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Huang Xiaojuan
Huang Xiaojuan is a famous performing artist, she was a regular guest of the Spring Festival Gala, whether it is a sketch or a film and television drama, she has brought many good works to the audience.
In 1990, after her sketch "Blind Date" with Zhao Benshan broke out, Huang Xiaojuan appeared on the Spring Festival Gala stage many times, and performed with Pan Changjiang, Fan Wei, Hou Yaohua, Guo Donglin and others, and her works are still regarded as classics.
Huang Xiaojuan has a low profile in her life, and she has entered thousands of households with her simple performance style, and has won the love and praise of the audience.
Huang Xiaojuan Zhao Benshan's sketch "I want to have a home"
But these glories were all bought by Huang Xiaojuan at the expense of accompanying her son and family, her heart always owed them, and the early death of her brother gave her a heavy blow, during which time she washed her face with tears every day...
01 Determination
Huang Xiaojuan has been an assertive girl since she was a child, and in the words of adults, "There are many ideas." ”
Huang Xiaojuan was born in March 1962 in Fuxin, Liaoning Province, to a father who was a coal mining engineer and a mother who was a people's teacher.
Huang Xiaojuan has a family of six people, there is a sister above, there is a younger brother and sister below, Huang Xiaojuan and her sister grew up in her grandfather's parents, but Huang Xiaojuan always feels that her grandmother loves her sister, and her grandfather spoils herself more.
However, after her grandfather's death, she felt that no one spoiled her, so she took it upon herself to gamble and switched to school, which shocked the whole family.
Of course, in addition to huang Xiaojuan's assertive personality, she has a certain talent in art since she was a child. As the second sister in the family, she is even more caring for her younger siblings.
Especially for her brother, she even reached the level of "doting", which is why her brother died later, which hit her so hard.
Huang Xiaojuan can sing and dance, and has aspired to be a literary and artistic soldier since she was a child, but she has experienced many storms when she was admitted to the literary troupe from school.
Huang Xiaojuan is not very pretty, but her appearance is atmospheric, coupled with a stubbornness in her bones and her height of one meter seven eight, people see that she is very impressed.
Early years Huang Xiaojuan
Huang Xiaojuan's own idea to apply for the Fuxin Municipal Cultural and Labor Troupe did not tell her family that she was almost not admitted because of her height.
Fortunately, her basic skills were solid and her performance in literary and artistic talents was outstanding, and she was successfully admitted to the literary and artistic troupe and became a member of the student class.
Huang Xiaojuan really carved her love of art into her bones, she is diligent and studious, not afraid of hardship, not afraid of tiredness, once in winter, because the day was too cold, she practiced late, and was punished by the teacher to stand up as a punishment.
Since then, Huang Xiaojuan has secretly vowed in her heart that in the future, she will have to get up early to practice hard, learn and master the quyi performance system, and lay a solid foundation and strength for her future quyi performance.
Kung Fu pays off, and Huang Xiaojuan's efforts have not been in vain.
Her efforts and grades were all in the eyes of the teachers, and they all thought that this little girl would definitely make a great achievement in the future.
Huang Xiaojuan did not live up to herself, nor did she live up to the expectations of her family and teachers, and after she made her debut on the Fuxin Literary and Art Stage, she was assigned to work in the Fuxin City Qu Art Troupe after graduation.
Later, she was transferred to the Liaoning People's Art Theater and officially became a two-person actor, realizing her literary and artistic dreams.
02 Fame
If Huang Xiaojuan's first noble person in life is herself, it is her own initiative and efforts to let herself enter the literary troupe and become a well-known actor in Fuxin.
Then the second nobleman in her life was Zhao Benshan.
During her time in school, Huang Xiaojuan often participated in various competitions because of excellent conditions in all aspects, and she would achieve good results every time, and Huang Xiaojuan's performance was deeply loved by the audience, including Zhao Benshan.
Huang Xiaojuan and Zhao Benshan's first cooperation was in "Mahjong Tofu" at the Spring Festival Gala in Liaoning, and after this skit was broadcast, Huang Xiaojuan's name entered the ears of every citizen in Liaoning.
Of course, good partners are mutual achievements, before "Blind Date", Zhao Benshan has been rejected four times by the Spring Festival Gala, if there is no Huang Xiaojuan's rescue this time, he is most likely to "stop cooking".
In 1988, Zhao Benshan was invited by CCTV to bring his sketch "Old and Young" to Beijing for censorship, but one of the choreographers felt that there were too many northeastern dialects in the work, considering that the southern audience could not understand it, it needed to be revised.
However, at that time, there were still a few days to celebrate the New Year, and it was too late to modify it, and Zhao Benshan had no chance to have a connection with the CCTV Spring Festival Gala.
In the second half of 1989, the crew of the 1990 CCTV Spring Festival Gala had been established, and the choreographers watched Zhao Benshan's "Old and Young", in which the lyrical style was in line with the positioning of the party.
However, did not find a suitable person to cooperate with Zhao Benshan, Song Dandan was pregnant at the time, Yue Hong was in confinement, Zhao Benshan personally took a car to find Zhao Lirong for two days and a night, she also had a big thing to get rid of.
Zhao Benshan remembered the last time he cooperated with Huang Xiaojuan, and collided with a good spark, and after repeated discussion, he finally decided to choose Huang Xiaojuan to cooperate with Zhao Benshan.
Huang Xiaojuan received the news, and starry night entered Beijing and began rehearsals.
For the sake of prudence, the program group directors decided to read it in the group before asking the superior leaders to review it, until everyone felt that it was feasible to pass it up, and then the leader felt that the name "Old and Young" was inappropriate, so it was changed to "Blind Date".
Huang Xiaojuan Pan Yangtze River stills
After several twists and turns, "Blind Date" finally successfully stepped onto the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, and Huang Xiaojuan and Zhao Benshan walked into the eyes of the national audience together and became a household name.
Huang Xiaojuan was on fire, at this time, another big comedy big man Pan Changjiang also took a fancy to Huang Xiaojuan, he took the initiative to find Huang Xiaojuan to talk about cooperation with her, he moved to know the reason, listed the advantages of the two partners.
Huang Xiaojuan was a little hesitant, because she was worried about the height difference between her and Pan Changjiang, Pan Changjiang did not think so, he felt that this was precisely the biggest "selling point" of the two, such a size difference is easier to remember.
In the Spring Festival Gala of 1991, Zhao Benshan and Yang Lei performed "Little Nine Old Music", and Huang Xiaojuan partnered with Pan Changjiang to perform "Crooked Play" at the Spring Festival Gala, and won the "Starlight Award" of Chinese television.
Pan Changjiang Huang Xiaojuan stills
In 1992, Huang Xiaojuan partnered with Zhao Benshan again to perform "I Want to Have a Home", unfortunately this was the last time the two worked together.
At that time, after the performance of "I Want to Have a Home", Huang Xiaojuan's simple image and the big eyes that captured life and expressed emotions completely touched the audience, and with "Blind Date" and "I Want to Have a Home", she has entered the hearts of hundreds of millions of viewers.
In 1993, Huang Xiaojuan partnered with Pan Changjiang again to play "Bridge", at that time, because of her bad voice, she was almost "killed" by CCTV after several tribulations, fortunately, the final effort was not in vain.
After that, Huang Xiaojuan partnered with Pan Changjiang many times, dedicated many classic works to the audience, and became a "regular guest of the Spring Festival Gala".
In addition to the creation of sketches, Huang Xiaojuan's film and television achievements cannot be ignored.
In dozens of film and television dramas such as "Peers", "Women As Officials", "Mother's Romance", "Northeast Love Story", "Women's Sky", "Father and Son Soldiers", etc., she has wonderful performances and is deeply loved by the audience.
In addition, Huang Xiaojuan also starred in and produced the movie "Tai Zhongli" and the TV series "Sticky Bean Bag" as a producer.
Huang Xiaojuan wears several positions, in addition to sketch actors, film and television actors, producers, she is also the head of a literary troupe, and in 2017, she was elected vice chairman of the Liaoning Provincial Federation of Literature and Literature.
03 Guilt
From decades of art, Huang Xiaojuan faces flowers and applause, she is low-key and unobtrusive;
In the face of difficulties and challenges, she forged ahead, forged ahead, and stepped towards the peak of her career step by step, becoming a veritable performing artist, looking like a boundless scenery.
However, only she knew that behind this glorious glory was a debt to her family, and the more they supported and understood her, the more she felt guilty.
Especially the son, she spent too little time with him, and later stifled his artistic dreams because of his arbitrariness.
Huang Xiaojuan with her parents and sisters, as well as her son and nephew
Huang Xiaojuan married early, her husband is an outsider, as for what she did, she has never made it public, and even less talked about it in public.
But what is certain is that he must be a considerate and generous man who understands his wife and supports her career so that she can pursue her ideals without scruples.
When Huang Xiaojuan first worked with Zhao Benshan, her son was less than half a year old, but he could not have both career and family, on the one hand, he was a child waiting to be fed, and on the other hand, he was the love she pursued all his life.
She finally endured the pain of separation from her child, participated in the rehearsal of the Spring Festival Gala program, and on the days of separation, because of the thought of her son, she wanted to give up several times.
In the end, reason triumphed over emotion, and her career was a huge success, her work became busier and busier, and she had less time to spend with her son's family.
In her son's childhood, Huang Xiaojuan was busy with work, often traveling for several months, and whenever she came home, her son did not recognize who she was and shouted "aunt" to her.
Every now and then, her heart rises a little sad, always thinking of being busy for a while, she must accompany her son well, but as she goes to the Spring Festival Gala more and more times, her fame is getting bigger and bigger, and she is getting busier and busier.
Every Spring Festival, her performance on stage brings joy to the national audience at the same time as the pain of her separation from her family, she can not be reunited with them, and her son thinks that she can only watch TV.
Huang Xiaojuan cherishes every moment with her son, but often the mother and son have just become acquainted, and she has to go out to work again.
Sometimes because the child's father also has to be busy with work, Huang Xiaojuan has to give her son to her sister or sister to help bring it, and once her son accidentally fell into the sewer because of naughtiness.
Huang Xiaojuan realized that this was very unsafe, and if something really happened, she would definitely regret it for the rest of her life.
So she made up her mind that no matter how busy she was, she would take her son with her, but she was always busy with work, which made her son feel that his mother did not love herself, only love work.
This also gradually caused a gap between mother and son, the older the son, the more he refused to say anything to her, because he knew that it was useless to say it, and his mother was always work-oriented.
Poor parents in the world, where is the mother who really loves work more than her son.
Huang Xiaojuan realized the change in her son, and she began to deliberately slow down the progress of her work and spend more time with her son.5
But what really brings the distance between mother and child closer is that her son had an experience of playing basketball and was injured, and her meticulous care and care for her son made her son feel her love, and it turned out that her mother loved herself.
This is also the first time that Huang Xiaojuan has felt closer to her son's heart, she was busy with work before, she didn't see how her son grew up, and suddenly he grew taller than himself.
After the mother-child relationship was closer, the son began to have a heart like the mother told.
Huang Xiaojuan is also happy to listen to her son, but there is one thing she regrets very much, she knows that her son has loved art since he was a child, and he also has a certain artistic talent, but he was stifled by her.
Huang Xiaojuan's son, like her, has loved art since he was a child, and when others teased him to be an actor when he grew up, he said firmly: "No, I want to be a director." ”
In the Liaoning Provincial Arts Examination, he achieved the first place in directing and the fourth in acting, but Huang Xiaojuan did not let him engage in art, she let him become a soldier.
Huang Xiaojuan has always felt that boys should become soldiers and temper in the army, which is of great benefit to his life.
Such a choice made Huang Xiaojuan regret for a lifetime, she did not regret letting him become a soldier, but affected his study, he failed to learn his favorite performance, nor could he learn directing, which became their lifelong regret.
Although the son occasionally revealed a kind of complaint about his mother, Huang Xiaojuan did not dare to talk to him deeply, but fortunately, in the end he could understand his mother, especially after he joined the work and became a father, he could understand his mother better.
Huang Xiaojuan took a photo with her parents and siblings
04 Grief
In addition to feeling sorry for her son, Huang Xiaojuan also feels deeply guilty about her parents.
When they were young, they were busy with their careers and neglected to accompany their parents, but they never complained.
No matter where she was, how much she was wronged, how high she flew, they always cared only about whether she was tired or not, they were proud and proud of her success, but they were more concerned about whether she was happy or not.
Over the years, she rarely had time to reunite with her parents on the first day of the Chinese New Year, and although their parents did not say anything, she knew that they definitely wanted to be with her.
The tree wants to be quiet and the wind is not stopping, and it is a pity that the child wants to raise and not to be kissed, but it is unbearable for the white-haired person to send the black-haired person.
Huang Xiaojuan's younger brother was suddenly diagnosed with liver cancer when she was in her forties, and it took only 44 days from illness to death, and in these forty days, Huang Xiaojuan lived like a year, that is, the brother she grew up watching, the younger brother she loved since childhood, he was still so young.
She did not dare to tell the news to her elderly parents, she was afraid that they would not be able to stand it, she looked at her brother in the hospital bed day by day, her heart was very painful, tears like water that had broken the floodgates, and she would come.
She couldn't bear the fact that her brother had left, and during that time she washed her face with tears all day, as if she had shed all the tears of her life.
The death of her brother dealt a heavy blow to Huang Xiaojuan, and she could not imagine how her parents would face it when they learned of this news.
In order to soothe their parents' emotions, Huang Xiaojuan and her sisters often take their parents on trips, and their family has a good tradition, that is, going out to play is always a family together.
Although their sisters have their own families, their feelings have always been very good, and they have to take time to go out together every year, to have a reunion dinner together, to take family portraits, which is a sense of ceremony and a kind of love.
Of course, they have not forgotten their deceased brother, every year Qingming will go to visit his grave, where there is good food and fun they will also read him, just as he never left.
Family portrait of the four generations
Looking back on Huang Xiaojuan's life, from the age of 14 to the literary troupe, she moved closer to her dream step by step, and stepped on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala when she was approaching the year of establishment, and became famous overnight.
Since then, she has been active on various stages, whether it is sketches or film and television works, she has brought many popular masterpieces to the audience.
Through her own efforts, she went from an unknown duo to an actress to a well-known and famous performing artist, and it was the support and understanding of her family that made her successful.
Bing Xin said: "A good family is the root of all happiness and strength. "Huang Xiaojuan's family is her strongest backing, the warmest harbor, and compared to her career achievements, her family is her greatest wealth."
Indeed, what could be more enviable than the deep affection of parents and children, the harmony of brothers and sisters, and the unity of heart and virtue between husband and wife?
Huang Xiaojuan is a real winner in life.