Life will treat you how you treat it.
It is also a trivial matter in life, some people fight for it, and some people use positive emotional value to constantly nourish the people around them.
Being able to take care of one's own emotions and bring happiness to others is an amazing ability and a source of happiness for a person.
Emotional value is an important resource for people in the world
One book says, "Whether or not you can provide emotional value largely determines the success or failure of a relationship." ”
In many cases, what you can bring to others will be rewarded with what you can bring to others.
I've heard the saying, "What's more important than solving a problem is dealing with emotions first." ”
Communication with each other is always inseparable from the flow of emotions.
Those who can provide good emotions will lead others out of the negative vortex and heal the pain of the other party, which is not showing their strengths.
This kind of soft power is also a valuable resource for people to live in the world.
Good emotional value can strengthen positive guidance
As the old saying goes: "Living with a good person is like entering the room of Lan Zhi, and you will not smell its fragrance for a long time." ”
Spending time with friends with high emotional value will give you a kind of silent nourishment.
I like a saying: "Who you are, you will meet whom, how you treat life, life will treat you." ”
We can't taste the bitterness of life for anyone, but we can hand him a piece of candy and let emotional value become a nourishment, nourish ourselves and heal others.
Provide emotional value and learn these 3 ways
Those who are adept at providing emotional value not only nourish themselves, but also heal others.
Learn the following 3 points, and hope that we all have the ability to illuminate ourselves and sweep away the dust for others:
1. Listen patiently and have the ability to resonate emotionally
2. Be grateful and resist the influence of negative emotions
3. Know how to appreciate and enhance the energy of emotional perception
For the rest of your life, try to be a person with high emotional value.
Even in the face of low points and difficulties in life, you can maintain a positive expectation and belief, and give positive feedback to the people around you, so that you can reap more happiness and success.
Source: Fan Deng, Xinhua News Agency (the copyright belongs to the original author, if there is any infringement, please contact to delete)