There are two things in the world that cannot be looked at directly: the sun and human nature.
Looking directly at the sun will burn your eyes.
Looking directly at human nature will sting your heart.
Confucius said, "At the beginning of man, nature is good. ”
Xun Zi said, "At the beginning of man, nature was inherently evil. ”
Who should we listen to?
In fact, they are all right, but the angle is different.
Just as a coin has both sides, without either side, the coin does not become a coin.
If there is light in the world, there can be no darkness. Because without the background of darkness, the greatness of light cannot be displayed.
There is no ugliness, where is the beauty?
Similarly, without the rejection of evil, where is the expectation of good?
Jealousy is the first human nature.
You can live well, but you can't live better than I do.
This is determined by man's animal nature and cannot be avoided by anyone.
We know that if there is only one crab in the basket, we need to cover it because it can easily climb out.
If there are two or more crabs in the basket, there is no need to cover the lid at all. Because when a crab wants to climb out, other crabs will pull it, drag it, and finally no one will want to climb out.
But if the crab has a little altruism, the result is completely different, and all the crabs can climb out.
The evil of human nature is like a crab.
We don't want others to be better off than we are, but we want to be better off than everyone else.
Just as Guo Degang said: Among peers, it is naked hatred.
In fact, the most difficult to see that you are better than him is not the people you don't know, but the people around you who are with you every day, because if you live better than them, they will appear to be inferior to you, and they will be bad and incompetent.
So it is often the people who make you stumble and stab you in the back, and it is often the people who know and understand you the most.
Because you won't be defensive, because only they know your weaknesses, know where the stab will hurt and pain you.
If you pluck your heart and lungs out at him today, be careful that tomorrow he will make you regret tearing your heart and lungs.
When you are useful to others, you will find that they instantly become respectful and kind.
When you are unfavorable to others, you will find the selfishness and ugliness of human nature.
When you block the financial path of others, others will tear off their masks in an instant, become violent, fierce, and even want to swallow you alive, hate and cannot kill you.
When you can bring benefits to others, they instantly become so warm, kind, and friendly.
When you are useless and penniless, others will not notice your presence at all, and will either dislike or dismiss you.
We ourselves are like a mirror that reflects all the goodness, the good, or the vile and ugly in human nature.
Therefore, the goodness or ugliness you see actually comes from your own strength.
If you want to see more kindness and beauty, try to improve your strength, so that others can expect something from you and be profitable.
Being needed by others is actually a kind of happiness.
Yan Whisper", using warm words, record the progress and growth of life.
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