How to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?
1: As a daughter-in-law, how do you deal with the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?
The daughter-in-law replied: Oh, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a problem for the ages! However, I have my exclusive secret, that is, "overcoming rigidity with softness" + "cheekiness" + "cleverness". To overcome rigidity with softness is to try not to argue with your mother-in-law about right and wrong, to be cheeky is to be thick-skinned, don't be afraid of being picky, and be smart is to occasionally bring a small gift to your mother-in-law to make her happy.
2: As a mother-in-law, how do you think your daughter-in-law should get along with you?
Mother-in-law replied: As a mother-in-law, my biggest experience is to "convince people with virtue" + "pretend to be confused". Of course, I treat my daughter-in-law with virtue, and I first teach by word and deed. At the same time, I have to pretend to be confused, she is the mother of my precious grandson, how can I deal with them? As long as I am happy, my daughter-in-law will also feel warmth and respect.
3: Are there any tips you can share in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?
The daughter-in-law replied, "Of course! First of all, you have to learn to listen." Mother-in-law also has her own life and experience, and sometimes she may just want to talk to someone. Second, know how to praise. Mother-in-law is also a woman, and she likes to listen to good words. Finally, keep your distance. Keeping an appropriate distance between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can avoid too many conflicts and misunderstandings.
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