Text/Wei Chen
Forgetting is never easy.
People are always more willing to remember the beauty of the past. Under the filter of time, some scars will be slowly forgotten, but some people's figures cannot be erased no matter what.
Life should be a process of constant subtraction. If you always carry a heavy burden along the way, then the road of life will only go more and more sad.
We have to experience too many unsatisfactory things in this life, if we always remember and cherish it, it will be difficult to feel love for the rest of our lives.
Writer Lin Xi said: "Learn to follow fate, in order to be happy when you are happy." If it cannot be recovered, it must be stopped. Live happily, rely on your own hands, but also rely on your own heart. ”
Nothing in this world can be sought, and we can only live calmly if we go with the flow.
To let go is not to be confused in the heart, not to be trapped in feelings, not to fear the future, not to think about the past.
Only when people see through everything, they will not have too high expectations for life, and they will not be angry about a small matter.
Some people are just passers-by and are destined to accompany them for a short time, so don't be too entangled and not too persistent.
Only by learning to let go can people regain a new life.
One day you will understand that encounters are only accidental, and separation is inevitable. Some people can't stay no matter how tightly you grasp it.
If you can't keep up with the pace, don't follow anymore, as long as you are willing to look back, you can always meet the person who is full of you.
In this world, no one can take away what belongs to you, and it is useless to force what does not belong to you.
Don't be heartbroken for the fate that doesn't belong to you, since the end is already doomed, why don't you want to accept it, adding to the pain.
The relieved person lives the most freely. Because there is nothing that cannot be relinquished, it is not necessary to lose oneself.
Since some people can't stay together until they are white, it is better to let him go as soon as possible.
The best way to forget a person is to keep yourself from caring.
Maybe you have already discovered that the more you want to forget the things, the more you can't forget, but those things that you don't deliberately forget have dissipated with time.
For the bad past, there is no need to hold a special forgetting ceremony, and the real discard is always silent.
In fact, life is like a hard disk, as long as you continue to store new things, the old memories of the past will naturally disappear.
Life is never perfect, and happiness is not full of points. Be kind to yourself, look down on the time, and usher in the nature of the sunshine.
As a person, you must learn to let go. Everyone has a comparison mentality, but comparing never brings happiness.
As the saying goes, you can't ask for more than you want, and people can't live than people.
If one is always living in comparison, one will gradually lose oneself.
You know, everyone has their own strengths, and this life of a person is unique.
Let yourself be quiet when you are not happy, let your thoughts stop when you want to complain, and when you find that not all the faults are in others, you will not feel how unfair the world is to you.
People must know how to reflect on themselves, not always live in dreams, nor can they always think about realistic scenes.
After learning to mature, we also learn to let go, and those who have love in their hearts will see the world full of love.
Letting go of others is actually letting go of yourself.
Everyone's growth cannot be completely painless, and when the balance of giving and returning cannot be achieved, don't just feel that you have been disappointed, but also calm down and think about what caused the ending scene.
Only when people have experienced a lot of time can they truly understand the meaning of "good gathering and good dispersion", whether it is to foam at each other or forget each other, it is a helpless act of being forced by reality.
There is nothing wrong between the two people who are separated in the end, the wrong thing is that the timing is not right, and the wrong thing is that the feelings are too thin.
All the turmoil in a person's heart is because he will not be indifferent to the world.
Life is your own, you don't have to be greedy, you don't have to be demanding, you don't have to suppress, you don't have to complain.
Everyone has their own unique beauty, let go of those inappropriate fates, a free life has a soul.
When a person lives for a lifetime, the only thing he can control is his own feelings. Instead of asking others, it is better to discipline yourself.
Life is short and you don't have to be entangled. Choose to be relieved and relaxed.
No one can draw conclusions about the things of this world, and change is the characteristic of life.
For the rest of your life, be a free person, not entangled, not extravagant, not drilling the tip of the bull's horn.
Some people forget some things, if you really can't forget them, please laugh.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip] It is very easy to meet the author.
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.