed with a cold by two doctors in succession, and after treatment, her condition did not improve for a long time, but her body appeared bruised after the injection.
At this time, Liang Jiehua sought medical treatment again and was diagnosed with acute leukemia.
After the diagnosis, the frightened Liang Jiehua washed his face with tears, and Huang Rihua pretended to be calm for fear of affecting his wife's mood, and he immediately decided to stop all work to accompany his wife.
In fact, Liang Jiehua has an insurance that can cover all medical expenses, and Huang Rihua's temporary suspension of work is not a big problem financially.
But Liang Jiehua did not want Huang Rihua to default because of himself, and insisted that he complete the work at hand.
Because of chemotherapy, Liang Jiehua lost her hair overnight, the whole person was very depressed, Huang Rihua gently comforted his wife like a child, we would shave our heads when we were filming, and the hair would grow out.
Sometimes Huang Rihua had to rush to the mainland for business performances, because he always remembered his wife in his heart, he flew to the mainland in the morning, participated in the activities, and rushed back to the Hong Kong hospital late at night to see her.
In the long run, Huang Rihua lost a lot of weight.
When Liang Jiehua recalled this experience after recovering from illness, she was still moved to tears.
Huang Rihua sat next to her, painfully comforting his wife, it was okay, it was okay.
At that time, the couple probably really thought that the bitterness was coming, but unfortunately, the bad luck did not leave them.
07
In 2018, Liang Jiehua was re-admitted to the hospital.
Although Huang Rihua said to the outside world that his wife had no major incidents, he stopped working to accompany Liang Jiehua.
In a recent program, Huang Rihua revealed that at that time, he would even pray in his heart that if Liang Jiehua could recover, he would not complain about changing his life for ten or twenty years.
But the sky did not go according to people's wishes, and two years later, 59-year-old Liang Jiehua was still killed by the disease.
It is conceivable that this is a big blow to Huang Rihua, who has been related to his wife and stayed with him for 40 years.
It is said that Huang Rihua, who was very sad at the time, also made a vow not to remarry for the rest of his life.
With the help of Miao Qiaowei and other relatives and friends, Huang Rihua held a funeral for Liang Jiehua.
He knew that his wife loved beauty all her life, so he arranged the spiritual hall very elegantly, and he knew that his wife liked Cantonese opera, so he prepared some costumes for her.
In a letter to his wife, Huang Rihua wrote that it was a pity that he could not grow old with you, but I was fortunate to marry you as the most successful thing in my life.
It is worth mentioning that at that time, Wu Mengda and Liao Qizhi also attended Liang Jiehua's funeral, who could have imagined that sending off friends less than a year later, these two popular actors also passed away.
Life is impermanent, it is impossible to come back after leaving, and those who have been left behind will continue to live.
After handling Liang Jiehua's affairs, Huang Rihua became the object of care of his friends. In particular, his friend Miao Qiaowei always asked him out to avoid him being hurt at home alone.
Even so, Huang Rihua still fell into a low mood from time to time, and for a while he was bored at home by sorting out his wife's photos to ease his worries.
In the past two months, the more than 17,000 photos have been sorted and printed into books by Huang Rihua, and whenever he sees a photo with good memories between them, Huang Rihua will relive the past.
It felt like she hadn't left.
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Today, Liang Jiehua has been dead for a year and a half.
Although he still can't help but cry and choke when he thinks of this woman he has loved all his life, it can be seen from Huang Rihua's positive attitude to life that he is gradually getting out of the pain of bereavement.
Fortunately, Huang Rihua also has a sensible and considerate daughter to accompany him.
The love between Huang Rihua and Liang Jiehua is not much earth-shattering in the strange entertainment circle.
They are a most ordinary couple, a couple, who will quarrel, will break up, will encounter gossip and ups and downs.
But what is touching is that no matter what happens, he is willing to fulfill the promise he made on the day of his wedding.
Whether poor or rich, healthy or sick, good times or ups and downs, I will love and cherish you forever.