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Child, every time you slack off in your studies, your parents will always spur you on and criticize you.
Maybe you feel very annoyed, or maybe you think that even if you don't read, you will be able to get ahead in the future.
But mom and dad want to tell you that when you are tired and don't want to read, don't give up and read these 6 sentences first.
Learning is definitely hard, and the whole world is the same
Do you know the recently particularly popular "Versailles Girl" Gu Ailing?
This all-round "hexagonal warrior" not only won the Winter Olympics championship, but also graduated from high school a year early with an all-A score and was admitted to the dream Stanford University.
Many people don't understand why a professional skier can become admitted to Stanford University.
Of course, talent is part of the reason, but more importantly, it is the spirit of hard-working and self-discipline.
Gu Ailing often uses the time in the car to study and write homework. Every summer, her mother would take her back to Beijing for intensive tuition.
This is a record circulating on the Internet that Gu Ailing took classes at an institution in Huangzhuang, Haidian, and arranged 5 cram classes in the summer of 2015 alone.
Children, you must know that there is no so-called genius in the world, and behind all the unlimited scenery of the school bully is the daily effort and self-discipline.
If you don't suffer from study, you have to eat the hardships of life
Remember that "white roll hero"?
More than ten years ago, a candidate named Xu Mengnan turned in a white paper on the college entrance examination. In his view, the current test-taking education does more harm than good, and he wants to express his silent resistance to the education system by handing over the white paper.
But later, how did this "white scroll hero" develop?
After graduating from high school, Xu Mengnan began a part-time career in a manufacturing plant in Shanghai, and later successively did e-commerce operations, becoming the most insignificant screw in this society.
Some of his classmates went to graduate school, some went abroad, some entered the system, and some became senior white-collar workers.
Due to insufficient academic qualifications, Xu Mengnan can only do the lowest-end work, and he regrets his impulsive decision more and more.
10 years later, Xu Mengnan took the 2018 college entrance examination and was finally admitted to the junior college.
Ten years later, this young man who was not more troublesome finally broke his head in front of reality and obediently returned to the road of reading.
How ironic!
If he hadn't been so naïve and naïve, he might have graduated from college and found a decent job. However, because he was so ambitious and did not measure up to his own strength, he wasted his precious youth in vain.
Parents who really love you, most of them are a bit "desperate"
There is a hot question on Zhihu: "Do you know what method you can use to make your child an unfortunate person?" ”
One of them replied, "Be obedient to him."
Indeed, the love of a parent's son will be far-reaching. Parents who really love their children are mostly a bit "desperate".
Child, maybe you think that your parents force you to read every day, it is too ruthless.
But you know, the reason why Mom and Dad do this is because too many people have seen it because they have no culture and no education, and they are running for three meals every day and struggling on the survival line.
On "Super Speaker", Zhang Xuefeng once said:
"Almost all Fortune 500 companies will tell you that academic qualifications don't matter. But they will only recruit in 985 schools, second- and third-rate schools, and they won't even step in. ”
A lot of the truth of life, those who do not really love you will not tell you at all, only your parents who break your bones will give you all about it.
Reading is hard, but this is already the best way for ordinary people to take. Studying well may not necessarily lead the future, but at least you can have a stable job and will not live a precarious life.
Parents seem ruthless, but they are afraid that you choose to be comfortable at the best age, but you have to make up for it with the second half of your life.
Anything that makes you cool will definitely make you miserable
Child, you are often dissatisfied with your parents' control of your mobile phone and playing games, but I want to tell you that everything that makes you cool in this world will definitely make you miserable in the future.
Ever heard of the "melon seed theory"?
In life, there is a strange phenomenon that once you start sniffing melon seeds, you can't stop. The whole person seemed to have been under a spell, and the hours of stumbling passed.
Why is that?
This is because it takes only a few seconds for a melon seed to come out and eat it. That is, it only takes a few seconds for you to get a positive reward. This instant feedback makes you happy, so you'll be addicted and keep stumbling.
This is why many people watch short videos, obviously a video is only one minute, but once they open it to watch, they will be addicted, and the result is a waste of time.
Therefore, it is very simple to abolish a person, so that he is trapped in the "melon seed theory" and cannot extricate himself.
These things that make you cool are quietly swallowing up your time and making you achieve nothing.
In fact, the big guys who have made great achievements on the Internet, such as Jobs, Bill Gates, and Williams, are very strict about how much time their children use electronics.
Because they know very well that improper use of electronic products can really ruin children.
Child, I know that as a minor, you sometimes can't control yourself very well.
Mom and Dad, as your guardians, should take on the responsibility of guardianship. Controlling the amount of time you spend with your phone is for fear of wasting your life at the best age.
You don't read, take what to fight the rich second generation
Zhihu once had such a question: "If you could turn back the clock, what would you choose to do?" ”
One of the answers impressed me:
The answerer said that he was still a bully in his freshman year of high school, and he was in the top five of the grade in each exam. From the second year of high school, I played with a group of small in the class, played games after school, slept in class, and soon the results plummeted.
Later, the college entrance examination score came out, and the respondent was only admitted to a private college. Due to his family's average background, his parents could not afford to let him go to school, and he came out to work after graduating from high school.
Now more than ten years have passed, because of the lack of education, he has not found a good job. On the other hand, those few small, because the family opened a factory, after graduation, they directly returned home to inherit the family business, and now they are mixed up.
The Lord replied, "I am so stupid! At that time, I always thought that others could play, why can't I play! But I didn't think that people's family property can eat for generations, and I compare what I take with others! ”
Boy, do you understand? All roads lead to Rome, but some people are born in Rome.
The world is inherently unfair, as a child of ordinary people, only by doing their best can they fly against the wind.
Although reading is hard, it is even more difficult for parents
Children, parents are also people who come over, and they know the hard work of reading.
I have so many classes a day, I have to spend hours writing homework when I get home, and I have to go to cram school on weekends.
To achieve a good result, you need to pay a lot and bear a lot of pressure.
Parents can understand this.
But hopefully you can also understand the parents, you are not easy, parents are not easy.
You study hard every day, and mom and dad have to work hard. You worry about your grades, mom and dad worry about your income.
When you get home, you have to write your homework, and mom and dad have to do housework to ensure your logistics. The newly listed meat dishes are picked and picked, thinking about how to supplement your nutrition; see if you learn too late at night, no matter how sleepy you are, you have to get up to help you make a cup of milk.
You have stress on the exam, and Mom and Dad will explain you. But Mom and Dad are under pressure, and who to tell.
As a parent, I always want to keep the strongest side to my children and the most vulnerable side to myself. Even if you have an emotional breakdown, hide out of your sight.
Child, when you complain about your hard work in school, I hope you can also see the efforts of your parents. Where you can see or can't see, your parents take care of everything for you.
And Mom and Dad say this to you, not to morally kidnap you, I hope you will repay us with excellent results.
We just want you to know that you are not alone on the road of learning, and your parents will always be your strong backing and closest comrades-in-arms. We will do our best to accompany you to cultivate together.
Children, life is a long road, and the road to learning is also very long.
Mom and Dad want you to know that the biggest regret in life is not "I can't", but "I could have".
Although reading is hard, you can't immediately monetize, but at some point in the future, you will be pleasantly surprised to find:
All the sweat you put in to study will eventually be rewarded.
Now you are at the best time of your life. I hope you can remember the above 6 sentences, grasp the moment well, and fight for your life!
Bless our baby, the future has a splendid future!
Author: Yue Yue, who loves to read and write, is an international commentator. This article is the original "Bi Read Good Book", a good book is as precious as Jasper! We aim to provide high-quality information on must-read good books to help everyone read good books! Welcome to follow.