Coordinates Hangzhou Xiaoshan, Ms. Shen came to Hangzhou to work for more than ten years, 42-year-old she was still working the day before the birth, the day of delivery the nurse looked at her Keling, gave her three pieces of bread, that is, the day's rations.
The reason why she is in such an embarrassing situation is because her husband has been ill for a long time and has raised a pair of children in his hometown.
Seeing such news, I was a little numb, and I only felt that there was a reason why many people had a bad life.
Ms. Shen was miserable, of course, and then, who made her put herself in such a situation, of course, she herself.
The reason why Ms. Shen's incident alarmed the police was because Ms. Shen went back to get some daily necessities the next day after giving birth, but she did not return.
So the hospital called the police, and the public security personnel went to her rental house to find Ms. Shen.
At this time, Ms. Shen had an emotional breakdown and wanted to give up several times, she said that her own eating was a problem, and she did not dare to imagine her future life.
Considering that Ms. Shen's conditions are indeed miserable, people from all walks of life have donated their love, for which Ms. Shen is very grateful.
The process of things is like this, with the support of the society and the care of caring people, Ms. Shen regained her confidence, and the current level is over.
But in the future, there are still thousands of days for the growth of the three children, and the days are still very sad.
01 If you don't solve the problem, the problem will solve you
Sensible people will find it very incomprehensible why they have a pair of children and have three children.
If the conditions are good, the problem is that the family is already having a hard time, the husband is not in good health, in this case, why are there still three births.
Mourn his misfortune, and say nothing in dispute with him.
It is not surprising if one is always thinking about things and living a confused life.
I tend to speculate that Ms. Shen's re-pregnancy was just an accident, and she didn't want three children at first.
After she was pregnant, she was also very troubled and wanted to beat up the child, but it also cost a sum of money to beat the child!
So she dragged, dragged, and was not good at making decisions, and let the child grow up in her belly day by day.
Until the day before giving birth, she was not fully prepared to accept the child, she knew her situation clearly, there was no money, no one to take care of her, she could not be prepared at all.
Finally waiting for the birth, the arrival of the child, so that she had to face this series of problems, she collapsed, did not know what to do.
Life is like this, if you don't solve the problem, the problem will solve you.
If you choose to escape, one day, all the problems will follow and will crush you.
Ms. Shen only felt that the days were sad, but she did not think about coming to this step, which was completely the result of her own self-directing and self-acting.
02 People like Ms. Shen are the most able to endure the hardships of life
People like Ms. Shen, do they have any advantages, and they can endure the hardships of life to the greatest extent.
This is also an excellent quality that many women in China have, tenacity and indomitability, and life cannot defeat her.
Ms. Shen did collapse, but if you can imagine the style of the obstetrics and gynecology department of the hospital, you can understand it.
The other female births were all two families on horseback, carefully waiting, taking good care of, and cooking properly, while Ms. Shen did not even eat a bite.
How the mood should be.
This is particularly evident in the working women at the bottom, remember the mother who carries a large backpack, a backpack in one hand, a baby in the other, and the child in her arms sleeps peacefully, her resolute eyes are not afraid of the hardships of life.
I think it's a rare quality.
Countless ordinary men and women, it is precisely because of this indomitable spirit that they have lived their little lives in full swing.
Ms. Shen has worked in Hangzhou for more than ten years, and she does not lack the spirit of hard-working and hard-working, and she has a bad life, mainly because she is not good at macro control of her life.
A person living in the world, to be responsible for himself, should have a plan for his own life, what things should be done, what should not be done.
03 If you want to have a happy life, you must try to avoid the unfortunate factor
For Ms. Shen, being pregnant with three children is an unfortunate factor that affects their lives.
Life is already very difficult, we should not let such things happen, we must avoid this possibility from the source.
She herself is not small, the third child is harmful to her, and it is not easy to raise three children to grow up.
The same is true in life.
For most people, all they want is to run a small home and live a comfortable, simple, and down-to-earth life.
In fact, if we go to school, work, get married, and have children step by step, we can live a smooth life.
But it's hard to follow the steps, for example, we all know that cheating affects family life.
But many people still cheat, and it is not uncommon to knowingly commit crimes.
The reason is that people's desires will never be satisfied, and many people really have a stable little home, and their minds have changed again.
To put it bluntly, it is difficult for people to settle for the status quo, and once they have it, they will lose most of their interest.
That's why there are a lot of life.
Therefore, a truly happy family is also rare, with the awareness to avoid misfortune, but also the ability to be willing to be ordinary and keep the ordinary.
Text/Song Qian
Be true to yourself and love life