The really beautiful feeling is that two people together can accompany each other, talk to each other, and be willing to be a beacon to illuminate each other.
Love is the joy that cannot be hidden, the fireworks that bloom in the night, the endless thoughts, the surging tenderness.
If a middle-aged man really likes you, he will usually show a particularly generous and generous side, never being calculating, nitpicking, and never being unreasonable and unreasonable to you.
If you realize that a middle-aged man is constantly putting pressure on you, leaving you at a loss and nowhere to hide in a relationship, your heart is full of uneasiness and anxiety, indicating that the relationship is not for you.
Judging whether a middle-aged man really likes and cares about you, it is very important to say whether he can fully tolerate and respect you, and whether he is willing to maintain good communication and intimate interaction with you.
If he is too cold and selfish to you, neither to tolerate your shortcomings and deficiencies, nor to help you at a critical moment, there is no need to be deeply in love with him.
In general, a middle-aged man who genuinely likes you usually doesn't care about these details.
1, will not care about your shortcomings
No one is perfect, and everyone will have shortcomings and deficiencies of one kind or another.
If he always stares at your shortcomings and refuses to fully accept and tolerate your shortcomings and disadvantages, it means that he may not like and care about you so much.
If a person behaves too perfectly in front of you, it means that he may not be real enough, and he does not trust you enough.
People with shortcomings live more really and intimately, so that people have no sense of distance.
If he is completely intolerant and accepting of your shortcomings and refuses to grow and progress with you, it means that he may not love you so much.
The reason why we are willing to show our weaknesses or weaknesses to a person is because we trust and rely on each other enough that we can feel endless power from a person.
Life is the process of constantly wrestling with our own shortcomings, and it is precisely because we are not perfect enough that we are eager to make progress and want to make up for our shortcomings through hard work.
Middle-aged men who truly love you deeply will usually give you more patience and tolerance, and are willing to spend time with you to grow and transform.
Even if you have not been able to correct the shortcomings, you still have many deficiencies, for example, considering the problem is not thorough and meticulous, careless, not decisive enough, lack of assertiveness, speak too bluntly, easy to offend people, he will not care about your shortcomings and deficiencies, but has always looked at you with an appreciative eye.
Only a middle-aged man who really likes you will not care about your shortcomings, and will always inspire and motivate you, so that you can freely do what you like to do.
2, will not care about gossip
If a middle-aged man really likes you, he will not care about gossip, and will not care too much about the evaluation and opinions of others.
Even if everyone is not optimistic about your love, he will still hold your hand and accompany you to the ends of the earth.
Because he is truly in love with you, his love and sincerity for you can withstand the test of time and the baptism of time.
If he cares too much about the eyes of others, preferring to believe what others say rather than believe what you say, it means that he may not really like you.
We really don't have to care too much about other people's opinions, we don't have to live in other people's eyes.
How to go in our lives should be decided by ourselves, not at the mercy of others.
The opinions of others can be referred to or borrowed, but there is no need to copy them.
Of course, it is better to speak against the ear than to do it. In the face of pertinent opinions or suggestions put forward by others, we must accept them with an open mind and listen carefully.
In the face of sincere praise and warm encouragement from others, we must give warm feedback and be grateful.
If someone maliciously slanders your feelings or points fingers at your life, then you can ignore it.
Therefore, when you find that a middle-aged man never cares about the so-called gossip, nor does he care too much about negative evaluations, always full of hope and expectation for the future, willing to hold your hand and go all the way, it shows that he really likes you.
3, will not care about the momentary gains and losses
Life is like the sea, full of ups and downs, always in constant change.
If a middle-aged man really likes you, he will not care about temporary gains and losses, but know how to empathize and give you more room for development.
When a middle-aged man is too short-sighted, only considers personal interests in everything, and never cares about your feelings, it shows that he does not have you in his heart at all.
Don't be too heavy on gaining and losing your heart, and look down on everything and look farther away.
If a person is always staring at the little things in front of him, his heart is too narrow-minded, his vision is too short-sighted, such a person does not have much of a show, nor can he toss out any new tricks.
Feelings cannot withstand repeated calculations.
If a middle-aged man is too shrewd in his feelings, carefully selected everywhere, weighing the pros and cons of everything, and afraid of losing money, it means that he does not really like you.
To judge whether a middle-aged man really likes you, it depends on whether he cares about temporary gains and losses.
If he really loves you, he will look down on gains and losses, and even in order to achieve your happiness, he may take the initiative to sacrifice personal interests.
For a middle-aged man who really likes you, as long as he can make you live a happy and beautiful life, no matter what he pays, he has no complaints and does not think about gains and losses at all.
If you want to get something for nothing in your emotional life, it is difficult to really touch a person's heart.
Love is mutual sacrifice, mutual fulfillment, mutual forbearance, mutual giving.
If he is willing to act as a green leaf in his feelings and set off your beautiful posture, it shows that he really likes you.
In short, if a middle-aged man really likes you, he will not care too much about gains and losses, nor will he calculate wins and losses with you, but will be extremely tolerant and tolerant of you.
Because he really likes you, he would rather suffer losses and suffer by himself than let you be wronged in your feelings.
Everyone has their own positioning in emotional life, learn to work hard to correct their position in emotional life, play every seemingly inconspicuous small role, do not care about temporary gains and losses, look at the long term, a little broad-minded, you will get more happiness and ease.
If he is full of calculations towards you, never willing to take the initiative to give in, forcing you to nowhere to go, then there is a good chance that he has completely let go of you in his heart.
The more you really like your middle-aged man, the more you will not see death and not save you.
Once you notice that a middle-aged man is starting to gradually alienate and snub you, becoming more and more selfish and stingy, always arguing with you for a little small matter, making a big fuss, you should be soberly aware that he may not like and care about you so much, and you can also be dead to him early.