Li Ying and her husband have been married for 20 years. In the eyes of her husband, she is a good wife and a good mother. However, her husband proposed a divorce to her on the condition that her husband leave the house, give her all the house, façade and savings, and give her 1,000 yuan a month. Unexpectedly, she said: I can't divorce you.
Li Ying and her husband have a son, Xiaoyu, who is in his second year of college. He came home for the summer and found his parents arguing and making a big fuss, as if it were related to a woman. In the past, my parents were still very loving, but this time I came back from vacation, but it changed a lot. The father even stayed at the hotel. In desperation, Xiaoyu found a reporter to help mediate the conflict between his parents.
Xiaoyu and the reporter came to the hotel where his father Li Shu lived, and as soon as they met, Xiaoyu persuaded his father to go home and live a good life with his mother. But the father said that his wife was too noisy, that he did not want to stay in that house, and listed the conditions for divorce, and he was willing to leave the house.
Li Shu said that his wife Wang Ying was suspicious and not good at communication. Sometimes when he couldn't go home on a business trip, his wife suspected that he was with someone else, so she yelled at him and asked him to show her the proof of his errand. His wife argues every day, he feels very tired, he and his wife are unhappy and unhappy, he wants to end this life.
In order to understand Wang Ying's thoughts, Xiaoyu came to the house with his father and reporter to meet Wang Ying. Wang Ying said that her husband was unfaithful to the marriage and rode a motorcycle to another woman's house. Xiao Yu rushed to help his father explain, but Wang Ying expressed disbelief.
Wang Ying pulled the reporter into a room, and she wanted to speak to the reporter alone. She said she and her husband have been married for 20 years, and the first 10 years of the couple have a good relationship, the husband has had an affair for the past 10 years, and has a daughter outside. For the sake of her family, she put up with it.
Li Shu works in a state-owned enterprise, and the two have suffered together and lived happily. Now that his son is in college, the couple should have lived a free life, but Li Shu proposed a divorce to his wife. The wife chose to endure in silence and resolutely refused to divorce.
Li Shu told reporters that as soon as he proposed divorce, his wife would send him some extreme language. He said that his wife was particularly good, in addition to her temper was a little grumpy, she was filial to her in-laws, and she was an excellent daughter-in-law; She is caring and considerate to her husband and she is an excellent wife; She cares deeply for her son and she is an excellent mother. He still has feelings for his wife.
Li Shu said that he did this for the good of the family and for the sake of his wife. But Wang Ying said that her husband divorced her in order to marry another woman.
Li Shu denied his wife's statement, but his wife elaborated on his various unbearable behaviors, he admitted his mistakes, he was sorry for the family, he was willing to go out of the house, the family's property was given to his wife, the cost of his son's college was borne by him, because his wife was laid off, he gave his wife another 1,000 yuan a month for living expenses. He said he did not set a good example for his son and hoped that his son would not learn from him.
His wife, Wang Ying, said that she was determined not to divorce, and that was how she lived, preferring to maintain a marriage that existed in name only. Her son is in college, and she will get married and have children in the future, and she wants to maintain a complete family. She only has a husband in her heart, and even after the divorce, she will not get married again.
Xiaoyu said that he only wanted his parents not to quarrel. Xiaoyu's mother said that her husband would not quarrel if she did not force her to divorce.
Xiaoyu believes that no matter how good the relationship between two people in love is, once they get married, there will be a quarrel, and eventually they will divorce, it is better to live alone and try to be clean.
It seems that his parents' marriage has affected Xiaoyu's thinking, and he has developed a fear of future marriages. However, Xiaoyu still hopes that his parents can reconcile as before.
Li Shu listened to his son's words, and he did not expect that his behavior would have such a big impact on his son. He told reporters that he had made the mistakes made by men, and now it was too late to correct them. He also wanted to reconcile with his wife, but he also wanted to live the life he wanted. He could give everything to his wife in terms of material things, and he would pursue spiritual freedom.
The reporter proposed a compromise method to Li Shu, the two do not divorce, but can take the way of separation, do not hurt each other. Li Shu said he was willing, and his wife might not agree.
Then, the reporter went to wang Ying's ideological work. Wang Ying said that she did not accept her husband to move out, and she believed that her husband's doing so was a strategy to slow down the army. She is willing to move out on her own, her husband lives at home, at least others dare not enter the house.
When the reporter conveyed his wife's idea to Li Shu, he did not expect him to say that it was unrealistic to do so. The reporter immediately understood that Li Shu's real idea was to divorce. Then, the reporter conducted an education for Li Shu, such a good family does not know how to cherish, too stupid. Even if he had a new family, he would not live a good life, because he felt guilty about his old family. Divorce cannot be easily tried, and there is no turning back after trying.
Under the persuasion of reporters, Li Shu seemed to understand some truths. He said he was willing to return to the family as long as his wife's temper and mentality improved.
The wife cried and said: No matter what, she is willing to accept her husband, she is willing to end up. Xiaoyu took his parents' hands and expressed his willingness to be a lubricant between his parents, and the family was reconciled.
Husbands and wives should tolerate, understand, and respect each other, and should be loyal to each other. Li Shu did something sorry for his wife, and finally repented and returned to the family, which is also valuable. Since the two sides form a family, they should take responsibility for the family, can not be half-hearted, and finally can only harm themselves and their families.
Wang Ying is also a good woman, for her own family, endured 10 years of pain, for the integrity of her family. Her forbearance and dedication, the husband saw it in his eyes, and he also knew that he was sorry for his wife. In the end, if you know your mistake, you will change it, and the ending will be satisfactory.
In the husband's mind, the wife is a good woman, and the wife endured for ten years in order to protect the family, which is really difficult but great. This pain is something that only she can experience. Men should treat their wives well, cherish their families, and live happily as a family.
If you were the wife in the text, would you choose to forgive your husband? Welcome to leave a message to discuss and communicate.
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