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1. Zi Zhang Yue: "Soldiers see danger and death, see righteousness, sacrifice and respect, mourn and mourn, and they can be finished." ”
2. Zi Zhang Yue: "If you don't carry out morality and faith, can you do it?" Can you die? ”
3. Zi Xia's door is handed over to Zi Zhang. Zi Zhang Yue: "Zi Xia Yun He?" "Zi Xia Yue: 'Whoever can do it with it, and he who can't refuse it.'" Zi Zhang Yue: "It's different from what I heard." A gentleman is virtuous and tolerant of the multitude, and a gentleman is kind but not reserved. What is the intolerable nature of My GreatNess? If I am not virtuous, will people reject me, and if they reject others? ”
【Translation】
1. Zi Zhang said: "When a scholar sees danger, he is willing to give his life, and when he sees that he has gained, he thinks about whether it is righteous, and when he thinks of respect when he sacrifices, and when he thinks of grief when he is mourning, this is also enough." ”
2. Zi Zhang said: "Implementing virtue but not promoting it, believing in the Tao but not being determined, such a person is dispensable to the world." ”
3. Zi Xia's protégé asked Zi Zhang for advice on how to make friends. Zi Zhang said, "What did Zi Xia say?" Zixia's students replied: "Zixia said: 'Those who can communicate with him will associate with him, and those who cannot communicate will reject him.' Zi Zhang said, "This is different from what I have heard!" A gentleman respects the wise, but he is also able to accommodate many, praise the good, and pity the incompetent. If I'm a very wise person, what can't I tolerate with others? If I am not wise, others will reject me, how can I refuse others? ”
【Experience】
In this section, Zi Zhang and Zi Xia gave me new inspiration in making friends:
1. I have always been kind to people, and I will never refuse others' requests for friends, which also makes me have a lot of unreasonable consumption. For example, my former colleague made skin care products and asked me to help with the performance, I was embarrassed to refuse, but there was an unreasonable cost. People like this can completely refuse.
2. Remember Steven Covey's Seven Habits of Highly Effective People and Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families. Whether it is making friends or educating children, more in the circle of influence to do things, less to care about the circle of attention. Strive to be motivated, grow up for life, make yourself better, and naturally attract many excellent friends. (Law of Attraction)
3. Zixia or Zizhang, everyone has their own dating principles, and everyone is right. For me, learning to join good circles, linking good friends, and becoming a good self is the most important thing.
4. One of my personal opinions. There is no need to fit into a circle that differs from your own values. I am a relatively introverted person in real life and work, but I am very extroverted and very happy online, because I have a book to make friends, to make friends with writing, to make friends with family education, and common hobbies, so that I have something to talk about.
5. Recently reading "Super Grandma and Super Teacher", the author Yochi Shimada said, "True friends, one or two in a lifetime is enough." That's what I agree with very much. Friends are not many, but fine. Instead of making a lot of wine and meat friends, it is better to meet one or two noble people who can stand up and point out to you at a critical moment. Good friends grow up together, and good marriages also progress together. For example, my husband, I listen to history books, my husband can always tell me two sentences. Thank you husband for making me progress.
