Have you found that some people around you are very powerful, that is, no matter what you do, there are rules, there are processes, there are deep thinking in it, and you feel that the other party can do a thing so well, which is the effect that ordinary people can't achieve, what are the factors behind this?
Some things may seem simple, but for this person who can do things, it is just a habit. It's like we see that some people are very self-disciplined, but these self-disciplined people say that they should just do this thing well every day, and they don't think that they are self-disciplined.
Is it self-discipline to get up every morning and brush our teeth and wash our faces? Is eating three meals a day self-discipline? It is not considered self-discipline, but it is taken for granted. When you feel that it is taken for granted, you will find a phenomenon: doing these things is not so difficult, but a simple and logical thing.
So after passing through such a scene, you will find that you should consciously do something that you should do every day, is there any effect on doing this? Are there any results? You don't need to think about it, you just need to perform one operation every day.
It seems to be an unconscious daily operation, but it is invisibly exercising your habits and training your self-discipline. What is a person's self-discipline? It's just that every day I can't move to do what others think is a very difficult thing. In this process, there is a word that we need to be aware of: awareness.
A person who is aware will quickly realize whether the actions he is manipulating at this moment are upward or depraved. If it is depraved, then you can ask yourself to stop immediately; if it is upward, it will increase your mental strength and rise again. Awareness can be said to be minute-by-minute awareness.
When we are able to perceive every second, we will be clear about many things, we will know what can be done and which things should be insisted on. For example, if I write now, I can write without writing, or I can write it until the evening. But when you drag it out until you find that you have other things to do, you will clash and cause huge fluctuations in your emotions.
If you are aware of it at this moment, how can you ask yourself to finish this text, and you must finish writing before you think about other things. Then at this moment, I will grit my teeth and finish this thing at the moment, and I must finish it, otherwise at the end of the day, nothing will be done.
People have to have the mind to accomplish things, but how to achieve things? How did it happen? What kind of progress and thinking can you bring to yourself after becoming a child? These problems need to be thought of by yourself, and if you don't think about them, you will encounter these problems later. Since sooner or later we will encounter these problems, what should we do? It is to be aware of yourself and solve your problems in the present moment.
When a person is aware, he begins to improve. Problems such as
A person who wants real change, no matter at any age, is OK, as long as he can perceive his own change, perceive that he is quietly changing, then he can be just around the corner.
Self-awareness requires more training on a regular basis. For example, if we do not improve or solve the problem on the road, then our state will not change, or even worse. After becoming aware, we begin to adjust our mindset and develop corresponding processes to change the current situation. Walking on the road, seeing a child crossing the road, then there will be awareness: crossing the road is easy to cause traffic accidents. So when the child crosses the road and asks him to stay, he can carry out the corresponding education.
Some people are aware that their academic qualifications do not matter, and some people are aware that their academic qualifications must be graduated from prestigious universities. But then again, the academic qualifications are very high and dazzling, and if you can't do the work, then the academic qualifications will not have much effect. We need to be aware of how much we are worth, so that we can match people of similar value to ourselves.