As the saying goes, "Blessing when you are young is not a blessing, but blessing when you are old is a blessing." ”
A hundred years of life is like a parabola, the first half of life is rising, and the second half of life is falling.
When you think you're rich, look at how old you are, and don't get too complacent.
Too many precocious people don't end well in life.
On the contrary, it is those who seem stupid, after years of change, who are able to become late bloomers.
Therefore, whether a person has a rich or noble life can not be seen until he is fifty years old.
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The wealth of the first half of his life is like walking on thin ice.
In the Western Han Dynasty, Liu Xin, the king of Dingtao Gong, unexpectedly won the throne.
During his reign, disasters were frequent, with riots in the capital and suburbs, and peasant uprisings in Longxi, Beidi, Xihe and other places. In order to stabilize the situation, suppress foreign relatives, and actively control the government, Shi Dan's "field restriction proposal" was adopted.
With a little effect, he couldn't bear the oppression of the powerful, and he himself was drunk and lustful, and died at the age of twenty-five. He was called the Emperor of Filial Piety.
In the Eastern Han Dynasty, several good emperors emerged, and Emperor Liu Zhao of the Han Dynasty was one of them.
Liu Zhao's biological mother was a Liang nobleman, and was later passed to Empress Zhang Dedou. It can be said that as soon as he was born, his life changed by changing his mother.
When he was a few years old, he ascended the throne and quickly ran to the top of his life.
Originally, he was going to obey Queen Dou and a group of old ministers. However, he united with Liu Qing and others to force some people who interfered in politics away, and he grasped real power at the age of 14.
Then, he recruited talented people to promote the development of arable land and people to live and work in peace and contentment.
Externally, he also actively dealt with the Xiongnu, Xiqiang, etc., the minister Cai Lun, and also improved papermaking, and the society was also stable. It is known as "Yongyuan Zhilong" in history.
But he only lived to be twenty-seven years old, and this wealth was not caught in the end.
I have seen a lot of rich and powerful people, as well as the rich second generation, who were full of vitality at the beginning and fought very hard, but they didn't last long and were defeated.
There is a very harsh saying: "Worry, money, life to earn, life to spend." ”
And he said, "The position can go up, but you can't go down." ”
Many people go very smoothly in the first half of their lives, and two bad phenomena have been formed: arrogance and extravagance, and desperate Saburo.
Arrogant and extravagant people think that they can get away with a few dollars. Since then, he has not wanted to make progress, or he is making money, but he cannot make ends meet.
I have to socialize every day, and I have to do a good job of sex, which costs money like running water, and the speed of this loser is amazing.
If you eat and drink too much, your willpower will be depressed, and your career will slowly decline or even regress in disguise.
If you are too arrogant, you may also do things that violate the law and discipline, which means that you will fall into a cage for the rest of your life and have a hard time.
Desperately Saburo, it seems that he continues to get rich, but it won't be long before his body can't bear it.
Nowadays, our average life expectancy is more than 70 years, but if you look around us carefully, you will find that many people leave forever at the age of forty or fifty.
Keep your money firmly in your own hands, but never spend it. It's going to make more money, so the desire comes again.
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The wealth in the second half of his life is like the sky.
In "University", it is said: "Things have a beginning and an end, and things have an end." If you know what to do, you will be short. ”
Everything in the world has always been there, and it is best to grasp the order of development and respect the law of its development.
The best life is bitter first and then sweet, and it is also a long stream.
Our pursuit of wealth is a long-term process, even a process of relay of several generations.
Fifty knows the destiny of heaven. Only when you reach the age of 50 can you still have a very good fate and a smooth family, that is, wealth is coming.
The son is filial to the father, and the heart is wide.
In the novel "Alive", Fugui likes to gamble, smoke, loses his family fortune, and his father is angry to death. As a father, the second half of his life is miserable, and the first half of his life is hard.
Therefore, at the age of fifty, we need to see what is the condition of our children and whether they are filial.
First, children have their own careers, don't worry about their parents, parents can breathe a sigh of relief, and the rest of their lives will be easier and easier.
Second, the children are married and have grandchildren, although the parents have to take care of the baby, which is very tired, but the sweat is a blessing.
Third, it is a great relief that children have inherited a good family style, know how to run a family, and can become the pillars of their parents when they are old.
There are few wives and husbands.
After the age of fifty, the husband and wife become wives.
The wealth of the rest of your life is not about money, but about whether you have a partner.
In the first half of his life, the husband and wife quarreled and divorced, but they were still together later. Looking at each other and smiling, grievances and grievances, don't care about it.
When the husband and wife retire, it is very pleasant to take care of the baby, go to distant places, see the scenery, and go to the countryside to farm.
With a beautiful relationship between husband and wife, you will find that all patience and weakness are not in vain. In front of your lover, take a step back and open the sky.
Physical safety is a blessing.
The world is big, the scenery is good, and the days are very moist, which is the life that many people look forward to in their old age.
But if you think about it, if you don't have a good body, it's hard to eat, it's unstable to walk, and it's impossible to see the scenery. How hard are these days?
If you go out in a million-dollar wheelchair and ask a nanny for 50,000 a month to accompany you, you are still not as good as the person who walks to see the scenery.
But anyone who has a long-term thinking will think about how to spend the second half of their life in middle age.
To put it simply, the rich life in the second half of his life was "premeditated" by himself.
Contribute to a pension and prepare for retirement; Manage your children well and encourage them to be independent; Give children a good three views and promote marriage; cherish your wife and accommodate it everywhere; Live a low-profile life so that the income can be retained. These are all ways to build a rich life.
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There is a proverb that says, "Forty is the old age of youth, and fifty is the adolescence of old age." ”
Don't think that you have no fate with wealth and wealth, and think that you are a person with a hard life.
Ask yourself if there is any action to create wealth, and whether there is a pattern of bitterness before sweetness.
Wealth is never about making a fortune suddenly and taking great luck, but about digging a well, with a trickle, and accumulating a lot.
Be still and follow the laws of life.
Don't enjoy comfort in the age of struggle; Don't encourage extravagance when you have money; Don't toss your body as you get older.
Wealth comes slowly, and it will take longer.
Author: Cloth Clothes Coarse Food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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