How can chasing girls get less sweet words? But many boys because of their stupid mouth, even if they are ready for these sweet words, they do not know how to express them, and it is naturally difficult to get the good feelings of girls and it is difficult to catch up with girls. Is that stupid boy really doomed to a lonely life?
Of course not, the following Xiaobian will teach you stupid boys some skills that can make girls can't help but like you.
First, chat to avoid mistakes
Many stupid boys just know a girl, and have not yet established a sense of familiarity, they want to establish attraction, and then because they do not have much to chat, they are disliked by girls, and even cold treatment.
Since the mouth is stupid, when we first meet a girl, what we have to do when we chat is to try to avoid mistakes, rather than expecting to attract girls through unskilled chats and make girls interested, which is a point that many people tend to ignore.
After all, only by first making the girl not hate you can the chat continue.
How can a stupid boy and girl avoid making mistakes when chatting?
1, do not ask girls questions continuously
Many boys can't help but ask east and west when they just add girls' friends, hoping to get to know girls soon. Although it cannot be said that it is wrong to ask questions, because of the stupid mouth and no certain skills, it leads to asking questions all the time, and finally gives girls a feeling of being interrogated. You know, the problem itself is relatively monotonous and boring, it is difficult to mobilize the emotions of girls, making people feel bored and boring, and it is difficult to chat.
2, do not show too much or too early value
In front of the girls we like, we will inevitably have the urge to express ourselves, which is nature, but if we do not grasp the scale, do not have certain skills, too much or too early to show their high value to the girls, then it will only be treated by the girls as if you are showing off. So as a stupid boy, don't show too much or too early value.
Second, what should girls talk about when they are stupid
Chatting is always a stumbling block for stupid boys on the road to chasing girls.
In fact, chatting, like falling in love, needs to be maintained by both parties. So if you only rely on a stupid mouth, you are likely to turn the chat into a one-man show, like a speech, there is no substantive interaction. Not only is it difficult to bring the girl an emotional experience, but it also makes the whole chat boring and boring.
So, since we are stupid, since we will not sweetly talk to please girls, then we can only make girls interested in you, interested in chatting with you.
After all, only when girls are interested in you, they will be interested in your chat, will let the chat have interaction, so as not to chat and chat to make girls hate. Of course, in the early stage of acquaintance, girls will not easily express good feelings for a person, so they need to pass certain skills.
Third, how to make girls interested
When there is a certain degree of familiarity with girls, the key to making girls interested is attraction.
And money and looks are the most basic attractions of men, but not everyone has money and looks handsome, so, as a stupid boy, if you want to make girls interested, what we can do is: do the best under the conditions that we can!
For example, look, try to dress yourself clean and fresh, so that as soon as you meet a girl, she will look disgusted.
About money, it is a more sensitive topic, but also around the topic of people's lives, after all, money determines our quality of life.
For girls, they also hope that their lives will be rich, find a rich husband, and have no worries about food and clothing, but many people will take food and clothing as a "rich" life.
Especially seeing a girl marry into a rich family, not believing in true love but also scolding people for worshiping gold, in fact, it reveals the powerlessness of men when they chase women.
What girls want to "have no worries about food and clothing" is a monthly income of millions? Ten million a month? Or even more?
None of this is true, because different girls have different definitions of "food and clothing"!
A girl who has entered more than 10,000 yuan a month, her mate selection criteria are definitely more than 10,000;
A girl who earns five thousand a month, her mate selection criteria must also be more than five thousand;
A girl who earns three thousand a month, her mate selection standard is definitely more than three thousand; 、
Most girls, for the other half of the requirements, must match their own economic value or higher than their own.
Of course, there will also be people who are bent on marrying into the rich, for this kind of person, know her thoughts, why do they still jump in.
Therefore, it is still necessary to chase the right person, after all, only the door is right to not be dissatisfied with the girl or the girl does not look at herself.