Have you watched the new drama "Rational Life" starring Qin Lan and Wang Hedi?
This time, Qin Lan played a 30+ workplace woman in the play, as the "older leftover woman" in everyone's eyes, she not only had to face all kinds of chickens and dogs jumping at work every day, but also was always madly urged to marry by her own mother, and was forced to suffocate every minute.
The ratings of this drama have been flat so far, but I did not expect that the old drama bone Pan Hong, who played Qin Lan's mother, accidentally went out of the circle with various fancy "marriage quotations", and was called "golden sentence output master" and "female version of Su Daqiang" by netizens.
Especially in the following paragraph, the mother of Shen in the play said to her daughter:
"When you reach my age, you should know how to write the word loneliness." We are old college, there are a lot of lonely old men and lonely old women, they added a group, every day must be when the sun rises and the sun sets, to enter the group punch card, you think they are in the fun, wrong, they are afraid of their own death at home, no one to collect the body. ”
A lifetime of not getting married and having children, and finally a lonely life, old and helpless. After reading this line, do you feel extremely scared and a little cold at the bottom of your heart? But this seems to be the true portrayal of Pan Hong's life.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="19" >01, once-in-a-lifetime marriage </h1>
In 1973, at the age of 19, Pan Hong was admitted to the acting department of the Shanghai Theater Academy. During her studies in the play, Pan Hong participated in the movie "The Slave's Daughter", and it was precisely because of participating in this play that she met her later husband MiJiashan, who was also the only husband in his life.
Pan Hong and Mi Jiashan met each other very well after they met, and Mi JiaShan could often provide Pan Hong with some guidance on acting from a professional perspective.
After graduating from university, Pan Hong was assigned to work as an actress at the Shanghai Film Studio, where Mi Jiashan was an artist.
In 1978, the two people who had been in a stable relationship announced their decision to marry the outside world, but this decision was opposed by many people, and even some people said bluntly: Mijiashan is not worthy of Pan Hong.
Because in the eyes of others, the 24-year-old Pan Hong was already a well-known star in the circle, and MiJiashan, who was full of beards, was not only 8 years old and had no achievements in her career, but just an ordinary factory worker in the film studio.
But Pan Hong believed in her choice, and the two resolutely entered the palace of marriage.
Pan Hong once described his feelings for Mijiashan, "He is seven or eight years older than me, he is a high-ranking cadre, whether it is age or maturity, I seem to have found half a father, and he is more like a brother and father to me." "
And Pan Hong's feelings and dependence on Mijiashan's "half father" may be related to the fatherly love she lacked since childhood.
Pan Hong's mother, an accountant at a hospital, fell in love with a former Soviet expert who aided The Construction of China in the 1950s during the "Sino-Soviet Friendship" period, and then became pregnant with Pan Hong. So, there are many people who say that Pan Hong is half Russian.
But in the context of the times at that time, such love was certainly not accepted by outsiders, and In desperation, Pan Hong's mother had to hurry to marry a cadre who went south, that is, Pan Hong's stepfather.
After Pan Hong was born, she initially lived with her grandmother and did not return to her parents until she was about 6 years old.
Unexpectedly, when Pan Hong was 10 years old, the stepfather committed suicide because of the times, leaving only Pan Hong and her mother and two younger sisters.
The death of his father left a shadow on Pan Hong for a lifetime. At that time, when she was young, she took a train for three days and two nights alone and sent her father's ashes back to her hometown in Harbin for her mother.
After his father left, there were only 4 women left in the family to rely on each other, life was naturally difficult, and Pan Hong's childhood officially ended with the death of her father.
Pan Hong, who was already sentimental, became more melancholy after suffering the blow of her father's suicide, but as the eldest sister in the family, she had to be strong to help her mother take care of the family.
Therefore, when Pan Hong, who has lacked love and insecurity since childhood, meets Mijiashan, who can bring him the warmth of his father, she will be so determined.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="19" >02, "third party" storm</h1>
In 1979, Pan Hong became famous with the film "Distressed Laughter" and was invited to participate in the Cannes Film Festival. But because of this film, she was involved in the "third party" storm.
Pan Hong had a scandal with the film's director Yang Yanjin when filming the film, and Yang Yanjin's wife and actress Hong Rong made a big fuss at the film studio after hearing the news, which made everyone known.
Afterwards, the film studio made a serious criticism of Pan Hong, and Yang Yanjin was also remembered. Hong Rong still did not give up, threatening Pan Hong to claim that he wanted to ruin her.
In this case, in the end, Pan Hong could only be transferred to the Emei Film Production Factory in Sichuan with her husband.
Even if Hong Rong drove away Pan Hong, he could not keep Yang Yanjin, and later Yang Yanjin divorced Hong Rong and married the Taiwanese writer Xuan Xiaofo, and Hong Rong came together with Pan Hong's teacher Li Zhiyu.
Although this "third party" storm did not break up Pan Hong and Mi Jiashan, it more or less affected their feelings.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="19" >03, not willing to be the woman behind Mijiashan</h1>
Mi Jiashan once asked Pan Hong, "What do you want?" Pan Hong said without hesitation that I wanted to succeed.
Pan Hong, who was in the ascendancy of her career after marriage, discussed with Mi Jiashan and decided to postpone her plan to have children. In order to help Pan Hong's career, MiJiashan also went to the Beijing Film Academy to study directing.
In 1981, Pan Hong received an invitation to the movie "Du Shiniang", during the filming of the film, Pan Hong did not return home for more than a year, and the long-term separation of different places undoubtedly laid the groundwork for the final divorce of the two.
With the role of Du Shiniang, Pan Hong won the Best Actress Award at the 4th Little Hundred Flowers Awards and the Best Actress Nomination at the 6th Hundred Flowers Awards for Popular Films.
Subsequently, Pan Hong starred in classic films such as "Middle-Aged Man", "Cold Night", "Fire Dragon", "The Last Empress" and so on, becoming a film queen with the same name as Liu Xiaoqing in the 80s.
In 1985, Mi Jiashan graduated from nortel directing and returned to Emei Film Studio. At this time, Pan Hong's mother advised her to slow down the filming first, take the time to have a child, and then say, the elderly Mi Jiashan also hopes that Pan Hong can have a son and a half daughter for herself.
But Pan Hong, who is stronger, is still bent on only movies and careers, coupled with the long-term gathering of the two, there are also differences in personality.
In 1986, 32-year-old Pan Hong and Mi Jiashan divorced.
Later, Pan Hong sighed when recalling: "We were together for 8 years, but the time we were really together was only one year. Because I felt that career and work were more important, I didn't think much about my home, I thought that when I became a home, my home was always there. "
After divorcing Pan Hong, Mi Jiashan once had a public relationship with CCTV anchor Wang Xiaoya, but for various reasons, this relationship with a difference of 21 years ultimately failed to achieve positive results.
Interestingly, after Pan Hong and Mi Jiashan divorced, she also starred in Mi Jiashan's representative work "Stubborn Lord", and Mi Jiashan won the Best Director Award at the 1989 Golden Rooster Awards for this film.
At first, Mi Jiashan went to study directing for Pan Hong, but when Mi Jiashan finally came to prominence as a director, the relationship between the two was already human.
After the divorce, Pan Hong continued to cling to her career, and in 1992, she won the Best Actress Award in many film festivals such as Golden Rooster, Hundred Flowers, Huabiao, Golden Phoenix, Golden Deer Award and so on with the movie "Stock Madness".
Pan Hong has also become an actress who has won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress three times, and is the first person in the history of the Golden Rooster Awards so far.
Later, in the blink of an eye to middle age, Pan Hong, who was no longer young, began to transform into a mother and mother-in-law, and was once named "evil mother-in-law professional household" by the audience, becoming a "childhood shadow" of many post-90s.
Even though she is 67 years old this year, Pan Hong, who has been strong all her life, still has not stopped her pace in her acting career and is still active on the screen.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="19" > conclusion</h1>
Pan Hong, who was divorced at the age of 32, naturally has no shortage of suitors around her for so many years, but in her heart, she still can't let go of Mijiashan.
She has confessed more than once in front of the media, "I will care about Mijiashan all my life" and "I am the best for Mijiashan, no one can compare".
Once a friend told Pan Hong that Mijiashan had "gout". Who knows, in a hurry, she actually heard that she had a "stroke", and she was suddenly anxious and immediately called Mijiashan.
Mijiashan said it was all right, just gout. Pan Hong did not react for a moment and asked in a daze, "What is gout?" ”
Pan Hong once interned in the hospital for three months because of the role of Lu Wenting in "Middle-Aged", how could she not know what "gout" is? Just care is chaos.
In the end, Pan Hong still has regrets about this marriage. When Mijiashan asked her whether she chose to be a woman or to succeed, she chose the latter. Therefore, she said that she had made this ending herself, and only blamed herself for being too vain in the first place.
Now that She is over sixty years old, Pan Hong has long since converted to Buddhism and does not care about love affairs, and her happiest thing now should be that she still has dramas to shoot, and she can accompany her 80-year-old mother and family.
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Author: Eat melon girl crushed thoughts
Editor-in-charge: Zeria
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