#头条创作挑战赛#
On the road of educating their children, many parents tend to adopt the "reasonable" method, believing that this can make children understand things and become more sensible.
However, does this type of education really work?
In this article, we will explore the educational methods that go beyond mere reasoning through the educational experience of a father known as a "doctor dad".
Let us recall the views of the educator Rousseau.
He pointed out in "Emile" that the three most useless methods of education in the world are: reasoning, tantrums, and deliberate moving.
This perspective highlights the limitations of mere reasoning and reminds us to focus on our children's emotional needs rather than just paying lip service.
In real life, many fathers find it difficult to get rid of the "reasonable" mode of thinking. They tend to place too much emphasis on rational thinking and ignore the emotional needs and personality traits of children.
This type of education can easily make children feel bored and rebellious, which can have the opposite effect.
In contrast, the father, known as the "Doctor Dad", showed a different educational philosophy. He understands that education is not only about imparting knowledge, but more importantly, about cultivating children's character, emotions and values.
Therefore, he is not satisfied with simply reasoning with his children, but guides them through teaching, communication and understanding.
This father is very focused on communication and interaction with his children. He makes children feel the warmth and harmony of the family by reading books and traveling with them. In this way, children learn by doing, and better understand the practical application of knowledge and the meaning of life.
At the same time, this father also pays great attention to the power of teaching by example.
He influences children through his words and deeds and becomes a role model for children to learn.
For example, in order to make the children fall in love with learning, he and his wife read together at night, and in order to broaden the children's horizons, he took the children all over the country.
These behaviors make children feel the joy and meaning of learning, and stimulate their curiosity and spirit of exploration.
When his children encounter difficulties and setbacks, this father always gives them intimate comfort and support.
He never denies children easily, but helps them overcome difficulties through encouragement and advice.
This way of education allows children to feel the warmth and support of their families, and strengthens their self-confidence and resilience to frustration.
It is because of this father's unique educational philosophy and method that five of his six children have a doctorate and one master's degree. These children have achieved outstanding achievements in their respective fields and become elite talents in society. Behind this achievement is the father's educational wisdom and practice that goes beyond reasoning.
Jin Weichun also said that intimacy has always been a major challenge in his life, and one of the hurdles that he can't get over is that he loves to be reasonable.
He realized that educating children is not a condescending lecture, but an active and constructive process. As a result, he learned to communicate with respect, to act by himself, and to understand with love, which are more important than simply reasoning.
The title "Beyond the Truth: The Educational Implications of a 'Doctor's Dad'" aptly encapsulates the core point of this article.
Through the educational experience of this "doctor's father", we have seen the wisdom and practice of education that goes beyond reasoning. Education should be based on a process of respect, understanding, and teaching by example, not simply verbal preaching.
Only in this way can we truly nurture children with character, emotions and values, so that they can become the pillars of society.