When chasing girls, you can try not to type in the voice, after all, compared with typing chat, voice chat is not only convenient, but also more conducive to us and girls to get closer. But many boys are either rejected when they talk to girls in voice, or they don't know what to say when they pick up the voice, and the atmosphere is very awkward. Below, Xiaobian will talk to you about how to chat with girls by voice.
First, the mentality when talking to girls
Find a girl to talk to the voice, the result is nothing more than to talk to you, not to talk to you, and no matter what kind of result we can not control, it is impossible to predict in advance, so we must understand this kind of uncontrolled in terms of mentality.
When you chat, it may be: the state is not good, hang up quickly, or it may be: the state is very good, and you don't want to hang up.
After you talk, it may be: nothing; After the conversation, maybe: the relationship between her and you will change qualitatively
The above situations may occur, if each, whether good or bad, choose to accept, then will not be too concerned about the results, not to suffer from loss and loss, and the process of getting along with girls will be more comfortable and comfortable.
There are many brothers who never consider bad results, only want good results, this confidence is not wrong, but such behavior is trying to "control", bringing pressure to themselves is also putting pressure on girls, which will make getting along with girls become awkward and stiff, which is not conducive to the advancement of relationships.
You know, many things we subjectively can't control, like can't control you don't get sick, can only minimize not getting sick, can't control whether it rains tomorrow, can only achieve the preparation of umbrellas, so when talking to girls, we must maintain a "casual" attitude, give women a feeling of not being flustered, and the atmosphere is relaxed and more conducive to communication.
Second, the topic of speaking with girls
When it comes to the topic of opening a voice with a girl, it is really a lot of cattle feathers, you and the girl chat how to talk about the voice how to talk, to understand that the voice chat is not the important topic, but interaction!
Take the "dog abuse" section that often occurs in boys' dormitories in college:
M: I didn't expect we'd been talking for an hour and a half
F: Yeah, time flies so fast
M: I can't talk enough with you every day
F: Me too, but I'm a little sleepy
M: Let's go to sleep, baby
F: Go to sleep too, my dear
M: Then you kiss me and go to sleep
F: Okay, mommy
M: So do you kiss the left or right side of your face?
Found that no, their chat is not a substantive topic, the whole process is interactive, and simply chat for half an hour is no problem.
So when chatting with girls, be sure to interact more, here we can bring interaction from these topics:
1. Sound topic
And girls voice chat, naturally indispensable to the voice, this is the best to cut into the topic, and people are particularly concerned about their own things, here the voice can be chatted like this:
M: Oh, your voice, forehead, how there is a kind of .......(pause)
F: What's wrong?
M: There is a feeling that the voice does not match the appearance
2. Depict the picture
Voice calls, only listen to their voices, do not see their people, so with me guess you, the current state, is a very good topic with a sense of picture, such as:
I guess you're now, cross-legged, trimming your beard (exaggerated tone teasing her)
I guess you're now, brushing the vibrato and drooling while licking the screen
3. Ask the girl a question
If your relationship is not so deep, you can just call casually, then you can use a question to open the topic
However, be sure to implant some other information when asking this question, such as:
M: Suddenly I want to ask a question, how do you think you should reject each other when you are on a blind date
F: You want to go on a blind date?
M: Yeah, arranged by the family, embarrassed by thieves
The above three methods are just some of the opening topics, the purpose is not to voice through do not know what to talk about, the next or pay attention to interact with girls.