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In a relationship, is there any love? Whether a man loves a woman or not, in fact, women know very well.
Because many times, love does not rely on men's actions, nor on men's words, but on the emergence of two people's feelings for each other.
A woman's feelings can judge whether a man loves you or not.
Because of men's love, many times they will not be directly confessed, but hidden in these details.
The relationship between people and people is pulled by fate, and people who can go all the way to the end of their lives show that they are the right fate of each other.
If the man comes and wants to leave, it can only mean that your fate has come to an end.
1. Men don't want to see you
When a man chases a woman, he wants the two to see each other every day.
No matter how tired he is after work, no matter how tired he is from work, he will take the initiative to come to meet you, then your meeting time is only a short 10 minutes, and he is willing to eat.
This is a man who loves you and has the greatest sincerity for you, because he loves you, he wants to meet you actively, because he loves you, he will come to see you from afar.
When a man does not love you, he will only meet you and cannot avoid it, because as long as he thinks of your face, he feels that his heart is loveless, and he feels that life is hopeless.
A man who won't take the initiative to pick you up again is really not willing to be with you anymore.
Because he is not willing to meet you, it already shows his attitude towards your feelings, when he loves you, he can't help but want to contact you, when he doesn't love you, he just wants to look at you from a distance, he feels that he is polluting his eyes.
Men are very direct in their feelings, he will only be willing to spend time and energy on the woman he loves, facing a woman he has not loved anymore, she will only get farther and farther away from you.
A man is not willing to take the initiative to meet you, it means that your fate is exhausted, and you have no possibility of being together again.
2. Stop talking to you
When a man loves you, he will have endless words to you, no matter the good things or bad things, no matter how big or small he wants to tell you, because he feels that everything about him you need to know.
If a man loves a woman, he will have a desire to share with women, if a man is unwilling to talk to you, he always keeps silent in front of you, he always holds the phone, you are obviously the closest relationship in the world, but it has become the strangest two people in the world, please believe that he no longer loves you, his feelings for you have changed.
The biggest helplessness of a woman in the relationship is that when he loves you, you do not cherish it well, and when he is young and active, you do not cherish it well, and when you put all your feelings into the response, the man chooses to leave in a dashing manner.
This man's lack of affection is only because the man's love for you has disappeared, because the human in the relationship will become.
No one will love anyone forever, no one will rule to be with you forever, he will only be with you when he loves you, and he will only choose not to leave when the fate is scattered.
Men don't feel that they can keep someone who doesn't love you, and women don't feel that they can save someone who no longer loves you, no matter how proactive you are to reduce your bust, whether you go to meet or keep him will not be kind to you.
The man realizes early on that your feelings really can't go back, that his love for you has long since disappeared, and that you're still doing the beast fight, that is, you have pushed yourself to a dead end.
3. Stop being gentle with you
The gentleness of a man will only give him the person who deserves it, the gentleness of a man will only give him the person he loves, and the patience of a man will only give him the woman he loves the most.
When he loves you, he will favor you, he will spoil you, he will indulge you.
When he is comfortable, he is willing to do those things that seem childish and boring for you, because you like it, so he is willing to do it for you, even if it is a waste of time, even if it seems extremely childish to others, he does not care.
Because he cares more about your feelings and your attitude than other people's evaluations and other people's words.
When a man is no longer gentle with women, when he is no longer patient with you, that is, when he no longer loves you, men's love always comes and goes fast, when he loves a woman, he will do his best to pursue, when he does not love a woman, he will also leave in style, will not stay.
If you feel that the man around you has changed his attitude towards you, no longer as gentle and patient with you as before, what you want to do, he is not willing to accompany you, what you want to say, he is impatient to listen, and he does not have any good looks for you, and even speaks ill of you, it means that your fate has really come to an end, and it is time for you to leave.
Two people start from love, but end because of each other's non-love, not because of your way of handling the problem, but the fate of your relationship to the end, so you only have to separate, because you are not the other's happy person, the right person.
Women should stay awake in their feelings, have their own consciousness and decisiveness, men have shown an impatient attitude towards you, are no longer willing to meet you, are not willing to talk to you, you do not need to make any changes and compromises for him, because he no longer loves you, even if you become another woman, he will not love you.
When you come to the end, you can only accept and accept, you can't decide who to stay, you can't decide who comes, all you can do is try to maintain your own peaceful state of mind and live your own life well.
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