Obey my mother-in-law's wisdom, despite being used by her, I am willing

I accepted my mother-in-law's wisdom, and I was willing to do so, even though she used it.

Mother-in-law business vision is very good, she saw the business opportunity to send rural free-range eggs in our community, wanted to live in our home, to carry out this business, but she did not say directly, but first tried to do the preparation, until I wanted her to come to live, only to be gracious but the same came.

After I got married, my mother-in-law would give us free-range eggs and chickens that she had brought from her mother's house in the country every weekend. Occasionally she met a neighbor, and she would send some to the neighbor. Every time she came, she would stay in our house for a day, or live for one or two nights, go to the community to find someone to chat, follow those middle-aged and elderly people to dance square dance, for a long time, she almost became acquaintances with the middle-aged and elderly people in our community, and made a lot of friends. As her circle of friends expanded, she brought more and more eggs and chickens from my house, giving us some and most of the others at cost prices to her acquaintances and friends. Later, these acquaintances and friends asked her for goods, and she began to ship them regularly.

She also stored a lot of videos of chicken farms on her mobile phone, showed them to our neighbors in the community, and built a group to send them. Her acquaintances have become her propaganda team, and more and more people believe in her, far beyond the middle-aged and elderly groups she knows, to the baoma group, the office workers' group, in short, more and more people buy her free-range eggs and chickens.

She turned our community into her huge sales market, and the neighbors in the community also passed on relatives to relatives, neighbors passed on neighbors, and developed her market to the surrounding communities.

Her egg delivery business is getting bigger and bigger, and the customer base is very stable, our community needs someone to stay here, maintain the customer base, dock some things between customers and manufacturers, so she wants to live in our home, specifically responsible for this side of the business, so that the relatives in the countryside are responsible for delivery. Several of her nephews in the countryside have their own chicken farms, and the sales are not very good, and she does this by helping them sell products, and by the way, she also makes some money herself.

When the business started, she didn't have to worry about sales problems, and the next step began to think about how to live in our house smoothly and not cause family conflicts. She knows that daughters-in-law don't like to live with their mother-in-law, especially young people like us who have just married, in addition to not wanting to get along with our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law under one roof, we don't want to live with the elderly. Moreover, I just married into their family, I am not familiar with their family, and I am still very angry, because the relationship between relatives will definitely cause a lot of family conflicts, and it may affect our husband and wife relationship. Therefore, she wants to do this business for a long time, and if I am not resented by my parents, she must first make me fully accept her. For me to fully accept her, she had to find where I needed her.

So my mother-in-law began to observe my relationship and living habits with my husband without showing myself.

There were two major problems in our marriage: one, I had a bad habit of lying in bed; second, my husband was short-tempered, and the two of us often quarreled over it.

These two problems are where my mother-in-law sees and can start to do the work.

Elderly people are prone to not being able to sleep in the morning, as long as my mother-in-law lives in our house, she will get up early to make us breakfast, not simple milk bread, but also bake a cake, stir-fry a dish. On the weekend, my husband and I slept lazily, got up at ninety o'clock, and could eat hot meals directly on the table, which was really a great comfort, mainly, my husband did not abandon the bed, did not urge me. Even if I lie in bed until he has breakfast, and my mother-in-law goes out to buy vegetables to prepare lunch, he doesn't have to wait for me to buy vegetables, and my bed has no impact on his life, and he doesn't care about me. My bed does not affect the rhythm of his life, because the quarrel between the bed is naturally gone. I can also settle down in bed. I am grateful to my mother-in-law for this. She also never said in front of my husband that I was lazy, saying that I was also "on a week's shift, take a good rest, and rest at random on weekends." "Such words wind.

Two young couples, each doing their own work, quarreling at home is not a big problem that can rise to the concept of thought, it is some trivial things, the attitude of speaking is not good, the mood is not right, do not think about each other and so on. My mother-in-law began to face our quarrels, all of them did not intervene, hid out by themselves, and later found that this method did not have a positive effect, but let us be separated from her, plus also roughly understood the content and method of our quarrels, and began to participate.

Every time we started arguing, she hurriedly pushed my husband into the house and advised me not to meet him in general, because she did not educate her son well, raised him to such a big temper that he could not speak well, and I could marry him is his creation. Some did not praise me, do not say anything, just say my advantages, what high education, good work, temper and temperament, to reduce herself, but absolutely do not say what my husband is not good, say bad and only say a little, short-tempered. When I am angry, I will objectively and fairly say what the nature of this matter is, how to deal with it best, and be impartial. Usually, as long as my husband does a little good thing for the family and cares about me, she will say: You still have a vision to pick your husband! He loves you very much.

Over time, our mother-in-law's relationship miraculously developed into a girlfriend-like intimacy, and I almost relied on her a little. On the days when she was away, there was no hot meal to eat in the morning, we quarreled as husband and wife, and no one wanted her to talk like that without provoking any contradictions, but also made me feel warm, and my husband was far from the artistic level of his mother's talking. As soon as she left, I felt that I had lost a mom, a right-hand man, and was uncomfortable.

So, when my mother-in-law came back, I told her not to leave, anyway, your business needs someone here, just live in my house.

My mother-in-law began to pretend to resign, saying that it would affect the lives of our young people, afraid that I would not adapt to it, or something. I know that she is afraid that when I hate her more than one day, I will find this kind of excuse, and now that I say it, it is equivalent to blocking my mouth, since I have said that these are not a problem, and I want to take her away in the future, at least I can't find these as excuses.

I said you are worried, we all know each other thoroughly, what is the problem, just like me and your son, it is not a big fight, it will be fine.

My mother-in-law lived in my house with confidence and boldness, and made us breakfast every morning, we no longer had to eat a few mouthfuls of tofu brain on the street to go to work, and we could have a breakfast at home. My mother-in-law runs her egg delivery business at home during the day, sleeping and dancing a square dance when she doesn't have to do business, and continues to grow her customer base. The money she earned from selling eggs will also give us dividends, because we used our house, and we invested a stake. My husband and I had money to earn, and before I knew it, we started helping her with business. Gradually, our lives were better than before my mother-in-law came.