What is your ideal love like? Is it the electric spark of love at first sight, or the love of long-term love?
A few days ago, a reader shared her happy event with me. After running with her first love for many years, her boyfriend officially proposed to her on her 30th birthday. For so many years, they experienced long-distance love, were not washed away by time and distance, and finally successfully entered the marriage in the blessing of all people.
When she got married, her husband promised that every day in the future, he would love her more than before, and she was moved to tears. People who have not experienced a long period of love will not move, two people who have experienced years of love, how difficult it is to get married.
Although this is only the beginning, this kind of love that spans a long time is something I am looking forward to and appreciating.
This kind of thing as long-distance running in love is particularly unreliable in the eyes of many people. Marriage still has a 7-year itch, and the feelings naturally have a freshness period. The shelf life of ordinary people's love is actually very short, only a few months.
So those who can maintain the love for a few years or even 10 years, insist on going on, must not be the so-called love, but because of responsibility, habits, or appreciation of each other.
But either way, I personally think that love from beginning to end is like a very beautiful fairy tale.
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People often lament the love of ancient times, thinking that although the car was slow, the letter was long, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime, but that kind of love would often make people unforgettable and could remember it for a lifetime.
In the latest issue of "Longing for Life", Huang Yali blew herself up that she was already married, and her husband was the first love who accompanied her for 16 years. As soon as the news came out, everyone was particularly surprised. Who would have thought that the girl who was a little shy in front of the camera and didn't talk much would quietly get married.
Speaking of Huang Yali, some people may not be familiar with her, because she is not the kind of star who is often active in front of the big screen, and relatively speaking, her private life is very grounded.
She often shares some of her daily life, such as decorating the home, raising flowers, you can see that she is a girl who loves life very much and has a very good hands-on ability.
The name Huang Yali is actually not particularly conspicuous, because although she debuted by Supergirl, her results that year were not too good, and she only got a 6th place.
Since her debut for 16 years, she has been tepid in the entertainment industry, and the resources she has received are also very limited, plus she is also the kind of personality that does not like to argue, so compared to other Supergirls, she is obviously inferior.
Fortunately, she has a good popularity, and she is also a positive and uplifting girl with no heart. In the past two years, the audience can often see her on variety shows, and she is also slowly letting everyone know about her.
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When it comes to love, I have a movie about it in my head, and it's "October Sonata" from Thailand, which is a tragic pure love movie.
The boy and the girl met on a rainy night, and on that day the girl learned the news of the death of the idol's plane crash and rushed to the sea where the idol crashed, but accidentally met the boy.
By chance, the two people stayed in a seaside hostel in order to avoid the rain. That night, the boy and the girl talked about their respective lives, and love quietly sprouted in the hearts of the two young people.
Yet that night, nothing happened between them. Early the next morning, when the girl woke up to find that the boy had left, the boy left her a note and agreed to meet here on this day next year.
The boy was going to study abroad, and he didn't expect to meet the girl before leaving. At that time, the girls were just factory women, uneducated and illiterate.
The boy had left her a book, and the girl wished to be the girl in the book, and for the sake of the boy she went to night school in her spare time, and she hoped that when she saw her again next year, she would be able to proudly tell the boy that she had read the book the boy had left behind.
However, the next year the boy did not come back because something had happened, he asked a friend to come to the inn to inform the girl, but unfortunately he came one step late, and the girl left disappointed because she did not wait for the boy for a long time.
It's a story about love and waiting. Because of a pact, the girl and the boy insisted on it for more than ten years, and although they saw each other very few times over the years, their hearts never left each other.
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In the face of love, some people feel that it is a kind of happiness to be able to stay together, but some people feel that it is also a kind of happiness for some people to wait. In fact, whether it is a movie or a life, there is a kind of love fairy tale that "because I like it, I am willing to wait".
Especially after seeing more fast-food love, for those who can spend several years to love a person, even if they know that there is no result, they are willing to insist on feelings, this kind of pure treatment of feelings is more happy.
People's life is inherently lonely, especially when you have to spend a lot of time waiting, this loneliness will be infinitely magnified. Everyone knows that all choices in this world are not single, that is, when you love the person you love, there must be someone who loves you.
Just like the girl in the movie, she loved the boy all her life, and there was a boy who loved her all her life, although she didn't love him.
The love that can go in both directions is undoubtedly happy and lucky.
Some people, although they have a lifetime of no name, work in general, and live in an ordinary life, but because they have a lovely lover, they are like having the whole world.
Encountering fairy tales is destiny, and after creating fairy tales is destiny, the best reward for your efforts.
Perhaps, she is not the best, but it is true that you are the rarest. In the relationship, if you can do this, it is actually very precious.
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