She has appeared on the Spring Festival Gala dozens of times and has become an unforgettable "Spring Festival Gala Regular" in people's hearts.
She has been competed by Pan Changjiang and Zhao Benshan, two major comedy giants, and her works are still regarded as classics.
She has been married in a low-key way for 37 years, her husband's identity is promising, and her son is a high-achieving military school student, which can be called a "winner in life".
In her brilliant life, she has the glory of her career, but there is also a debt to her family, her brother died at the age of forty, and her parents sent black haired people.
She is Huang Xiaojuan, the Northeast Lady who appeared on the Stage of the Spring Festival Gala on time.
In 1962, an ordinary intellectual's family in Liaoning ushered in the second little life of the family, and her parents gave her the simple and generous name of Huang Xiaojuan.
Huang Xiaojuan's father was a coal mining engineer and her mother was a people's teacher.
In that era, such a superior family environment allowed Huang Xiaojuan to eat and drink from an early age.
However, because the eldest sister lives in her grandmother's house, this means that Huang Xiaojuan, the second eldest, must assume the responsibility of the boss.
Her parents were very busy at work, so since she was a child, she was particularly sensible and took the initiative to take on the responsibility of taking care of her younger siblings.
But no matter how sensible she is, she is just a child.
When she was about six years old, one day she was sleeping with her sister in her arms as usual, and she saw her sister gradually closing her eyes, and she carefully placed her sister on the bed.
After her sister fell asleep, Huang Xiaojuan felt bored and decided to go to her mother.
So after she closed the door, she rushed to her mother's unit, and when her colleagues saw her, they called for her mother to come over.
When her mother saw Huang Xiaojuan, she did not have the slightest joy in her heart, all of them were anxious.
Because the second daughter came here alone, this means that the younger daughter is at home alone, so the younger child, if something happens, then what should she do?
Countless bad thoughts swirled in circles in her mind, but she did not blame Huang Xiaojuan fiercely, and she took her daughter back to the house on a bicycle.
Fortunately, after returning home, the little daughter was just crying and was not hurt, which made the mother breathe a sigh of relief.
Afterwards, her mother told Huang Xiaojuan about the seriousness of the matter, and Huang Xiaojuan also understood that this matter was something she had done wrong.
Since then, Huang Xiaojuan has been more attentive to her younger siblings, and even she herself has said that she is "doting" on her little brother and has a unique love for him.
Huang Xiaojuan's love, younger brothers and sisters naturally see in the eyes, after growing up, they also give back their care and love for their sisters.
Huang Xiaojuan has been able to sing and dance since she was a child, she can swing her body with different music, her parents have also discovered her hobbies, they did not interfere, giving her enough space for development.
So in 1976, when the Fuxin City Cultural and Labor Troupe was registering, 14-year-old Huang Xiaojuan was a little moved, but looking at the long queue, she flinched a little.
Her mother saw her hesitation and constantly encouraged Huang Xiaojuan to boldly try and not care about the result.
With the support of her mother, Huang Xiaojuan achieved good results and finally entered the student class.
In the past, she felt that actors were just free to express themselves, but after really understanding them, she found that the original actors also needed to learn various theoretical knowledge, and also needed systematic and professional training.
Huang Xiaojuan's dream since childhood was to stand on the stage and jump around, and now Huang Xiaojuan, who has realized her original dream, naturally refuses to let go of a little opportunity to learn.
She arrives in the classroom very early every day and immediately asks the teacher if she encounters knowledge points that she does not know.
Huang Xiaojuan's efforts were not in vain, and her serious attitude was seen by the teachers.
Soon she was transferred to the Grand Theatre of the Arts and officially became a duo-turn actor.
Her outstanding performance during her school years was recognized by many people, she often represented the theater to participate in provincial competitions, and achieved very good results.
Huang Xiaojuan's outstanding performance was seen by a person, who was a famous person in the comedy industry in the future - Zhao Benshan.
Zhao Benshan liked Huang Xiaojuan's performance style, and the two collaborated on the sketch "Mahjong Tofu" at the Liaoning Spring Festival Gala in 1989, which made Huang Xiaojuan burn all over the streets of Liaoning overnight.
This successful cooperation made Zhao Benshan more and more satisfied with Huang Xiaojuan.
On the eve of the Spring Festival Gala in 1990, Zhao Benshan was very busy with the script of the sketch, which was not recognized at first, and had the opportunity to be put on the stage after many revisions.
Originally, Zhao Benshan had no hope for the sketch "Blind Date", but with the excellent cooperation of Huang Xiaojuan and Zhao Benshan, this sketch has become a classic today, and has also laid the foundation for Zhao Benshan's status in the Spring Festival Gala.
Zhao Benshan knew that the success of the sketch was inseparable from Huang Xiaojuan's efforts, but not only Zhao Benshan saw it alone, but Pan Changjiang on the side was eager to try.
He assured Zhao Benshan that he would only cooperate with Huang Xiaojuan on one program, and immediately "return" Huang Xiaojuan after the cooperation, and Zhao Benshan saw that Huang Xiaojuan also agreed, so he did not say anything more.
In 1991, Pan Changjiang and Huang Xiaojuan's Spring Festival Gala sketch "Crooked Playing Straight" was very popular, and Zhao Benshan on the side was very envious, and agreed with Huang Xiaojuan that the two must cooperate again at next year's Spring Festival Gala, and Huang Xiaojuan gladly agreed.
In 1992, Zhao Benshan and Huang Xiaojuan cooperated in the sketch "I want to have a home" fire, the people of the whole country remembered this northeast big girl, at this time Pan Changjiang groped out a law, who and Huang Xiaojuan partnered, whose sketch can be a fire.
So he constantly persuaded Huang Xiaojuan to tell her: "Our height gap is large, and the effect of the sketch will be better." ”
Huang Xiaojuan listened to Pan Changjiang's words, and her heart also hesitated, and she agreed to Pan Changjiang after thinking about it.
But what should Zhao Benshan, the old partner here, do? This was a distressing thing, she was embarrassed to say it directly to Zhao Benshan, but said to him: "Brother, this may be the last time we will cooperate." ”
Zhao Benshan asked her with a surprised face why?
She said to Zhao Benshan: "I was admitted to Liaoning Culture University, and I want to continue my studies."
After hearing this, Zhao Benshan did not say anything, nor did he continue to forcibly retain Huang Xiaojuan.
Just when Zhao Benshan regretted that he had lost an excellent female partner, on the spring evening of 1993, Huang Xiaojuan stood proudly by Pan Changjiang's side, and in an instant Zhao Benshan understood everything.
Since then, the two have rarely communicated, and later Huang Xiaojuan was asked by reporters: "Did you turn against Zhao Benshan, and other female partners have cooperated with him in film and television dramas, why didn't you participate"?
Huang Xiaojuan did not explain too much, but said lightly: "Friends are quite busy, his (Zhao Benshan)'s enterprise is so big, film and television dramas are also continuously booming, I don't want to mix with it." ”
From Huang Xiaojuan's words, I can hear that there should be a story behind them, but what are the causes and consequences of the story? We don't know.
Huang Xiaojuan and Pan Changjiang's several cooperations are also classics, and in the following years, she appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala on time and became a "regular guest of the Spring Festival Gala" in everyone's mind.
In addition to the big stage of the Spring Festival Gala, Huang Xiaojuan was specially recruited into the army in 2001, participated in many literary and art performances, and in 2014, with her outstanding performance, became the leader of a certain literary and labor troupe, and in 2017, she directly became an important leader of the Liaoning Federation of Literature and Literature.
She had no background to rely on along the way, and the only thing she could rely on was her own sweat.
Outsiders only saw Huang Xiaojuan's scenery and achievements, but ignored her hard work.
She confessed in her own interview program that she was most sorry for her son and parents in recent years.
She had been married in the early years and had given birth to a lovely son, but when the child was five months old, Huang Xiaojuan was invited to participate in the Spring Festival Gala in Liaoning.
She was desperate to leave her children, but she also had her own career, and during those two months, her sweat and tears coexisted, and several times she wanted to leave the stage and go home to see the children.
But under the repeated persuasion of the director and the comfort of her peers, Huang Xiaojuan finally persevered and achieved her own career.
When the child was about one year old, Huang Xiaojuan followed the Liaoning delegation to Japan to participate in the Mt. Fuji International Youth Drama Festival, and Huang Xiaojuan did not have half a heart to appreciate the beautiful scenery during her journey.
She just wanted to rush home at the moment, and when she got home, she rushed home, and when she got home, her son looked at her and called her "aunt" and completely forgot about her.
Huang Xiaojuan, who realized this, began to cry when she held the child, she understood that she owed her son too much, but she had her own life, and she did not want to sacrifice everything for her son.
Parents in the world love their children are the same, Huang Xiaojuan's son often got sick when he was a child, and every time he hit the hanging bottle, he watched the needle penetrate the child's blood vessels, and the child cried because of the pain.
Her heart was pounding, and she was willing to take the place of her son if she could.
But she couldn't, she could only watch her son suffer.
What pained her most was that as soon as her child's illness improved, she had to go out to work and not see her son for a long time.
Huang Xiaojuan, who can't often accompany her son, can only communicate with her son through the phone, but how can a cold phone call convey her hot love for her son?
She deeply regrets her son's growth, Huang Xiaojuan wants to cook a delicious meal for her son, sit next to him and talk about home, but now she can't even do the simplest things.
When her son entered high school, Huang Xiaojuan felt that if she missed her son's growth again, she would definitely regret it for the rest of her life.
So in those three years, she pushed off a lot of work and concentrated on accompanying her son.
She would often cook to improve her son's food, and she would also pick up her son for cram school on weekends, and in this bit by bit, their relationship became better and better.
But after all, there has been no emotional exchange for many years, and freezing three feet is not a cold day, and she is destined to have a layer of estrangement between her and her son.
But Huang Xiaojuan still feels very happy, she can accompany her son, care about his son's bit by bit, this is the first time she feels that she is a real mother.
Huang Xiaojuan's son is quite talented in acting, and when he took the Liaoning Provincial Arts Examination, he achieved the first place in directing and the fourth in performance.
Such good grades are enough to allow him to enter a good university for further study, and then graduate with a mother relationship, I believe that his future is very good.
But Huang Xiaojuan did not let her son take this road, but sent her son to the military school, in her impression, boys should go to the army to exercise, this is an unforgettable experience, has a great help for his future life.
Huang Xiaojuan's decision made her son lose touch with his favorite performance.
After several years, Huang Xiaojuan recalled this incident and said that she regretted it very much, not that she regretted sending her son to a military school, but regretted that she did not let her son learn a favorite major.
If his son had studied acting, he would have been a good actor today.
But now her son is very satisfied with his profession, which makes Huang Xiaojuan less regretful.
The relationship between mother and son was really alleviated during his son's graduate school years.
Once, when his son accidentally injured his wrist while playing basketball, he did not go to the school hospital for the first time, but chose to call his mother Huang Xiaojuan.
After Huang Xiaojuan heard her son calmly say that she was injured, she immediately rushed to the school, and without saying a word, she first sent her son to the hospital around the school for treatment.
But the doctor in this small clinic did not have much experience, so he could only say vaguely: "It seems to be a broken bone."
Hearing his hesitant voice, Huang Xiaojuan was very angry, thinking that this would delay the child's treatment.
Huang Xiaojuan, who was impatient, immediately took her son to the big hospital and did a regular examination, and when the doctor said that everything was normal, Huang Xiaojuan was relieved.
When the son saw his mother busy for himself, he seemed relieved at that moment.
From a young age, he felt that his mother did not love himself, always far away from himself, and when other children could enjoy the close care of their parents, he could only communicate with his parents by phone.
The various things of his childhood made him very incomprehensible to his parents, but today he seems to understand his mother.
The mother was either born her own mother, she had her own career, she had her own dreams, she was not the only one of him, but she was the one she loved the most.
After learning about the history of her mother's fame over the years, Huang Xiaojuan's son's attitude is more to admire and respect his mother.
Today, he and his mother have nothing to say, not so much mother and son as friends.
Now that he already has his own wife and children, Huang Xiaojuan has her own experience in the face of intergenerational education.
There must be a so-called generation gap between the two generations, especially with regard to grandchildren, whether it is the problem of eating or dressing, there will be contradictions between each other.
Huang Xiaojuan's approach is very wise, she never mixes with her grandson's education, because she knows that the more she mixes, the more contradictions in the family will be.
Moreover, her daughter-in-law is smart and capable, she believes that her daughter-in-law can handle everything well, and this trust is also their long-term understanding of each other.
Learn to let go of your children, they have their own lives, they should learn to grow.
In addition to feeling sorry for her son, Huang Xiaojuan also feels guilty about her parents.
When she was young, after the Spring Festival Gala every year, there was no fast transportation at all, and she could only ride the rickety green-skinned train home.
After arriving home, Huang Xiaojuan felt very warm, this kind of warmth is incomparable to anything, but over the years, she rarely reunited with her parents on the New Year's Day.
Coupled with the reasons for her own work, she did not have much time to accompany her parents, although they did not say anything on their lips, but Huang Xiaojuan knew that they must want to accompany them in their hearts.
Over the years, Huang Xiaojuan has experienced ups and downs, but what makes her feel most sad is the death of her brother.
I grew up watching my brother grow up, and my brother has always been a well-behaved child who never let himself worry.
But things are uncertain, and when my brother was in his forties, he was diagnosed with cirrhosis, which was undoubtedly bad news for Huang Xiaojuan. she
In order to take care of the emotions of their elderly parents, the sisters did not tell their parents about this bad news for the time being.
Huang Xiaojuan took care of her brother day and night, but fate still did not spare this young life, from illness to only 44 days away.
In these 44 days, Huang Xiaojuan watched her beloved brother leave, which was the biggest blow in her life.
People have always called Huang Xiaojuan "tap water", which means that there are many tears, just like water can easily flow down.
But after experiencing this incident, Huang Xiaojuan could no longer shed tears as easily as before, and for her, she had already shed her tears in those 44 days.
After the death of her brother, the Huang Xiaojuan sisters would often take them out on a trip in order to take care of their parents' emotions, but no one could forget the death of their relatives.
Every year during the Qingming Festival, Huang Xiaojuan would sweep the grave of her brother, looking at the small tombstone, Huang Xiaojuan's tears flowed unconsciously and said: "The second sister misses you."
After experiencing the great changes in her life, Huang Xiaojuan has a new perspective on "life", no matter how much glory and wealth there is, it is not as good as her family's health and health.
Huang Xiaojuan, who has been married for 37 years, has a high profile for marriage and family, and many people say that Huang Xiaojuan's husband is not small and is a big person, but under the divergence of opinions, Huang Xiaojuan has never tried to open the family.
Perhaps for her, her family is a precious private property, and she hopes that her family can live their lives freely away from the media.
Today's Huang Xiaojuan, with her own happy family, will often appear at the Spring Festival Gala to bring laughter to everyone.
Although her life has many regrets and guilt, it is definitely a wonderful life.