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Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

author:Moon Okuma

In 2008, Huang Xiaojuan received a call from her younger brother and hurried to the hospital, where her brother was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer.

44 days later, her brother died, and that time became the darkest moment in Huang Xiaojuan's life.

Soon after, her father died of grief.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

And his old partner Zhao Benshan has become an irreplaceable "Northeast Comedy King" in the eyes of the whole people, as well as a representative of CCTV's Spring Festival Gala sketches.

He also heard about Huang Xiaojuan's family......

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

In those years, Zhao Benshan's health has been not good, and he has already come up with the idea of letting his apprentice take over, and the person he praised is Xiao Shenyang, who became an instant hit in the Spring Festival Gala.

01.

In 1990, at the rehearsal site of the language category of the Spring Festival Gala, a sketch show urgently needed an actress on top, the male protagonist was Zhao Benshan, and the name of the sketch was "Blind Date".

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

Jiang Kun recommended the two to turn into actors Huang Xiaojuan.

In this way, Huang Xiaojuan entered the rehearsal hall with illness and partnered with Zhao Benshan for the first time. She plays an old lady, which is a huge challenge for her.

Because she has never played such a role, when she took over this role, Huang Xiaojuan was very apprehensive in her heart, and she was playing with Zhao Benshan, the sketch king, and his strength was beyond doubt.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

She had to do everything she could. Fortunately, she is a two-person actor, with strong stage performance, and during the rehearsal process, she can still catch Zhao Benshan's play.

But the accident still happened, just when the Spring Festival Gala was about to start, Huang Xiaojuan was sick, on the twenty-seventh day of the lunar month, her throat was already swollen undecently, the doctor asked her to rest, don't go on stage, Huang Xiaojuan resolutely refused, and asked the doctor to hang the bottle for herself, and hung the bottle for two days and two nights, and the situation was slightly better.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

On Chinese New Year's Eve, Huang Xiaojuan successfully took the stage and met with the national audience. As soon as she appeared, her relatives and friends in front of the TV were shocked.

She played the appearance of an old lady, she looked very old, but she was very vivid, and other audiences thought she was really an old lady, but in fact, Huang Xiaojuan was only 27 years old that year.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

In 1991, Huang Xiaojuan partnered with Pan Changjiang again and participated in the sketch "Crooked Fighting", she is no longer an old lady, but a beautiful girl, this "change" really did not let the audience see it.

At that time, she was called the "Goddess of the Spring Festival Gala" by the audience.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

After that, he partnered with Zhao Benshan on the stage of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala in 1993 and performed the sketch "I Want to Have a Home", which was hailed as one of Zhao Benshan's masterpieces.

Zhao Benshan and Huang Xiaojuan, the "golden CP", are all the rage.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

The audience has been expecting that Huang Xiaojuan and Zhao Benshan can continue to cooperate, but after 1993, the cooperation between the two came to an abrupt end.

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For so many years, the audience seems to rarely see Huang Xiaojuan appear on the big screen, in fact, in 2001, she was specially recruited into the army and became an actor in the Shenyang Military Region Advance Art Troupe.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

Later, she was promoted to the deputy head of the Advance Art Troupe, she did not give up the sketches, while acting in dramas, she still appeared on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala many times, and Pan Changjiang, Huang Hong, Sun Tao have all partnered, among which Pan Changjiang has partnered the most times.

Although she and Zhao Benshan are known as "Golden CP", in fact, in her Spring Festival Gala sketch career, Pan Changjiang is her best partner.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

With more performances on weekdays, her stage performance skills have become more and more profound.

Many viewers are very familiar with her, because Huang Xiaojuan has really participated in many film and television works, and the style span is particularly large, such as in 2006's "Wulin Gaiden", she even played a role, playing "Bai Cuiping" in it, but many people didn't pay attention to it.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

and co-starring Pan Changjiang in "Don't Take Bean Bags for Dry Food", which is also one of Huang Xiaojuan's masterpieces.

Huang Xiaojuan's acting strength is undoubted, and the characters are very expressive, whether it is a TV series or a sketch, it can surprise the audience.

The actors who have partnered with her all cast appreciative glances at Huang Xiaojuan.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

Achieving such achievements in her career also means that there may be regrets in other aspects, such as in family life, Huang Xiaojuan also has pain that she can't tell outsiders.

Huang Xiaojuan got married at a very early age, and at that time, she had not yet attended the Spring Festival Gala, nor was she popular, and her husband was an ordinary man outside the circle.

Originally, life was very peaceful, but after Huang Xiaojuan became famous, the peaceful life was slowly broken.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

Huang Xiaojuan began to work all day long, especially during the Chinese New Year, the family originally wanted to have a reunion dinner, but such a small wish could not be realized.

Huang Xiaojuan always owes something to her family.

When her son was young, she didn't stay by her side like other mothers, so that her son lacked maternal love and didn't experience the warmth of the family.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

So later, she tried not to go to the Spring Festival Gala, and acted in more dramas, two-person turns, or TV series, so that the time was better allocated.

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After entering the army art troupe, she slowly pushed down a lot of drama appointments, first, she felt that many roles were not suitable for her, and another point was that Huang Xiaojuan wanted to spend more time with her son.

During the time when her son was preparing for the college entrance examination, Huang Xiaojuan was always by her side.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

Huang Xiaojuan's biggest wish is to hope that her son can enter the army like herself, but her son inherited her acting talent.

And quietly went to take the exams of the acting school.

On the day the results came out, his son mysteriously called Huang Xiaojuan aside: "Mom, I'm going to take the acting test." Huang Xiaojuan was about to reprimand her son, but her son immediately told her about his achievements.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

Huang Xiaojuan was also very happy. It's just that from the bottom of her heart, she didn't want her son to take this road, after a few days of ideological struggle, Huang Xiaojuan still told her son what she thought in her heart, and her son also understood his mother very well, so he immediately gave up studying acting and was admitted to the military academy instead.

Huang Xiaojuan has said countless times in her heart: "Son, I hope you don't blame your mother, I am also for your good." ”

Later, the son learned that the reason why his mother didn't want him to learn acting as an actor was that he didn't want him to be like himself and had no time to spend with his family.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

This is Huang Xiaojuan's most unspeakable pain.

Because she has lost so much and doesn't want to continue to lose......

In 2006, Huang Xiaojuan's mother fell and fractured her bones and was rushed to the hospital.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

However, considering that Huang Mu has diabetes, surgery can only be performed after blood sugar is stable.

Huang Xiaojuan thought about it and was afraid that there would be an accident, so she took her mother to the Shenyang Military Region, and then took time out to take care of her mother, and has been silently by her side.

Huang Xiaojuan's parents are typical Chinese parents, hard-working, kind and simple, they are very good at thinking about their children, and what they are most afraid of is causing trouble to their children.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

Even Huang Xiaojuan always wants to give her parents a better life.

The accident didn't stop.

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In 2008, Huang Xiaojuan received a call that her younger brother was diagnosed with liver cancer in the hospital, and it was still in an advanced stage.

In the dead of night, when a person hides in a room, he dares to cry loudly.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

During that time, Huang Xiaojuan turned down all her work and ran around specifically for her younger brother, she asked all the major hospitals, and the answer she got was the same, her brother's situation was not optimistic.

Huang Xiaojuan begged the doctor that as long as she could cure her brother's illness, she would be willing to spend as much as it was, but the doctor shook her head helplessly......

They all hid it from their parents, after all, their parents were so old, and they were afraid that they would not be able to bear the bad news.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

One day, her mother came to Huang Xiaojuan, saw that her eyes were red, and had a premonition that something was wrong, so she hurriedly asked Huang Xiaojuan what was going on, Huang Xiaojuan finally couldn't help crying, and Huang's mother almost fainted when she heard it.

A month has passed, and Huang Xiaojuan's younger brother's physical condition has continued to deteriorate, and he even couldn't open his eyes for a while.

Huang Xiaojuan didn't dare to let her parents stay with her in the ward, so she had to let her parents go home and wait, taking care of her younger brother by herself, this pain is really indescribable.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

Forty-four days later, my brother was still killed by a merciless disease.

The death of his younger brother caused his parents' health to become worse and worse, because the blow was too great, Huang Xiaojuan's father also fell, and in 2009, Huang's father was seriously ill and died soon after.

Their family has lost two close relatives one after another, which is very sad for Huang Xiaojuan and her mother!

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

In order to make her mother less lonely, Huang Xiaojuan had to take her mother to live in Shenyang.

In those years, Huang Xiaojuan's work suddenly became busy, and she also thought about whether she would put down her work and concentrate on accompanying her mother?

But she was rejected by her mother, and repeatedly told Huang Xiaojuan not to lose her career for herself, work hard, and live well.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

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Huang Xiaojuan can only focus more on acting, hoping that her busy work can heal the pain in her heart.

Many viewers met Huang Xiaojuan around 2011.

However, no matter how busy she is at work, she will always find time to accompany the elderly to relax. At this time, his son is in his twenties and has already entered the army, and when he has holidays, he will go home to visit Huang Xiaojuan and his grandmother, and the family rarely gets together.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

This kind of slow time is a kind of enjoyment for Huang Xiaojuan.

In February 2021, when Huang Xiaojuan was 59 years old, her 85-year-old mother still left Huang Xiaojuan, because she was old and her mother was riddled with diseases.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

Huang Xiaojuan wanted to send her mother to a better hospital for treatment, but her mother refused, she said, as long as she can see you in the last time, it is enough, don't waste any more money.

Huang Xiaojuan listened to it and cried so much that she couldn't help herself.

On the hospital bed, Huang's mother explained the last few words, and then left.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

Huang Xiaojuan sent her mother away, a little depressed, she recalled that most of her life, experienced life and death, experienced wind and rain, and knew that the most beautiful thing is to be with her family.

At this time, she just wants to cherish happiness and do what she likes when she has time. Her dream is still the stage, and she has acted in many works in the past two years, including dramas, film and television works, sketches, etc.

Zhao Benshan's partner Huang Xiaojuan: I have experienced life and death, and I cherish my current happiness very much

She also often told her son that she had more time to come back to accompany her mother, there are always many accidents in life, and she hopes that we will not continue to face life and death.

When the son heard Huang Xiaojuan say this, he felt uncomfortable, and he would often go back to see his mother.

Many viewers saw Huang Xiaojuan's glory and aura in front of the stage, but they didn't know that there were so many bitterness and tears on her life path.

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