"If I hadn't come to this show, I wouldn't have known that I was so useless and incompetent, I couldn't live alone, I wasn't gregarious, I wasn't strong enough, I wouldn't know anything, I was so useless!"
In 2019, Xu Jinjiang took his son Xu Fei on "All the Way to Adulthood", and its contrast in the variety show made people laugh, and netizens even doubted, Is this really the Ao bai I know?
Xu Jinjiang, who is tall and tall, actually does not know how to use the igniter in the show, and can only do it in a hurry to watch the outstanding performance of others.
After returning home, he also said pitifully: "What's so great, I won't eat anything, I can do it!" ”
Xu Jinjiang is also dependent on his son in all kinds, before going on the show, he made more than 30 phone calls to his son in a row, and even drank water to prepare his son in advance.
Netizens have said that they have such a father, which is certainly unbearable. Xu Jinjiang's son, Xu Fei, also admitted that he usually takes care of his father more.
"Life is good, life is good, some people can persist, some people will withdraw, some people can go to the halfway point, I feel, this is life." 」
Xu Jinjiang's words at first glance sounded like he was looking for reasons for himself, but in fact he saw it more thoroughly than anyone else.
In 1961, Xu Jinjiang was born in Mudanjiang into an apricot forest family, starting from his grandfather, practicing medicine for three generations.
Xu Jinjiang, who thought he would go down the old road, did not want to be a doctor, but dreamed of becoming a painter.
He was admitted to the Guangzhou Academy of Fine Arts and studied Chinese painting under Mr. Guan Shanyue.
Later, Xu's father died of illness, and his mother also had a serious illness because of excessive sadness.
For Xu Jinjiang, who was not yet famous at that time, the painter could be used as a dream, but he could not solve the real problems of life, so he went to Hong Kong to find another livelihood.
Most young people in Hong Kong at the time dreamed of becoming an actor. Although Xu Jinjiang was not interested, his sister thought that he was outstanding in appearance and would definitely be able to choose, so she quietly registered for him.
In this way, he was successfully selected by TVB to become a trainee. At the same time, there were even two film emperors, Andy Lau and Leung Ka Fai.
On the first day of the training class, Xu Jinjiang introduced himself as an artist, and with his ballet performance, he attracted laughter from his classmates.
A strong man of one meter and eight meters looks incompatible with ballet, and even Liang Jiahui teased him: "I don't understand what is called art, look at this burly body, obviously like a fitness person!" ”
After coming out of TVB, he did not receive a film contract, and in order to make a living, he opened art exhibitions, worked as a model, and worked as a bar singer in that year.
Later, there was finally a scene to shoot, but because of the appearance and height, it was followed by some small characters and negative characters, and even a running dragon set without lines. Xu Jinjiang was left out in the cold for six years.
In 1987, Xu Jinjiang met Mai Dangxiong by chance. At that time, Xu Jinjiang did not know the fame of director Mak Dangxiong in the Hong Kong film industry, and when he learned that the other party invited him to be the protagonist, he gladly went there.
After six years as a supporting role and dragon set, he finally played a leading role in "Provincial Hong Kong Flag Soldier 2", playing a policeman.
But his acting skills made the director really dare not compliment, obviously shot, but did not react in the slightest, but also said: "Am I not playing a hero?" Aren't heroes invincible? ”
Although the director taught him a harsh lesson for this, he was also impressed by this actor.
After several cooperations, Ma Dangxiong has a deep understanding of Xu Jinjiang. When filming "Jade Futon", the role of Sai Kunlun was given to Xu Jinjiang.
This drama made Xu Jinjiang explode overnight, but it also became a star in the public's mouth, and this type of film came and went.
Xu Jinjiang is not very willing to take such a film, but if it is transformed, it means to start from scratch, it is difficult to have this bit of fame, in the face of life, Xu Jinjiang had to make a compromise.
In 1997, Xu Jinjiang collaborated with Shu Qi on "Pornographic Men and Women", in this film, his real and delicate performance vividly showed the role of Uncle Hua in front of the audience, breaking people's inherent perception of him.
Wang Jing also said: "Xu Jinjiang's status in the Wind and Moon film is no different from Jackie Chan in the action movie." ”
After accumulating a certain fame with several wind and moon films, he also began to try to transform and appear in action movies.
The fierce god Ao Bai, the rough-looking Golden Retriever King Xie Xun, and the evil full of evil tongtian are all impressive characters.
"The Tale of the Dragon Slayer" has been filmed countless times, but the role of Xie Xun is always a highlight in the play.
When Xu Jinjiang plays Xie Xun after the blindness, he does not use props like others, but relies on rolling his eyes, which is not unprofessional.
It is said that behind a successful man, there must be a woman who pays silently, and Xu Jinjiang is the same.
30 years ago, Xu Jinjiang dreamed of a beautiful woman dressed in national costumes, and when he woke up, he still remembered it vividly, so he waved it and painted the dream lover.
At that time, Xu Jinjiang probably did not expect that the woman in this painting would actually appear in his life later.
In 1994, he met Yin Zhuping in Yunnan, when she was mixed with a group of female soldiers, but Xu Jinjiang still recognized it at a glance, after all, this girl was extremely similar to the person in his painting.
He didn't want to miss this wonderful fate, so he stepped forward and stopped Yin Zhuping. "I'm the actor Xu Jinjiang, I'm leaving here tomorrow, I like you, let's get married!"
He didn't have time to tell Yin Zhuping the truth of the matter, and he didn't even get the girl's phone number, so he categorically refused, and he could only leave.
But after a roundabout, the two met again.
Half a year later, Xu Jinjiang and Zhang Min collaborated on the filming of "The Legend of the Flying Fox".
Upon hearing this news, Yin Zhuping, who was in Beijing, came to see his idol Zhang Min.
The director's shout to Xu Jinjiang attracted the attention of Yin Zhuping, is this not the person who confessed to himself at the airport?
Xu Jinjiang also saw her in the crowd, quickly put down the work at hand, and even rushed to her before he could change his costume.
He confessed again: "I am Xu Jinjiang, and I want to marry you." If you want, a week later to where we last met, and whether you come or not, I'll wait for you. ”
After saying that, he took a leave of absence with the crew, on the grounds that he was married. When he arrived at the meeting place, he was surprised that Yin Zhuping was already waiting there.
So, the two went to the evidence. In the face of the doubts of relatives and friends, she said: "At that time, I was confused, people have come, and I am not embarrassed to refuse." ”
In a later program, the host also asked: "In the six months of separation from Yin Zhuping, have you ever had any relationship with other girls?" Xu Jinjiang did not hesitate: "No." ”
Because he had identified Yin Zhuping, he was always thinking about her in his heart.
Marriage in the entertainment industry always gives the impression that it is difficult to trust, but it is not here in Xu Jinjiang. Three times they saw each other, they ripped off the evidence, but for more than twenty years, they were still as loving as ever.
"I just want my wife to know that our circle is not what the outside world says." When talking about the relationship between the two, Xu Jinjiang replied.
When she first got married, Yin Zhuping was sad several times because of her husband's intimate scenes and intimate interaction with actresses.
At a movie conference of "Into the Devil", when she saw her husband hugging and hugging Weng Hong, Yin Zhuping was particularly aggrieved and cried sadly.
Xu Jinjiang understood his wife's feelings, constantly comforted her, and after her husband's persuasion, she was also relieved, knowing that this was out of the needs of work.
In order not to make Yin Zhuping uncomfortable, every time he shoots an intimate scene, he does not let his wife come to the crew. But the other party insisted on going: "You are normal work, what can not go." ”
Later, Xu Jinjiang was accused of being unseemly by the outside world for filming a nude photo album, and even his own sister did not understand it. Only Yin Zhuping sided with her husband and silently supported him.
After the limelight, I thanked my wife for her support and understanding as always, without her, there was really no one in the world who supported Xu Jinjiang. However, Yin Zhuping's trust and support for her husband is more than that.
Xu Jinjiang learned to speculate in stocks and earned a lot of money. Life began to become more and more luxurious, to go to Macau to take a helicopter, and to wait for a taxi to buy a car. When the road is congested, I throw my car out of the car and wait until the traffic police call to remember.
However, the sudden financial crisis swept through Hong Kong, and soon returned Xu Jinjiang to its original form, the car and the house were used by the bank to pay off debts, and Xu Jinjiang, who had lost his family, could only rent a small rental house to live, and his life could not be maintained.
As the head of the family, he did not fall down, but went everywhere to make money, and one year he actually made thirteen plays in one go. Under the pressure of life, Xu Jinjiang often cried tears at night alone.
The immense stress caused him to suffer from depression and even almost died in the hotel. After that, accompanied by his wife, he went to the hospital for two years of psychological treatment, and then spent this unknown time.
When people see Xu Jinjiang's sometimes cute and sometimes funny performance in the variety show "All the Way to Adulthood", they only think that he is not worried about everything, but they rarely think that he has also borne so much pressure and suffering.
Although he has always been well known to the public as an actor, in addition to filming, Xu Jinjiang has not given up his study and pursuit of art. His level of Chinese painting is quite high, and his writing is also excellent.
In 2015, Xu Jinjiang brought together his sculptures, Chinese paintings, oil paintings, calligraphy and other works he had created over the years and held a painting exhibition.
At that time, more than 400 professionals were present, and some people even threw 800,000 yuan to buy one of his calligraphy and paintings.
There are many people in the entertainment industry who like to draw and calligraphy, but a considerable number of people are just for hype, in fact, the professional level is not very high.
But the famous art critic Ji Tainian said: Xu Jinjiang is not that kind of person, his works have a high artistic level.
Affirmed by the master, the dream he had pursued for many years finally came true, Xu Jinjiang could not help but cry with joy,
"I've made two big decisions in my life. The first is to shoot the photo album, which is because of the pursuit of art. The second time, it was to propose to Yin Zhuping, which was a yearning for love. ”
Now at the age of sixty, he has already seen through the vanity fair of the show business circle.
Once he was infinitely beautiful and once in a quagmire, he let go of all this, but his love for his wife was consistent, which was also an enviable couple in the show business circle.
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