#我推荐的书 #
"Divorce", the reason for the recommendation, is nothing more than that there is nothing new under the sun, at that time, people are still those people, things are still those things.
Chapters 7 through 9
Old Li read a novel to his wife, and his wife seemed to listen attentively, but Old Li knew that she had not been able to understand, and she did not laugh where she was ridiculous, and where Old Li read hard, she did not show any expression. Old Li suddenly stopped reading, she didn't ask why, she didn't ask to read down, she was stunned for a while, "Yo, Ying's pants still have to be repaired!" "I went to find Ying's pants."
Old Li was then jealous that the old lady Ma and the daughter-in-law in the next room were still talking in a giggle, and even the abandoned women whose husbands had cheated and ran away from home had a mother-in-law to talk to, but he had nothing to talk to his wife, so he concluded that living together may not be able to understand each other.
But Lao Li sometimes examines himself, neither daring to be romantic, nor disdainful of doing boring things, both perfunctory and dissatisfied.
A person, bad is not complete, not good enough, that is, ordinary people as colorless and tasteless as boiled water, probably also boring, partial life only sees themselves, is colorful.
I have not done the exact survey data, but this old Mr. Li in the book, for all the undesirable acts done by the wife who do not agree with these three views / talk together, are all angry, "Marriage is going to be done, I plan not to do it, and it is better to cancel the marriage system." The family is a stinky and foolish little battlefield for men and women/children/bugs/square mound-like friends! Old Li hated himself for not having the courage to abandon this filthy place! It's just a good idea to talk to a confidant, male or female; where to find it? The family is a stinky water, the world is a desert! ”
So his thinking decision was, needless to say, admit his fate.
If you want to have a confidant to talk about happiness, but only wait for the confidant to fall from the sky, it is best to come without any effort, so why always say that ideals and fantasies are not the same, but not everyone can always distinguish the two are not the same. One is to get closer to the goal step by step with a plan, and the other is just to wait.
Wait for a suitable lover, wait for a friend who can be talked about, wait for a good job, wait for a good life, wait for a good life, etc., always give your fate to the unknowable waiting, and then lie to yourself, and sure enough, everything is destined, and people should always admit their fate.
However, a suitable lover, may never exist, is the need for two squares to cut off a few sharp edges and corners, cut themselves into circles or ovals, in order to better adapt to each other, adapt, but do not use tolerance, always feel that tolerance with a natural high above, others say that you can, do not take it seriously, after all, you think that when you tolerate each other, you know that the other party is not the same feeling in trying to accommodate you.
A friend who can talk, the friend is not a parent, even if you can't understand it, you may not be able to regurgitate you to expose you, if the friend wants to talk, but it is also the two sides to do in addition to the basic views / views are similar, but in the conflict when each person's ugly words say a few words less, just. With a little temper, a nod of words, not only with a mouth to socialize, but also with more ears to attend, you will naturally find that there are not a few people who can be called the standard of "friends who can talk".
A good job, a good life is the same, how to run a business is much more important than being very patient and so on.
That's why I said that a good story has no era barrier, it has nothing to do with the story of old Mr. Li appearing in that era, but even now, old Li this person appears around the radius of your life, you will find that he will still not be a cute and durable person, after all, everyone is so busy, no one has much time and patience, has been doing each other's emotional tree holes, listening to his broken thoughts, his dissatisfaction with life, disdain for work, impatience for his wife, and the vision of the ideal life, yes, only longing, Don't be the monkey who scratches his head in the mirror.