Mr. Lin Yutang said:
"The wisdom of life is to gradually clarify and filter out the impurities that are not important, while retaining the most important parts."
Return to the original intention, go to complexity and simplicity, not be blinded by accumulated habits, not tired of floating names, and not hurt by parting.
For the rest of your life, please remember to keep these three words, experience the mood of life with a simple heart, be content and enjoy the joy.
A sign of a person getting stronger: stability
Everything can be stabilized, and with a clear mind, you can face the disturbances of life.
Emotional stability
Research has found that what really helps a person to succeed is not the accumulation of money and fame, but good emotions.
Life is like a brass lock, emotions are like keys, emotions are stable, life is smooth.
Stable ability
Doing beautiful things by chance is not a real skill, and doing beautiful things often is hard work.
To remain excellent, rely on learning ability.
"The real stability is not that you have food in a unit, but that you are strong enough to eat wherever you go."
The times are constantly changing, there is no stable job, only stable ability.
Only by constantly learning and letting yourself have the power of evolution can you move forward in this era of rushing rivers.
Act steadily
Reliable, is a person's best social business card.
In this era, smart is easy to see, reliable and rare.
Reliability is a scarce quality, and with reliable people, there is no need to suspect, worry, and worry.
The so-called talent is to give him one thing, he can do it well, and then give him one thing, he can do it well.
Mental stability
Dong Qing once said: "I have never grown up, but I have never stopped growing." Life needs to go all out, but not too much rush. ”
Rome was not built in a day, and the cause was not achieved overnight.
Can hold the loneliness, endure the cold and heat, and finally see the glimmer.
The relationship between people and people is all about: fate
People get along with people, the most comfortable state,
It's nature.
You don't have to please me, I don't have to woo you,
Get along casually and socially safely.
Not everyone can become friends;
Not every friend can stay with you for a long time.
Man and man, not in harmony,
It all depends on fate.
People and people,
For a long time,
Everything depends on the heart.
The cheapest health pill in the world: busy
Idle people are busy, busy with the world's leisure.
When you understand the meaning of life, you don't want to idle anymore.
Romain Rolland said: "The heaviest burden in life is not work, but boredom. ”
Idle, you may be happy for a while, but repetition and nothingness will one day make you feel bored.
Busy people are happy because there is something to do and life is valuable.
At the age of ninety, Pei worked tirelessly to design the Suzhou Museum. Work is a joy for him.
He laughs and calls himself a "hard worker", who knows how to bury his head in work every day, sometimes until the early hours of the morning, and spends more than 8 hours in the museum, carefully considering every architectural detail.
Every day at 4 a.m., the lights in Ji Xianlin's study will come on. He said, "Get up and get to work!" ”
In his nineties, he works more than 10 hours a day.
Zhou Youguang, known as the "father of Hanyu Pinyin," said: "I left the office at the age of 85 and returned home to a small study that was too small to read newspapers, read books, and write articles. ”
Qi Baishi is also a celebrity who believes in "busy". He demanded that he had to paint every day, and the credo was: "Don't let the day be idle." ”
The longevity of these "masters" has made countless people envious, but everyone does not know that these longevities are precisely "busy".
Best state: busy and valuable, idle and interesting.
Source: Qiyi Network Qiyi Client / People's Forum Network WeChat public account
Editor: Shi Junhao Ran Kaimei
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